Destiny

So it was all written in destiny?

Our grandparents, their sisters, cousins were all married at the age of twelve or thirteen. Hardly anyone has exceeded that age. But even her husband was only a maximum of eighteen or twenty years old, not twice or four times. He then married his daughters at the age of fifteen or sixteen. Later, his daughters also got married at the same age or a little more, for example, at the age of seventeen or eighteen. Due to such a young marriage and then the birth of children within a year, there have been a few women in our family who have seen their fifth generation.

That is, their grand children became grand parents in their own lifetime. Looking at the rest of the fourth generation is a common thing for both men and women. Examples of this will be found soon.

Our grandmother also saw her fifth generation. That is, one of his grandchildren became a grandfather in his own life and a granddaughter and granddaughter became a grandmother. But she saw the joys and sorrows of her children. At the age of eighteen, when she was a mother of four, she was separated from her husband, Nana Abba, by the irony of circumstances and fate. And this period of separation spanned almost nine years, and the only means of communication was correspondence, with an interval of several months. Meanwhile, one of their daughters died of an epidemic, while a son was born eight months after being separated from Nana, leaving four children.

Then, when destiny finally reunited them, then the life of two sons was a metaphor for hardships and hard work, and as they were living, the eldest son of the two disappeared at the age of sixteen or seventeen. Never found out And shortly after his disappearance, Nana Abba was suddenly diagnosed with third stage cancer and after a short illness he died and was separated from Nani Aman once again.

After waiting for many years and praying for his son's well-being and return in every prayer, he turned to the scholars and asked, "Can I pray for my son's forgiveness and deliver the reward for him?" So he replied that you should have good hopes from Allah. If you have not received any news about your son, then just say goodbye. Then, in a world of despair, he also fell into the trap of some poor spiritual practitioners and wanted to know whether the son is present in the world or not. It is strange that the same answer was received from everywhere that your son is present in the world, that is, he is alive, where is he and when will he return? It can't be told but it is visible. He also described the exact appearance and age.

Now there is no room for doubt. If the death of the uncles had been confirmed, the grandmother would have been patient, but the promise of her life kept her in a struggle of hope and beam for the rest of her life. Then came the culmination of the tragedy that three of his children died in his lifetime, including our mother, a teenage granddaughter died accidentally. Just like her, one of her granddaughters had become a widow in her husband's life on the fourth day of their marriage. The relationship they had arranged had also broken them.

We do not even know the number of newborns of their children who could not survive at the time of motherhood. When Ladli, the youngest of eight brothers and the proud daughter of her parents, stepped into her practical life, a few years later, suffering and trials became her companions. Even the journey of his own life is over. May God bless him with millions of heavens.