Born to Love, Rooted with Love

I believe everyone is born with love in their hearts. As humans, whether young or old, we all love someone, even if we don't love everybody. Many people who are born to love may encounter people who ruin the love they were naturally born with. This can be tragic, causing mixed feelings, and now the person must learn how to love again; the love is still there, but it's damaged. Even though the love is damaged, it's not gone because they still love family members or certain friends. Showing there is still love in the heart. I know some humans can be capable of hating others, but I believe it was taught or spread to them by others. Sometimes hate can be taught by parents. As a child, my parents never taught me to hate people. If I said I hated someone, it was because I heard someone say it, not because I knew what it means to hate someone. Growing up, I would hear other kids gossiping about how they hated their parents or other kids in school. I can't say I personally hated someone. I know what it feels like to dislike someone, but does that mean I have to hate the person? No, does that mean I choose to love people I dislike? In my opinion, yes, because I was born to love others and raised to love those who hurt me. I was never taught how to be mean or how to hate people.

Honestly, we can't control people's actions, and people are going to be themselves regardless of how others may feel. So let them live their life the way they choose. This is why I love people for who they are. We can't change people we don't agree with or people who hurt us. Life will teach us all a lesson at some point. Do we have to agree with people who show hate? No, does this mean we have to accept their actions? No, how can we love people we dislike? Simple. We can set boundaries and show respect, along with keeping distance. We can also prevent ourselves from being rude, evil, or disrespectful. As humans, we won't all agree on the same thing, but there is no need to be hateful towards someone because of differences or lifestyles. In other cases, people can also have hate towards someone they opened their hearts to, and these people betrayed them. This one can be very painful, especially if all you did was show love and loyalty. I learned to deal with it by showing them love. People are born with love in their hearts, but adapt to hateful traits from people around them or people who caused them hurt. Hate can spread like wildfire if your heart is not grounded and rooted with love for people who are suffering with themselves. The hate that was placed inside them wants to keep hate going.

I don't think hateful people are bad people. There is love deep down in their heart that has been suppressed by hate. If we show love to the people we dislike or hate, I believe that as time passes, they will learn to love others the same way. So, for the ones who are rooted with love, we are the blueprint for spreading love, even though some people don't deserve it. Remember, even though some people have hate in their hearts, they still love someone. Your race, age, or gender doesn't matter; we are all born to love each other. When we show love during hateful moments, it can teach people how to love others. Now, don't get me wrong, some people will never agree to love others, and that's on them. Showing love to them is not a weakness; it's a divine power most hateful people find weird, or can't understand. People can grow into loving others, and some are rooted with love in their hearts.