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Divorced and Seeking: The Search for a New Wife

Because everyone with a beating heart can love AGAIN.

By Florence WilliamsonPublished 3 years ago 5 min read
by Florence Williamson

Did you know that 50 percent of marriages registered in the United States end in divorce or separation?

For every fifteen seconds, there’s a couple in America who just got divorced. If you do the math, that equates to 240 divorces per hour, 5,760 divorces per day, 40,320 divorces per week, and 2,102,400 divorces per year.

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Each year, over four million Americans remain single after a divorce. Only three out of four remarry, while the remaining 25 percent of the divorcee population find it hard to get back in the dating saddle.

Old age, difficulty moving on, and not knowing where to find new romance are a few of the main reasons why some of them are still single.

If you’re going through the same situation, we might have a solution for you — it’s called online dating.

The Problem

One-third of people who use online dating services never end up going on a date with the person they meet online. It could be the lack of courage, lack of romantic connection, or maybe even due to the dating site's imperfect matching algorithm. Whatever the reason is, some people would agree that online dating is difficult.

The Solution

Skip popular dating apps that let you swipe left and right to get matches and opt for dating sites that have real and live matchmakers to guide you throughout the online dating process. You’ll have higher success in finding a suitable life partner this way.

Why choose dating sites with matchmaking services?

Instead of spending countless hours sifting through hundreds of dating profiles that do not spark interest, matchmakers will help cut down your search hours and present you with potential matches that meet your criteria.

Aside from that:

1. You get matched with real women. People who sign themselves up to dating sites with matchmaking services go through identity verification, screening process, and background checks. It’s a necessary security measure that ensures everyone on the site is who they claim to be.

2. Higher level of compatibility. Professional matchmakers will read and analyze your criteria for a perfect partner and help you find a match that’s right for you. Unlike computer-generated matches, there’s expertise and personalization involved in the process.

3. Higher chances of finding real love. The majority of people who sign themselves up for these sites join with the intention of finding a serious relationship that could eventually lead to marriage. You no longer have to second guess whether your match wants a committed relationship because it’s already apparent.

Recommendation: A Foreign Affair

There are a lot of dating sites online you could sign up to, but only a few of them can give you the quality service you’re looking for. That being said, here’s a recommendation: sign up to A Foreign Affair.

It’s a hands-on matchmaking agency that’s been around for more than two decades. It’s one of the most reputable and trusted international agencies in the online dating industry.

Through A Foreign Affair, you’ll get introduced to a lot of promising foreign women who are serious about making genuine romantic connections.

You have two options:

  1. You can meet and talk to women online; or
  2. You can meet them in person by joining a singles vacation tour.

I. Talk to Women Online

The first option is pretty straightforward. All you have to do is make an account. Afterward, you’ll get access to thousands of single women’s profiles.

Once you’ve made your account, you’ll be given the option on how you wish to proceed. You can either personally pick the woman you want to talk to or ask for the help of a professional matchmaker. If you choose the latter, you’ll need to wait within the day for the matchmaker to find you suitable matches.

II. Actually Meet Women by Joining AFA’s Singles Tours

Your next option is more interesting.

It’s an international tour package where you get to meet a lot of single foreign women. A Foreign Affair conducts these tours around Latin, European, and Asian countries, specifically in Colombia, Peru, Ukraine, Russia, Philippines, Thailand, and China.

The highlights of a singles tour are the Socials and the City Tours.

  • Here’s how the Socials work

The female to male ratio, on average, is 20 to 1. This means you’ll have higher chances of hitting it off with a woman since you won’t have a lot of competition around.

What typically happens is that women are the ones who make an effort to impress you. However, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t put your best foot forward. You still need to make an effort to engage.

Don’t worry about cold approach anxiety. There are matchmakers, translators, and local staff on standby during the Socials who can assist you in any way possible. They will make sure you get the most out of the event.

For example:

If one of the participating women caught your interest and you’re too shy to approach her, you can seek the help of the matchmakers and local staff. You can even request them to arrange a one-on-one date with that woman. All you have to do is ask and they will try their best to accommodate you. Again, this company is quite hands-on.

If things go smooth-sailing with the woman you met in the Socials, you can invite her to accompany you on the City Tour.

  • Participating in the City Tour

Included in the singles vacation package is a guided tour.

Every city in the country where we conduct our tours has something special for you. You get to explore famous local attractions. Plus, you won’t be alone. You’ll be surrounded by peers — men like you, and foreign women looking for love.

A singles vacation tour is basically similar to an international excursion where you get to explore a foreign place. But its uniqueness lies in the fact that its main goal is for you to meet women in the process. Not just any woman, but women who are genuinely looking for serious relationships that could eventually lead to marriage.

How to Start Your Journey

Start by signing up. Once you've made an account, you’ll get access to the site’s many services.

Finding a new romance has never been this easy and convenient.

If you’re divorced, single, and seeking, this might be your best option to find true love (again).

Florence Williamson, Professional Matchmaker and Dating Consultant for A Foreign Affair

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Florence Williamson

Professional Matchmaker and Dating Consultant for A Foreign Affair

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