A 70-year-old man said: A lover who can accompany a lifelong lover will have these kinds of feelings when they get along

I often pass by a park and find that an old couple shows up for a walk in the company on time every day at 7:00 am and 7:00 pm. The two of them looked to be around 70 years old, and the grandmother's body was relatively weak, and every step she took was a little trembling.

The grandfather's body seemed to be quite tough. He lowered his waist slightly and helped the grandmother to walk slowly and carefully. Whenever there was a step or obstacle in front of him, he reminded him carefully and instructed softly.

Their love and mutual support have become the talk of the neighborhood. As long as the old couple is mentioned, no one is not envious.

They have gone through many ups and downs together from blue silk to white hair, and the hardships they have experienced have not changed their feelings for each other. The affection hidden in the heart has become stronger and stronger under the influence of the years.

Someone asked this enviable old couple, what is the trick they rely on to be able to accompany their lover for life? They tell us: Lovers who can accompany life-long lovers will have the following feelings when they get along.

One: three perspectives fit

The old grandfather and the old grandma were married blindly. They only met once at a banquet before they got married, but their family backgrounds are quite similar, and their family has been literate for generations. Their marriage belonged to a rare match in that era. combine.

They have been well educated since childhood, and the three views are also very consistent. No matter what happens, the two opinions are basically the same.

With this foundation, their family has less quarrels and conflicts than others. After other people get married, their family becomes a mess, but their family can always be peaceful and peaceful, and the years are quiet.

In this life, it is very rare to meet a confidant whose three views are in harmony, and it is even more difficult to meet a partner who agrees with his three views.

Only two people with three views that fit together can walk through the long river of time hand in hand and walk through every day and night of love. If two people with different views forcefully enter the marriage, I am afraid that there will only be quarrels that make people want to escape every day. How can such a marriage come to an end.

Two: have a heart

The best love is when you understand my hesitancy, and I understand your insincere words. This is the rare tacit understanding when two people get along with each other, and it is the most sincere expression of having a heart-to-heart.

Being in the same heart also means that both parties in the marriage need to pay close attention to each other in order to know exactly what the other is thinking.

The grandma once shared shyly that between her and the grandfather, she has really reached a perfect tacit understanding. Usually, he understands what she wants with just one look from her. The grandfather's silence, she can easily read his unspoken words.

This level of tacit understanding also allows them to successfully avoid the risk of quarrels in marriage. After they understand each other's code words, they try their best to take each other's wishes as the standard of doing things, and they can take the initiative and tacit understanding to put what they think in each other's hearts. First, this is one of the secrets that they can accompany to grow old.

Three: Respect each other

According to the grandfather and grandma, in their nearly 50 years of marriage, they rarely have a red face, and this can largely be attributed to their mutual respect for each other.

When he was young, no matter how long the grandmother wanted to live in her parents' home, the grandfather would definitely stay with her to the end. He would never complain that his wife's heart was in her parents' home, but would understand her homesickness and respect her decisions about her parents' home.

The respect that grandma gave to grandpa was that she never asked him how much money he gave to his in-laws. He wanted to be a dutiful son and she would accompany him. He hoped that grandma would give him enough face as a man in front of relatives and friends, and she was willing to cooperate.

They understand each other, respect each other, and never ask each other to live according to their own wishes. They are two loving couples, but they are two individuals with their own thoughts independent of marriage.

Such mutual respect makes their married life very happy. Others' marriage is a besieged city or a tomb, but their marriage is a source of happiness.

A marriage where the three views are in harmony, the heart is in harmony, and the mutual respect is mutual, can of course stand the test of time and external temptations, and of course can help the marriage go longer.

In life, whether in career or marriage, you need to have a role model you can look up to. By following the path taken by the example and moving forward, we can reach the other side of happiness faster.

I hope that the love between grandpa and grandma can guide you in the direction of happiness and add happiness chips to you.