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7 Signs That Shows He Wants A Serious Relationship

The foundation of any successful relationship is respect. Respect grows out of mutual admiration and trust in each other.

By Samuel OpemeyPublished 5 years ago 3 min read

1. You’re a priority to him: If a guy is serious about you, and serious about making you a bigger part of his life, he’s going to make you a priority. What does that look like? It means that he treats you like an important part of his life, and not like an afterthought. It means that he’s going to treat you as important to him – that he’s going to make time for you even when time is tight. So if you can tell he’s making an effort to make time for you, even when he’s got a lot going on – that’s a very good sign that he’s serious about you.

2. He’s genuinely curious about you: An easy way to tell how a guy really feels about a woman is in the depth of his curiosity about her. If a guy is serious about a woman, he’s wondering whether she’s the real deal or whether she’s someone he can really see himself being with long term. Any guy who’s really serious about you is going to be curious to find out more about you for good reason.

3. He listens to your opinion: The foundation of any successful relationship is respect. Respect grows out of mutual admiration and trust in each other. It grows when each partner sees things to admire in the other. So if he’s asking you your opinion on decisions he has to make, that’s a very good sign. And if he’s taking your opinion into consideration and changing his own because of it, that’s even better. So watch to see whether he takes your opinion seriously. If he does, it’s a good sign he’s serious about you.

4. He’s open and honest with you: #3 in this list is all about respect. This one is all about trust. Without trust, a long term relationship cannot work. A relationship without mutual trust will fall apart every time. When a guy can trust a woman enough to be open and honest with her, it’s a big, big deal. It instantly makes him feel way more serious about you and about the relationship – because guys know how rare that is.

5. He wants to share his passions with you: A guy who’s serious about a woman is going to be feeling out whether there’s long term potential there. A guy who’s serious about you is going to share the things he’s passionate about with you, because he’s going to want to show you more of who he really is. A man’s passions help define who he is (just like the things you’re passionate about help show people who you really are). If he’s sharing them with you, it means he wants to share who he truly is with you… because he’s serious about you.

6. He keeps his promises to you: This ties right in with being a priority in his life. When a guy is serious about a woman, he doesn’t want to disappoint her. She becomes more and more important to him. So if you can tell that your man makes a huge effort to never flake on you and keeps his promises to you… it’s because he’s serious about your relationship.

7. He wants you to meet his friends and family: When you get into a really serious relationship with a guy, you become integrated into his life – just like he becomes integrated into yours. So if a guy wants to introduce you to his friends and family, he’s trying to figure out how well you get along, and how well you integrate into his life. It’s a big step towards a serious, committed relationship, so if he’s making a point of getting you to meet his friends and family, it’s because he’s thinking about you seriously and getting serious about your relationship.

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