10 truths about human nature

Truth 1: People can defend themselves against the attacks of others, but they are defenseless against the praise of others.

Everyone's heart is eager to be praised, recognized, and looking forward to being affirmed, and respected, and this is precisely the weakness and weakness of human nature. Some praise is out of courtesy, some praise is out of compliment. Over-indulging in the praise of others will only make you live in the illusionary world woven by good words and gradually lose yourself. Thank you for the praise, but also to be grateful for criticism, objective treatment of praise, and a clear understanding of themselves, is the right state of mind.

Truth 2: Understanding your darkness is the best way to deal with the dark side of others.

Life is riddled with hypocrisy and ugliness. However, none of us have the right to accuse others of being unpleasant, because we are so ourselves. When we begin to understand the darkness, we will no longer fear the late night coming. When we can reconcile our dark side and try to understand the dark side of others, we can also better protect ourselves.

Truth #3: A person who can truly love others will naturally believe, without question, that others will love them as well.

Intimacy and enthusiasm, avoidance and indifference, are two different lives. When we put a protective shell on ourselves, we naturally isolate ourselves from the cold world and indifferent people, but we also reject the wonderful world and warm people. Those who can naturally love others from the heart can also be loved by others. Life is a great adventure. Those who dare to take risks are the brave ones and will be rewarded with greater rewards.

Truth 4: The more a person cares, the most inferior to him.

The more a person flaunts something, the more he lacks something inside; the more a person focuses on something, the more often it is also the place that makes him feel inferior. What people fear most is that showing off improves self-esteem, to show superiority. People, it is important to seek a self-balance. Not to show off, not inferior is the recognition of their own. At a certain age, we will eventually learn to avoid those fierce pleasing and like, return to the calm and calm, self-conscious living into the model of happiness.

Truth 5: One of the most special weaknesses of human nature is: caring about how others see you.

When I was young, I tried to be a good kid with good grades for the teacher's praise; when I grew up, I followed the established life path for my parents' approval; however, other people's care is like a cage that tightly binds our hands and feet. When loss comes, you can't help but ask yourself: what do people live for?

The only truth in life is that only you can decide your own life. You are the rudder and sail of your life voyage. Be faithful to the time, be faithful to the heart, to be able to obtain the freedom of the soul, but also to encounter the light that others can not see.

Truth 6: Human nature can only be benefited, not exploited.

The mystery of human nature lies in the fact that everyone does not like to be used by others, but everyone can be driven by interests. The so-called profit is the sum of righteousness. True interest is based on win-win cooperation. Wise people know how to put down their egos and respect each other; put down their selfishness and achieve each other.

Truth 7: Without simplicity, kindness, and truthfulness, there is no greatness.

In the eyes of a child, the world is always beautiful and simple, pure and clear; adults have seen too much of the world and experienced too many difficulties, and that kind of simplicity has become difficult to go back to the other side. The noblest maturity is to know the world but not the world. The pure, good, and true is the moral bottom line, but also the highest value of being born as a human being.

Truth eight: human nature is not an abstraction inherent in a single person, but in fact, it is the sum of all social relationships.

No person is an island. It is the conclusion of human beings that makes the difference between self and others. The care between lives allows us to feel love and care, the light and warmth of life. Life is not a solo performance, but an interplay of harmonies.

Truth 9: Life is a relationship, and relationship is life; to improve life, you only need to improve the relationships.

Everyone cannot exist independently of relationships: the relationship with our parents defines our relationship with those around us. When we can accept our parents' imperfections, we can become a brand new life; the relationship with our loved ones teaches us responsibility and tolerance. When we can love wholeheartedly, we also learn to treat the world selflessly; the relationship with friends makes us know how to cherish and respect.

Life is a constant flow of energy. If you want to improve your life, you should improve your relationships. Good relationships allow us to grow and become better people.

Truth 10: The process of spiritual maturity is a continuous process of self-discovery and self-exploration. It is difficult for us to understand others unless we understand ourselves first

Knowing ourselves is a lifelong subject. The maturity of a person has nothing to do with age. People who know how to self-examine and self-awareness also form their unique selves, and they are the most mature people who are constantly reflecting to improve themselves. People who can see their shortcomings are also more able to know what others are doing and understand other people's ideas.

Conclusion: Human nature is not ugly, understand yourself, but also more understanding of others and the world, every day of your life is worth reporting to the best state to meet