After separation

In this world, many relationships begin with joy and end with sadness.

This is like two trains that have gone through a curve, at first glance, thought to be combined at the end, but, after a brief reunion at the curve, still, you are you, I am me, gradually moving away, disappearing into the sky.

The later they left each other, after this life will be no more intersection, a relationship, if destined to no result, then, forgetting each other in the Jiang, is the best gesture.

When you love each other well together, apart from not entangled, there is nothing wrong with this, people should know how to cherish the days together, but also the feelings can afford to let go, this is the right attitude towards love.

Don't think about separating when you're together, separate and miss the good old days, so people are ultimately unhappy, and will regret their choice after separation.

A, after separation, do not miss

Some of the separations, not because of love, but because of helplessness, you have your purpose, he has his direction, who can not convince anyone, who can not accommodate who, no matter how much love, face reality, only separate.

The first thing you need to do is to get rid of it.

See a photo, will think of him; see a leaf, will think of him; see and his size, or will think of him ...... but even so, can only be their silent tears, comfort themselves, must be put down.

Otherwise, what can be done? If you can not separate, who is willing to bear the pain of separation?

The cousin is separated from her predecessor and depressed for some time, but she is the kind of girl with a strong self-healing ability, treating her feelings is also very take to let go.

She understands that two people can no longer be together, no matter what the reason for the separation, the future can only do strangers, even friends are not necessary to do.

In that case, it is ruthless, long pain is better than short pain, tell yourself no longer miss, tell yourself to put down, only in this way, she can return to the calm life of the past.

Time will eventually be the cure for longing, later he will meet someone else, and later you will also meet someone else, the later person, perhaps not the one in your heart he so deeply occupied your heart, but, over time, will eventually bloom in your heart another flower too.

Your he, too. He will eventually meet the right person for him, and then hold hands for life, so, since the separation, let yourself go, and do not miss him bitterly.

Persuade yourself to forget him, you can cry, but, never regret, know when to love, know when to let go, to better move forward.

Second, after separation, do not see each other again

When you love each other, you love me, deep love, however, wait until one day, do not love, love light, break up has become a foregone conclusion, after the breakup, many people became the most familiar strangers.

Sometimes, the world is very big, how to meet people can not see, and sometimes, the world is very small, not see people how to hide.

After the breakup, the most afraid of a sudden meeting at a certain moment, goodbye, perhaps his side, there has been another her, perhaps your side, there has also been another him.

The most important thing is that you can't talk, but you know each other; you want to talk, but it's awkward; even if you pretend not to know, your heart is overturned, and the past is like a cloud of smoke. How can it be so easy to forget a person?

She thought she could pass by him expressionlessly, she thought she wouldn't have any more waves in her heart, she thought this person had nothing to do with her anymore, but she still couldn't pretend she didn't see him.

The other party took the initiative to greet her and asked her how she was doing, and she just casually "hmm", her thoughts drifted to nowhere, and she hated herself for being so easily seen by the other party in her mind.

Maybe he has a current one by his side, and he still thinks about him in his heart, so indisputably, Xian Feng scolded himself in his heart.

In the past, you think you have long been light, but, in the moment of meeting him, you realized that he has always been a thorn in your heart.

You will unconsciously compare with him, then career, then family, then children, then another ...... whether you win or lose, inside are not too happy.

In fact, why bother? The two of them are the same. Why bother to see each other again? In addition to adding to the trouble, you have nothing to gain.

If you're not a part of the world, don't see each other again, all the past, let it dust in the memory with time.

Third, forgetting each other in the jungle is the best gesture

In this life, people will meet many people, some people, to our lives, just a flash in the pan, the beauty is very beautiful, but not long, meet is fate, keep each other is fate.

In "The Siege", Fang Heilongjiang fell in love with Tang Xiaoping and saw that the two were in love and close to a good thing. However, her cousin Miss Su makes a stunt and makes Tang Xiaoping leave with hatred.

In "The Snail's Nest", Xian Ba loved Hairdo so much, but he watched her leave in someone else's car.

Some people, do not love each other, just love is not deep enough; some people, do not love each other, just not destiny; some people, obviously love, but can not afford to wait.

After loving, you know that it's easy to love each other, but it's hard to get together.

Not all stories, can have a result, not all love, can go to the end, the world, love powerless, love incompetent, is the real pain.

Some stories are destined to have no ending; some love is destined to be unable to come together. Some people, a loose hand disappeared; some people, a turn to become someone else, a lot of things, not efforts will be harvested; not to fight will have results.

For the lovers who are not destined to be together, in "The Crane's New Arrival", Lu Yong Yong tells his daughter: "To be with each other is a good thing, to forget each other in the rivers and lakes is a fortunate thing".