Between people, respect is standard, dependability is high, and generosity is the top

The wisdom of dealing with people in the world, since ancient times is the heart and soul of the old ancestors, can be said to be painstakingly left us endless valuable wealth.

Especially in a society where people value interpersonal contacts, whether it is running a business or personal development, having good interpersonal relationships is often a very important foundation for our transformed lives.

Human nature sometimes seems too complex, Laozi said the Avenue to the extreme, return to the simplicity of the truth, people and people get along with more innocence, more sincerity, more generous, often better than in the fireworks.

After experiencing difficulties and falling through the valley, we know the value of true feelings engraved in our hearts.

Between people, respect is the standard, reliability is high, generous is at the top.

Respect is the standard.

If a person wants to gain the respect of others, the primary premise is to learn to better respect others.

A person who does not know how to respect others, naturally will not reap the respect of others.

Any good relationship, especially those that become beautiful stories, are often emotionally benign interactions, it is in such interactions, that increase the goodwill and recognition of each other.

Nowadays, in many interviews, why do many companies attach so much importance to a person's first impression and mannerisms there is a person's quality and performance, do not know how to respect others, how can get more development opportunities in life? Even if you meet your nobleman, you will also sneak away because of your disorder.

Some time ago participated in an interview, on such an important occasion, a job seeker even casual and unkempt shuttle, in others are suits, he a sloppy attire naturally caused the examiners disgust, the human psyche is often such, instinctive subconscious as long as you do not respect me, naturally, I will not be too much respect for you, as the so-called courtesy, to his people The way to cure their own body, lifting a stone to smash their own feet.

Respect is the standard, this is the most basic requirement and quality of people to get along with people, know how to respect others, but also respect their own, is responsible for their own lives.

Dependability is of high quality.

Some time ago, I wrote an article about why we should walk with people who are reliable and what kind of inner experience we can get from working with reliable people.

Some people say that everyone in this world wears too many masks and that if you are dependable when you get along with people, you will naturally suffer, but you should know that time is never the best sieve and based on life safety considerations, who is not willing to travel with dependable people in the long run?

In this world, there are no natural so-called stupid people, you think those who are more stupid and easy to lose, may have already done in the heart to sneak away from you ready.

Reliable means trust also means security, whenever you call in WeChat, the other party is always able to respond to you the first time, whenever you need help, reliable people will often instinctively respond to good, to work with reliable people or work, in itself is a kind of reassurance, invisible in the risk of our lives, and those who do not tune in, which always makes you worry about the frown The heart has anxiety.

Friends, not more and more, only less and less, in the end, only reliable people, only suitable to be friends, reliable, is the highest level of being a person, with reliable people as a companion, living a high life, is also our best evaluation of a person.

Generosity is the top match.

French writer Anthony de Saint-Exupery said in his novel "The Little Prince", "There is only one true luxury in the world, and that is the relationship between people."

Nowadays we live in a society where people are more closely connected, so of course, it is more important to know how to live in harmony with others and spend our lives together.

Being generous is the premise of not harming other people's interests, but also allowing others to get more benefits.

Choose a generous person, not that he does not value material interests, but in his world view is often more important to your relationship with him and emotions, the transient gains and losses for him simply do not need to remember.

Doing business is often either a win-win or a lose-lose, a partner who is not willing to suffer or eat more than one must not last long, life is a give-and-take, first give-and-take, not give-and-take.

Sometimes friends ask us to choose what kind of partner is better, the primary answer is often a generous person, people who can suffer losses, a person who does not know how to give up everywhere for profit, at the beginning of the choice somehow means losing.

Choose to be generous, because look at the long term, care about the relationship between people, know how to cherish, with generous people together, in fact, is to live a top-quality life.

In the final analysis, between people, who can get along, the first thing to look at is whether they can respect each other; can deep friendship, mainly depends on whether the other party is reliable; the relationship can go longer, and ultimately depends on how the character.

More positive interaction and friction between people, respect is the standard, reliability is high, generous is at the top.