A Divorced Woman's Advice: Before You Dislike Your Honest Husband, See Your Position First

Men and women are often very different. After they get married, women look at their husbands more and more, and men like their wives more and more.

This makes men more and more dependent on their families, while women increasingly dislike their husbands.

We found that those middle-aged people in their marriages are always blaming their husbands for being unmotivated, usually women; those who are always complaining about their poor life are also women; those who talk about divorce all day long are also women.

But listen to the advice of the woman who divorced because she disliked her husband, and it may make you look at your husband and marriage from a different angle, so as not to make a choice that you regret.

When people reach middle age, women often lose their clear understanding of themselves. They think that the man around them is useless, and they are still a delicate flower, and everyone loves them.

In fact, once a middle-aged woman is divorced, it is difficult for them to gain an active position in the marriage market.

After all, a man with a successful career and a good background will choose those young and beautiful women who are pure and lovely, with simple backgrounds, pure hearts, and beautiful young women as his other half.

In this regard, middle-aged women do not have any advantage.

But because they don't have a clear understanding of themselves, this makes them always look high in their marriage, and they never imagine what situation they will face once they get divorced.

In fact, I had a wrong assessment of myself before, and I always thought that I would not worry about getting married, because I would marry such an old and solid man because I had seen it wrong.

This man doesn't seem to have any backbone. As long as I say go east, he won't go west. As long as I say it's black, he doesn't dare to say it's white. I used to hate his character very much, because I didn't like this A man without determination.

I even imagined what a wonderful life I would have had if I hadn't chosen him in the first place.

After all, when I was young, there were also many bright and cheerful men who liked and pursued me. So driven by this kind of psychology, my husband and I divorced, and I wanted to let go of myself and find an attractive man.

However, after I divorced him, I met a lot of men and realized how good my former husband was to me.

It's not that he doesn't have his own opinions, but because he cares about me too much, he chooses to respect my opinions.

He was not too honest, but because he loved me too much, he couldn't bear to scold me or beat me. And of the men I've met since then, I've never found a man so humble and ready to go as he did to me.

When I divorced my ex-husband, I dismissed him as useless, and even said that even if I was single for a lifetime, I would not be able to continue to be in marriage with him, so my words hurt his Heart.

Although his eyes were full of nostalgia and reluctance, he still resolutely signed the divorce agreement.

Later, I experienced many failed relationships and suffered a lot of injuries, and finally realized how good he was to me.

But when I wanted to go back, he refused to accept it.

I also understand that I am self-rewarding. Once such a good feeling was placed in front of me, I didn’t know how to cherish it. What a painful lesson.

I only know now: women don't know how to cherish, and don't slander the person who has loved you for many years, otherwise some things are really difficult to turn back.

Therefore, women must have a clear understanding of themselves. In marriage, no one is more noble than the other. When two people get married, they should complement each other, know each other and cherish each other. how about you?

Now that you have chosen this person, try your best to find his goodness. Even if he looks dull and honest, it's just because he cares too much about you.

When you give up this relationship easily, you will one day regret your current choice.