All the beauty that takes time to settle is worth waiting patiently

When Mr. Mu Xin was drinking in the tavern, he saw the man adding sugar to the rice wine, and he sighed that Jiangnan was no longer there.

Because, in the old days, rice wine was unsweetened.

Today's people have no patience to savor the bitterness and sweetness of wine.

But many things in life need to slow down and taste, and use time to precipitate beauty.

The same is true of being a human being, learn to be patient, and settle and polish yourself in time, so that you can live the way you want.

Precipitate knowledge

When Mr. Lu Xun was studying at the Jiangnan Naval Academy, he often prepared several books and a bunch of red peppers.

When it was unbearably cold at night, or when he was sleepy late at night, he would pick a red pepper and chew it in his mouth.

The spicy taste can keep out the cold, but also keep you awake, and then turn on the lamp to read.

A lot of hard reading, so that Lu Xun has more knowledge precipitation.

Then there are those popular works, and Lu Xun has also become a banner of Chinese modern and contemporary literature.

There is also a story of "eating books", which I will tell everyone.

Zhang Guanghou, a famous mathematician in my country, always has a kind of concentration and obsession with new knowledge.

Once, he saw a paper that he thought was very suitable for his research field. It was more than ten pages in total. He read it repeatedly for half a year until it was completely digested.

The paper was yellowed and the pages were curled because of many pages, his wife joked to him:

"What's this called reading? It's just eating books."

Because of his thirst for knowledge and constant precipitation, Mr. Zhang Guanghou has become a famous contemporary mathematician in China.

The more knowledge a person accumulates, the more likely he is to become a top talent in the professional field.

Accumulating knowledge is far more important than accumulating money.

The accumulation of knowledge does not bring you immediate rewards.

But when knowledge settles to a certain level, all good things will come as expected.

Precipitate contacts

Bill Gates once said:

"Never rely on yourself to spend 100% of your strength, but rely on 100 people to spend 1% of each person's strength."

Really good people will be like a magnet, attracting good contacts.

Zhihu netizen @dingding talked about a personal experience.

After graduating from university, Ding Ding worked in the marketing department of a company. During his work, he came into contact with many big customers.

From the very beginning, Tintin knew very well that these clients would play a vital role in his future career.

Therefore, he is very good at accumulating contacts, and every time he goes to see a client, he takes his business card with him.

In the process of communicating with customers, he can always stand on the other side's standpoint, and on the premise of ensuring the company's interests, he also strives for the best interests of the other side.

And for each plan, he will seek the opinions of customers. The customers are very satisfied with his attitude and get along very well.

As long as the cooperation ends, he will invite the other client to have a meal or a cup of coffee.

In the past two years, he has accumulated a lot of contacts in the industry and has a good reputation.

Later, Ding Ding resigned and wanted to jump to a big company. Many people in this company had their heads broken and wanted to enter.

Ding Ding got the opportunity of internal promotion through the customers he had worked with before, and he successfully joined the job very easily.

Stanford University Research Center has drawn a major research result:

12.5% ​​of what a person can achieve in the end comes from knowledge and 87.5% from connections.

Ren Zhengfei also warned young people:

"Young people have to save their skills but not money, and they don't save money if they have connections. If you don't have connections, you can't do things, and if you don't have connections, it's useless."

In one's life, one will meet countless people, some of whom are passers-by and some are nobles.

You have to learn to accumulate your own network, reduce low-quality social networking, and make friends with those who are capable and valuable.

It is these people who take you to a higher position and meet a better version of yourself.

Precipitation experience

Last year in the NBA Finals, there was one game that stuck in my memory.

At that time, the Lakers led the Heat by a large score of 116-98. In addition, many of the Heat's main players were injured, the situation was very favorable for the Lakers. The players on the field were obviously a little slack, and the players on the bench had already started to celebrate in advance.

This made James very dissatisfied, and he reminded his teammates on the court: "Before everything is over, you must stay focused."

James' dissatisfaction comes from a painful lesson in his early years.

In his first season with the Heat, he led the team to the NBA Finals against the Mavericks.

The Heat once led the Mavericks by 15 points, with a very obvious advantage, and it seems that there is no suspense to win the championship.

Just when the players started to relax, they didn't expect the opponent to be unyielding, reverse the situation, and go all the way to beat the Heat to win the 2011 championship.

It was precisely because of this experience that James was still fresh in his memory and prevented his teammates from celebrating in advance.

In an interview after the event, James said:

"Experience is the best teacher in life, and I've been through a lot, and it's those experiences that make me who I am today."

The so-called success is actually accumulating experience and constantly correcting oneself.

Marx said: "A man must learn to walk, but also learn to wrestle, and only after wrestling can he learn to walk."

A person is not afraid of making mistakes, but he is afraid that after making a mistake, he will not have the ability to reflect, cannot draw lessons from experience, and will make the same mistakes all the time.

Precipitating experience allows you to avoid the pits you have stepped on in the past and grow rapidly.

A person who is good at summarizing experience from failure will never be defeated by life.

Precipitate mood

I read a passage that I like very much:

"There is nothing to complain about, every step of today is paying for every previous choice, which is also called responsibility;

There's nothing to complain about, every step of today is a successful layout for every point in the future, which is also called precipitation. "

After all, life is a state of mind, and a life is a state of mind.

I saw such a story.

A scholar has always been impetuous in his work, and is often exhausted and miserable for small things that have not been achieved.

One day, he found a wise man to tell him about his pain. The wise man took him to a dilapidated and outdated hut, and there was a glass of water on the table in the house.

The wise man said to the scholar, "You see this glass of water has been here for a long time, and dust falls into the glass every day, but the water is still clear and translucent. Do you know the reason?"

The scholar observed it carefully and said, "Because the dust has settled at the bottom of the cup."

The wise man nodded and said, "Life is like this glass of water. Only by knowing how to settle can you make the water clear."

After hearing this, the scholar suddenly became enlightened, and realized that his pain was just to tolerate self-disturbance and his heart was not clear.

Feeling impetuous, just like water in a glass that is constantly shaking, it will naturally become cloudy in the end.

There are two reasons why some people can't calm down:

"One is that the mind is full of delusions for no reason; the other is that the attachment is too deep and it is worrying about gains and losses."

You must always remember that life, no matter how good or bad, will pass, and experiencing life well is the best practice in life.

Life is bound to have flaws. Often when you get one, you lose the other. The most important thing is to know what you need.

Precipitate your mood, live your life with a normal heart, look at gains and losses calmly, and face life's ups and downs calmly.

There is an old saying: "The river is surrounded by sand, and it cannot be clear unless it is precipitated; the calamity of life cannot be avoided unless it is chosen."

The clarity of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate.

The transparency of the heart is not because there are no distracting thoughts, but because it is clear about the choice.

Jiacuo said: "Precipitation is not depression, but to examine impetuousness with a calm heart, to find one's own position in tranquility."

Precipitation is the accumulation of thin hair, and it is the best sublimation of a person.

May each of us find our own position in the precipitation of time and live our lives brilliantly.