Crush on a person

--01-

There is a saying.

The truest, cleanest, most heartbreaking emotion in this world is a crush.

I think deeply.

Because, secretly in love with a person, you can only pay attention to him silently, quietly hoping that the person will one day look back between, can give you a deep look, but do not want each other to know, do not dare to announce to the world.

In the "Gods and Sculptors", the sixteen-year-old Geo Xian looks at the "Gods and Sculptors" Yang over the eyes, full of expectation, but also full of despair.

In the deep moonlight, as if each other's figures, with a sense of mystery, each other's fluttering clothes with a faint aroma. The person, in her eyes, shines brightly, while she, will feel at a loss, just a mere mortal.

The fact is that you can't be sure that you're going to be able to get a good deal on your own.

The secret love is really beautiful.

But the secret love of the people is miserable.

The deeper the love, the drunker the love, the more painful, he will feel that he came to this world, just for the sake of this person, the person's attitude towards him for a moment, decided his day of sorrow and joy, the person's words to him, decided his few days of joy.

The more you love him, the more he will give you in return.

If you hint again and again, silently to each other to do a lot, he gave you the attitude, only these two words: indifference. Then, stop forcing it.

Continue, the deeper you love, the greater the injury will be.

-02-

The so-called, heart of a good man, the eyes will be the road.

The truth is, people are always unable to see the truth.

The heart of a person, as if there is a God in the eyes, even if that person has many defects, he is cold, selfish, paranoid, melancholy ...... in his eyes, but also into the cold, model, cute, has become an attraction to him, to make his heart flutter.

But true love, really is not a blind admiration, not to mention blind.

Especially a crush on a person, if you just see his handsome, cold, he ignored you, so you want to conquer, then more than half of that person, you did not fall in love with his "real", but only obsessed with like his "feelings".

Because the real crush, should be the other and you have experienced something together, from these things, you found a flash of his personality, and be fascinated by his character.

Perhaps you are not so similar interests, not so consistent, but through some get-together, you find that this person is so worth your like.

Then, that person, let you think about it, want to be with him, want to know more about him, want to know what he likes the type will be like.

In this way, you can call it a real crush.

-03-

The person being crushed will feel your feelings for him.

Simply because, most people have a crush on the people around them, perhaps a childhood friend, perhaps a colleague, perhaps a classmate who spends time together, perhaps a neighboring character gentle older brother, older sister ...... people, perhaps not the same, but the emotion of crush is spreading in the same way.

So, he will perceive your affection for him from your eyes, from your words, from your bureaucratic expression .......

You will always involuntarily approach him, always will unconsciously glance at him, always words, unconsciously mention to him, always an action and he will have some similar ...... your heart looks, will fall completely in the eyes of this person.

Just like, some boys in childhood, like a little girl, always make some pranks, pull the girl's hair, in her chair splashed with ink ...... to prove that they are "angry" with her, but there is a suspicion of crush.

The way he teases people is the way he secretly likes a person.

When people grow up, the face of the object of crush but changed look, will be incredibly concerned about him, look at his eyes will be incredibly tender, will have some "interest in common" with him, will want to let him see their most handsome, the most beautiful look ......

So, when you deliberately do something to get his attention, how will he not know, how will not feel it?

-04-

Sancho once said a sentence.

Three things in the world cannot be hidden, cough, poverty, and love.

The most important thing is that there are two results: if he is interested in you, he will give you some response; if he is not interested in you, even if you do more, he gives you only escape and indifference.

A person who is interested in you, even if your crush, did not confess to him, will also look at you; even if you do a lot of silly things for him; in his eyes, it is a kind of cute; even if you have some ridiculous in the eyes of others, in his eyes, are a kind of pity.

So, the end of the crush depends on the other party's perception of you.

If you give everything for him, silently pay, boldly confess, the other side still a painless look, you do not care, or polite, then more than half, he is not interested in you.

The let goes, let go of it.

The relationship, the need for a rivalry, can love the pain, the need for two people with a sincere heart, slowly close to each other, to love deep.

If only one party is trying, and the other party has been running away, then the deeper you love, the worse the fall.

You have to remember: your sincere efforts, need to be treated with tenderness; two people sincerely love each other, to finally become a family.

-05-

The fact is when a person is over the age of young hormones, and then recalls the encounter of a crush, only a slight corner of the mouth pulled, a smile of relief.

In the past, perhaps whenever you think of that person, there will be a touch of sadness, will feel a lot more inside the little secret, whenever you hear others mention that person, there will be a shudder inside.

And, when the time flies, you gradually grow old, if one day on a street corner, you met once he, just a sigh of relief, your heart, will only remember that this person had their silent like even confession unsuccessful, you will only superficial greeting: long time no see.

But, only this, the figure, will be more and more blurred, more and more sealed, will not be in the heart, left with regret.

The reason is that one day, you will meet a person when you need him, he will always be by your side; in your time of trouble, he will always give you warmth. This person gave you and crush, a completely different feeling, that is: he loves you deeply, your love, there is a love response.

This kind of love will be your life, the deepest precipitation, the best rely on.

The person who loves you, he and you rely on the wind and rain, mud walk, he let you know how to cherish, let you feel the peace of mind, so you want to go on the rest of your life, and he hand in hand the future.

Finally, may every man and woman in a crush, can come out of the shackles of the heart, and meet the person who embraces you with his or her heart.