AFRICAN PRINCE and an AMERICAN PRINCESS

I saw that a very handsome individual was requesting my friendship on Facebook.  He was absolutely scrumptious, lips looked as if he could suck your whole body in. They were voluptuous.  So I accepted his friendship.

He immediately texts me and asked that I check him out on Facebook dating. So I did and he was not only all of that and a bag of chips, I enjoyed his post, his articulation relative to what he was looking for in women and willing to do/give for the right women. It was a complete turn-on. I asked him to text me back on my phone line because I felt it would be more private. Well, he called me instead and proceeded to share with me how impressed he was with my profile on Facebook and how he couldn't believe he was actually talking to me. We had small talk because it was so late. He asks me to call him whenever I wanted to the next day.

I fell asleep thinking this might be the one. He had me smiling while I tried so desperately to put myself to sleep.

Then I woke up with so much anticipation, that I planned every moment up to the minute I spoke to him. I secretly said, " oh my goodness!  I could fall in love with this guy".

Well, I called him the next day before I was to attend a luncheon meeting.  I was so smitten with him that I didn't think to ask where he was calling me from. In our conversation, I immediately found out he was in Africa.  I said, thinking there was a misunderstanding of what he was saying, and I asked again, "did you say Atlanta"?  He said,  "no Africa". I thought,  oh well, we're going to just have a long-distance relationship.  I thought this would be delightful too. I was still not ready to have someone in my life on the regular yet.  I ask him why his profile stated that he was 75 yrs. old?  I thought that this was a little old even for me but he looked so good in his profile photo and  I'm 68 yrs. old.  I asked him his age he said 38 yrs old. I gasped and thought, oh my,  I'm 30 years his senior!  I immediately thought to myself and said, "hold up wait,  a minute I don't think so".  I explained how old I was, and how I have kids older than him.  I was just as insistent as he was and told him that I'm not comfortable doing this again in my life. This would be too much to lose their respect again. We talked and talked and talked, before you knew it, I was suggesting that we just settle for phone sex. I thought he seemed a little reluctant but at that point, I was looking at him and those big juicy lips. See, I couldn't help watching him lie there, his chest was broad and pumped. I simply couldn't resist insisting that he put more clothes on because it was becoming very difficult for me to watch him move about in his bed. He just smiled with those voluptuous lips of his and he began to move the camera to his jewels stroking them and I thought I was about to lose my mind. He continued to stroke his jewels I mean like stroking his jewels through his shorts, up and down, and then my stuff was quivering and I asked him to reveal them to me. He quickly obliged me and I began to get warmer and warmer until I felt my stuff begin to erupt. I told him we had to stop this I had not planned on this happening right now this moment but he should not be mistaken, but I enjoyed the hell out of it. Eventually, he agreed to get off the phone. Only after constantly displaying his jewels and stroking his shaft again and again.  It had gotten so late and I had to take my dripping wet panties directly to my luncheon meeting. Thanks to Covid and having to sit so far apart I was hopeful that no one could smell my "joyful morning".

He called me later that afternoon and said, "Hey sweetheart did you read my text". I said, "no not yet", he said, "call me after reading it".  It said "Would you be able to pay my bills?" I said to myself, "well the cat comes out of the bag"! I didn't respond to the text right away, so he text me again and said, " cause coming on video is was about expensive here in Africa. I said how expensive he typed $1500.  I said, out of curiosity "for how much time"?  He said,  "for a few days". I said, "well damn, how much does a month cost"? he said, "about $3,000."  I gasped, and he began to explain their internet cost being high along with the gigabytes, etc.etc.etc. While we were discussing that he sends this other text as an option requesting that I could get him iTunes for $200 so he can substitute for an internet subscription that would last us for two days okay. Well after waiting a while later that day (keep in mind I just met him)  I texted him back and said, "well, I've had time to think about your requests. So let me say, "I'm writing you with tears and a heavy heart".  "Here is an explanation and lesson for you to go forward with relative to finding a suitable Black Woman here in America".

The 3 types:

-Black women that are of age and retired,  are taught not to financially support in any way, a man. That they should be financially endowed before they get with us.  What we do in exchange is to take care of our man every day and in every way possible, particularly spoil him if he lets us and please our man in all sexual ways.  Even if we have a nest egg we don't tamper with it.

-Now if you are a Desperate Older Black Woman, in need of affection, they will do anything to help a black man.  Even if it breaks them and their bank.

-now there are many Younger Black Women who have jobs and careers who have an excess of ongoing and larger funding sources and credit will normally assist you.  They will also probably be more likely to bring you to the states and even house you. They might also visit you in Africa and even be the actual Queen you are seeking.

Now there are a few other types but no need to mention them all but I think the above three are your choices. Specifically, because you seem grounded, honest with good intentions to come to America and start your own dog breeding business.

You are a beautiful Black man and you seem to have a kind heart, good spirit, and a damn good sexual appetite. Any girl would be lucky to have you. If you ever get to the state please don't forget me. I had a fantastic morning with you, one I will never forget. I know I could love you with my whole heart and could have supported your wonderful endeavors. I wish you so much deserved happiness in your life.  Much Luv babe.

(remember I told you I'm for real)

He texts me and he texted me asking again saying does that mean what they thought you override your actual feeling?? He called me and ask this question again. I said to him, I'm still trying to find myself.  I just came out of a relationship that I'm still not sure of what I did wrong for him to have left me.  Ok, I've finally said it. He left me! I search my soul and I still don't understand why he left. I'm just not ready for a relationship and I don't want you to waste you still with me when u are trying to move ahead with your future. I fell for you as I told you the instant I saw you. I was mesmerized. I did not know anything about you. I now understand what they say when they say "I loved you from first sight."He texts me saying please don’t cry, okay.

He calls and said was this because of my money request. I said no not entirely.   As I said before in our initial conversation it's our age difference and my grown children who are older than you.  I told him that I was in a marriage where I worked and my husband did not work and later I found that he was taking my $100,000 a year job and soaking it into drugs. So I have had no problem giving money to a man but I will never do so again.

He texts me back and saying, please don't cry.  Then he texts me and asks why were you crying?  I said because I'm heartbroken, that this has to end   I attempted to explain again that I make my own decisions it's as simple as that's kind of take care of me and explain to him that he was still young and need it to find someone that would grow with him. The phone hung up I thought it was on my end so I called back and he said let me explain to you American women tend to lie.......I just immediately cut him off, I felt very insulted and I shouted to him this is not about me being an American woman, and I did not and have never lie to you. He cut me off shouting "this is too crazy, I'm pissed".  Then he hung up the phone, to my relief. I felt a little guilty, lecturing him like that, but he did not answer. 

Well, I guess this American Princess bummed out, it would have been nice to just be his long distanced friend with phone benefits, but I guess he was not ready, lol.  All I know is the truth and that's what I shared. He will get over it. He's simply was flabbergasted and couldn't believe that he got, nothing out of this encounter, except a lecture from an old lady that got her thing off.  I think he and I shared very different cultural beliefs. This American Woman knows that is important for a woman to stand up for herself and stick to her beliefs. I know he will occasionally look back at my advice and find the women of his dreams and he will thank me for not complicating his life!