10 Types of People Who Destroy Your Relationship

Whenever we need expert advice we try to find the answers to a specialist in the field.

For example, when we need counseling or business guidance we will seek the advice of that friend who is successful now and has made good career choices all his life.

Instead, we will avoid the one who has not yet found his way in life, changes his annual job, and is permanently reoriented towards new fields.

If you need culinary advice or just want to know how to cook a tasty dinner, you won't call that friend who doesn't even know she has a kitchen in the house.

And although we are so accustomed and eager to receive sound advice, when it comes to the relationship in which we are involved we listen to anything and everyone.

There are times when we are so upset that we tend to call all the people we know or even open our souls to the first stranger we talk to. In this way, we seek wise counsel and comfort in the strangest places. At this moment, everyone has an opinion, especially our friends.

Strangely enough, they know exactly how they would react if they were in our place and what they would do better, and many of them will have strong arguments that will make us implement the suggestions we receive. But any relationship has good times and bad times, and we should receive advice from those who can understand that.

Thus, if your goal is to build a happy and healthy relationship, you must first learn that there are some types of people around you whose advice you should not consider.

1. Lonely friends

Those friends who are not involved in a relationship are experts at being alone, but they have a lot of opinions and opinions about what they would do, what they wouldn't do, what they would say, and what they would expect from their partner.

The problem is that they have not been in a relationship, and their opinion is related only to their image and way of thinking. And seriously now, why would you ask the advice of the very person who has always made bad choices in life?

2. Divorced friends

Being just out of a relationship, their opinions will be influenced by their experiences, by the disappointments they had. Many of them have the best intentions to advise you and even have great ideas about how you should react in different situations, about what you should accept or not, and how many compromises you can make.

Divorced friends will try to help and guide you, but there is a possibility that this may not be the path you need to take.

3. Parents

Just because you love your partner and your partner loves you, does not mean that you can indulge in the comfort of a happy relationship and everything will be fine, you will constantly have to make an effort. If your partner decides to take you home to his parents, and you are rude or constantly on the phone, you may regret it later.

If the opinion of your parents matters a lot to your partner, it would be good to try to have a friendly relationship with them from the very beginning. This way, you can be sure that you will have his parents by your side in the future.

But in case you accidentally offend them, no one can promise that they will not speak ill of you.

4. Friends who think your partner is not good enough for you

You've probably come across someone you love, but your friends think they're repulsive. This is when you start to wonder if you made the wrong choice. Once you think about it, you could mentally turn your perfect partner into an ugly person.

5. Friends who constantly want your attention

If your friends complain and often reproach you for spending too much time with your new partner, it means that they are just bored and upset because you could have something better to do. True friends will not make you feel bad because you are happy, but they will be happy for you.

6. Girlfriends flirting with your boyfriend

Friends who flirt with your new conquest, call your boyfriend, and have a conversation for hours when you're not around, most likely looking for ways to make you move away, which inevitably leads to separation.

7. People who don't respect your partner

If your friends ignore your partner or treat you with disrespect whenever you spend time together, their attitude may have a negative influence on your boyfriend.

8. People who speak ill of you

If your friends recount the most embarrassing experiences you've been through and highlight your flaws in front of your new partner, they're most likely jealous. A true friend will praise you and make your lover proud to have you by his side.

9. Friends who flirt with you

Your new partner will feel uncomfortable and insecure if one of your friends of the opposite sex flirts with you. Regardless of whether the insistence and jokes take place on Facebook, on the street, or in a bar, they will make your boyfriend lose confidence in you.

10. Friends who know too much

Most of the time, your boyfriend will not want you to discuss all the intimate details of your relationship with your friends.

To make sure that your friends will not affect your relationship, keep certain things to yourself, especially when it comes to embarrassing situations in which you have caught your boyfriend.