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15 habits that scare girls away

What characteristics do you associate with a man attractive to women? A slender figure, a pretty face, a velvet voice? However, the listed qualities do not guarantee success with the opposite sex.

By ROBINSON JAMES HERBERTPublished 5 years ago 3 min read
15 habits that scare girls away
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To be attractive to girls, it is not enough to have a spectacular appearance. Even a sporty handsome man will scare off the opposite sex if he demonstrates the habits, which we will discuss below.

1. Manifestation of aggression

Aggressiveness is not a manifestation of courage and coolness. In the eyes of girls, this is a repulsive habit that can indicate instability and bad character.

If you allow raising your voice, obscene words and similar liberties, then you will have to work on yourself so as not to alienate the girls.

2. Talking about your ex

On a date, you don't need to talk about your ex (good or bad). It is unlikely that such conversations will be pleasant for your companion. She will be especially wary of negative stories, since there is a possibility that you will respond in the same way about her.

3. Arrogance and arrogance

No one will enjoy being in the company of an arrogant person. There is no need to demonstrate your superiority over other people, especially if it is far from reality. Even if you are a champion in any sport, this is not a reason to be arrogant. This behavior will turn off already on the first date.

4. Desire to compete with girls

If you strive to compete with the ladies, then there can be no question of attractiveness. It is ugly to boast that you have a better education or a higher position. There is no need to compare yourself to others, emphasizing that you are better than them. This is done by people for whom it is important to assert themselves at the expense of others.

5. Optional

If you promise, but don't do, forget about requests and dates, girls will consider you frivolous and irresponsible. Why are they unreliable a guy for whom a promise is an empty phrase.

6. Bragging and a tendency to lie

The desire to appear better and the tendency to lie to embellish one's accomplishments is a character trait that poisons relationships. A man will never get better because he lied and boasted.

7. Desire to dominate in everything

When you show a tendency to dominate everything, you deprive her of the ability to express her desires and participate in relationships. Thus, you demonstrate a disrespectful attitude towards her, and this does not paint you.

8. Infantilism

Of course, sometimes you want to deviate from the rules and do something funny and spontaneous. But such antics should not be a constant part of the relationship. Girls like responsible guys who make informed decisions and make plans for the future.

9. Indifference

If you don't give a damn about those around you and the events in your life, don't expect the girl to appreciate you positively. Being a nigga is only cool on TV screens, and even then not always. In reality, such people are repulsive and do not inspire confidence.

10. Excessive demonstration of material well-being

Even if you are financially successful, it is not necessary to brag about it at any convenient or inconvenient occasion. Pride does not paint a single person.

11. Inability to accept defeat

You need to lose with dignity regardless of the situation. There is no need to show anger, aggression and blame. Take your losses calmly, especially in the presence of the opposite sex.

12. Constantly negative mood

If there is no good reason, stop scaring the girls off with a depressed look and gloomy conversations. Even if you have had a bad day, this is not a reason to get lost in your soul mate. A constantly gloomy and negative person has a depressing effect on interlocutors.

13. Complaints about life and events

No less depressing are the constant complaints about life and events. Of course, the girls will be pleased if you turn to them for support. But if it goes on like this all the time, you will be shunned.

14. Frequent manifestations of suspiciousness

It is difficult to build a harmonious relationship with a person who is overly distrustful, suspicious and sees a catch in everything. Often these traits prevent wealthy men from building good relationships with the opposite sex.

15. Lack of sense of humor

Girls are attracted to men with a good and appropriate sense of humor, who, among other things, know how to laugh at themselves. It is easy and pleasant to communicate with such an interlocutor.

Attractiveness does not guarantee success with the opposite sex. It is important to work on your character, habits, improve them, try to be an interesting and pleasant interlocutor. As practice shows, men with a mediocre appearance have every chance of success if they develop positive character traits and avoid the habits that we talked about in today's article.

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ROBINSON JAMES HERBERT

I'm a worshiper of creativity and knowledge. I'm a researcher of many sectors. I like to write my own view on various subjects, and also like to write about techniques and tips. Follow me to get amazing information and tips.

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