Disrespect

Disrespect will close doors that apologies can't reopen. let that sink in. (Power of Motivation. Carlos Dominguez.)

This quote is dear to me because it is so true. Many of us talk about being disrespected, but noone ever stops to think about the actions or the consequences beforehand. Disrespect will always close doors that apologies can't reopen, so once you disrespect me, you will see the results.

I do not have the time or the energy to allow you to keep disrespecting me and then play the victim when I call you out on your disrespect. If you do not want me treating you that way, then why in the hell would you think that it is okay for you to do it to me?

Oh, I get it now. You thought that if I was going to say nothing because you thought that I was still in a mental battle trying to heal myself, so you thought that this would be a great time to come to me with bull shit. First of all, I don't trust you, and there are lawyers to whom I trust and believe me, you have gone around with your ass on your shoulder, thinking that no one is going to confront you, but I am just the person who is going to come for you because you can do for me first.

Now, let's keep in mind that there are many different levels of disrespect, but the one that really gets under my skin is the one that thinks it's hiding in plain sight. It's like they sit back, watch every move you make, and then have the nerve to throw shade at you for making the necessary changes for your life to better yourself. These people are snakes, and they sit back monitoring everything that you are doing instead of minding their own business and taking care of themselves.

I am a forgiving person, but I am not a fool. You have played in my face way too many times, and that's on me because I allowed you access to me, but not anymore. You have crossed all of my boundaries as if they were not real, and therefore, it showed me that I am not real to you as a person. With all this said, I disconnect from you because you don't know how to be loyal to yourself.

You expect everyone else to bow down to you because you think in your delusional mind that they are weaker than you are, so you think you have the upper hand on them, saying stupid shit out of your mouth. Then, after I clearly say what I need to tell you about your words and actions, you are all in your feelings, but then you come back later with a half-ass apology, like that is going to make things right between us again. You are so silly for thinking that because you are the weak link in your own world, not mine.

So moving into the new year of 2026, I am telling all my haters right now, if you think that you were mad when I was struggling, well, guess what, you are going to be big mad in fact you are going to be so pissed off at the blessing that are coming my way that you are going to back up off me. I do not have to apologize to you or anyone else for being stronger and wiser now in my choices in life. There is no going back and forth with you anymore because now you are irrelevant to me at the stage of my life, so if you have issues with me, I have no fucks to give you about it. Happy New Year, everyone.