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8 Reasons To Hire A Matchmaker

Are you tired of the online dating struggle?

By Beautiful MysteryPublished 5 years ago 3 min read
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For my first story I'm going to be talking about 8 reasons why you should consider hiring a matchmaker.

A little about me: Hello! My name is LaRiccia and I am currently a certified matchmaker. I got introduced to matchmaking after replying to an ad for a matchmaker's assistant in October of 2020, and I was hooked ever since. I had no idea this was going to be my calling, but am very grateful for the opportunity to be able to help other people find their true love. My experience ranges from working in fine dining where I got to see first hand how much people enjoy going out on dates, to also having experience as a personal assistant for a man that called me the best personal assistant in the universe! A matchmaker is like a personal assistant for dating, which is right up my alley. My priority is to make sure you feel safe and feel comfortable sharing your personal information with me and that you can rest assured everything will be kept confidential and that you are on the right path to finding the right person for you.

Now here are my 8 reasons why you should consider hiring a matchmaker.

1) It's Safer

With all the skepticism of online dating, hiring a matchmaker may be a better option for you. Before meeting your match, you both will be screened which includes a background check and filling out a few brief assessments to find out more about you and what you are looking for. With online dating scams, predators, and dishonest people dominate online dating apps, and with the recent ads I've seen from certain online dating apps you would have to be a fool to trust their assistance.

2) They are experienced and knowledgeable in the dating and relationship realm.

It's no secret that people can play a lot of games when dating or even just in the talking stage. Some people are so desperate to have someone that they will get with anybody just so they won't have to be alone. Not everyone is looking for marriage especially in 2021, and a matchmaker's job is to stay current on dating trends and also be aware of certain toxic personality types i.e. narcissists, to help clients and matches both avoid mental stress.

3) They can provide you with a fun and unique experience.

Hiring a matchmaker is a long term investment. We focus on quality not quantity. It takes time to find the best person for you, however once a match is found that's where the real fun begins. People enjoy meeting new people it's exciting and fresh. Fancy dates, improving yourself and having the ability to enjoy trying something new and different is a great way to help rebuild your confidence.

4) They help build your confidence

After dealing with a bad breakup or divorce, some people may give up on themselves or the opposite gender. It's my job to allow you to vent, cry, whatever it takes to remove that negative energy and replace it with hope and positivity. YOU ARE AMAZING!!! Never forget that.

5) They help you find the right people

A lot of people are unhappy in relationships because the person they are with is NOT their match. For a successful relationship both people need to be on the same level mentally and spiritually, share common goals, and have great communication skills.

6) They offer better value than online dating

Paying for online dating apps can add up and it's not really worth it if the people you actually want to date are not finding you or vice versa. A matchmaker only matches you with people they think would be a great fit for you based on the information they gathered from you in the beginning of the process, and from the vibe they get from the match during the screening process. In other words, hiring a matchmaker is a great investment.

7) They offer self improvement sessions

Aside from dating, a matchmaker's job is to help you improve yourself in order to attract the best people possible. Whether it be improving your appearance, helping you see the spiritual side of things or just sharing helpful resources, A great matchmaker has only your best interest in mind and enjoys seeing you glow.

8) They provide personalized service

Matchmaking isn't a one size fits all type of deal. Everybody is different, has different goals and different standards. By hiring a matchmaker, you will see a difference in your love life and will be able to focus on your other priorities in life besides dating.

So there you have it, I hope you enjoyed reading this and be on the lookout for more of my posts in the future.

XOXO-Beautiful Mystery

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About the Creator

Beautiful Mystery

Thank you for reading my stories and I hope nothing but positive energy comes your way!

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