A person so to you, seemingly respect, but in fact, are the interests of the transaction

"There are no eternal enemies, only eternal interests." In the world of adults, there are only interests and not many real friends.

There is nothing strange in the big world. Sometimes people treat you well, not because you are that good, but just because you are still of use to them. At first, I thought this statement was too superficial, but now I have a deep appreciation for it.

The friends you made when you were in the best of times became the enemy when you were down; the friends you made when you were poor became the enemy when you were developed. So, in most cases, the so-called friends are temporary, "friends" is just a name, don't take it too seriously, take it seriously you lose.

In this world, which has so much love to say, if you have a use for others, you are bad again, there are people to hold you; you are useless to others, your attitude is not good enough to eat, sweep you out will not pity you half a point.

"Good performance, you are the treasure, bad performance, you are grass". This sentence, is very suitable for some sales workplace companies, in front of some managers or bosses, if your performance is good, the boss can give you tea and water, but if your performance is not good, packing up the package away in a matter of minutes.

Fatty Wang in a food supply chain company to do sales, in just entered the company, the performance is very good, the boss often hushes, depending on him as the company missing excellent talent. And Fatty Wang called their brother, said the company developed well, and later divided Fatty Wang's shares. Of course, Fatty Wang is not so good at fooling people, pie words, he can still hear the words, these words, Fatty Wang heard just laughing and passed.

But with the general environment driven by the business getting worse, Fatty Wang's sales performance also gradually began to be unsatisfactory, and even after several months only took a guaranteed salary, the boss saw these data is very unhappy, and then the director of the joint Fatty Wang to get rid of.

The human heart is always separated from the belly, in front of a set, behind a set of people, really quite a lot.

The world is bustling for profit to come, the world is bustling for profit to go.

As the saying goes, people die for money, birds die for food, and sometimes even blood brothers, in front of money will also fight. Since ancient times, there have been many cases of brothers and sisters fighting over inheritance and even killing their relatives, etc. These cases are countless.

No interest entanglement, we are life and death brothers, once there is a dispute of interest, hate to cut off the robe.

The so-called human relations, frankly speaking, is the value of the exchange, you have what I need, I have what you need, we have each other. If you do not have the value of being used, the so-called network is a joke.

People to people, please remember three points.

One, people can not be close, close is suspiciously born

In the process of dealing with relatives and friends, to maintain just the right relationship, not too close, otherwise, there will be suspicion. Almost everyone has a private mind, as well as belonging to their confusion, and does not want to be known by anyone. No matter how good the relationship is, it is impossible to do without reservation, even if you and like-minded friends, what to ask can be asked, should not ask do not ask, not to mention not to interfere with some of the private affairs of others, everything is too much.

Second, the heart can not be entrusted, to be a disaster

Do not say what is in your heart to others, it is best to rot in the stomach, otherwise it will lurk in trouble, easy to get into trouble. If you think a friend is very reliable, to tell him their less honorable things, thought he would certainly help you keep the secret, the results are likely to let you down, your things will be spread, the light is a broken friendship, the heavy reputation is affected, and even some people use the matter to threaten you.

The old ancestors used to say: "Whenever you meet someone, you should only say three things, not all throw a piece of heart." There is nothing wrong with honesty and kindness, but you can't trust others easily, or you will lose out. In your opinion, "people can not be confidential, the heart can not be entrusted" the statement is justified?

Third, love can not be abused, abusive people jealous

In terms of feelings, we should not freely give sympathy, or it not only does not go well but will offend people. People are not grass who can have no feelings, most people have compassion, see the beggar on the roadside, will give as much as possible, and even from the o see the tragic drama, will also be sad to tears. However, in ordinary life, if the compassion is too strong, often help someone, over but time, the other party will take for it granted, once you no longer help him, he will blame you and even hate you, this is the so-called "love can not be abusive, abusive people jealousy".

Conclusion.

I have to admit that many of life's troubles and suffering are derived from interpersonal relationships, more from interests. Most of the busyness of adults revolves around money. Although money can not make you feel emotional, you reduce the difficulties of life.