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10 Signs That He Cheated on You Without You Knowing

Can you see the signs?

By Daisy ThunderstrikePublished 4 years ago 4 min read
10 Signs That He Cheated on You Without You Knowing
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In a relationship, mutual trust and fidelity are the most important aspects. The two agree to enter into that relationship because their partner provides them with all the things they need, especially emotional fulfillment and love.

But there are people who get into relationships out of boredom or realize, in a short time, that the person they have with them is not the right one. In these cases, infidelity occurs.

It's hard to imagine that the man next to you cheated on you, especially when he knows how to cover his tracks very well. Love is blind, especially in the beginning, but you always have to listen to your instincts.

In the gallery above you will find out the signs that he cheated on you without you knowing. Follow these clues and make a decision before it's too late!

He bathes more often

Although it may seem funny, when your partner's shower schedule changes, it may be a sign that he cheated on you.

When meetings with the mistress take place in less conventional circumstances, such as the back seat of the car, the need to take a shower immediately after this episode is imminent.

Although your partner's effort to always smell good will be appreciated, the real reason behind this will create a lot of discomfort in your relationship.

There are frequent changes in his daily schedule

Sometimes unforeseen events are unavoidable. However, when he tells you that he needs to see a friend urgently right on the day of the trip you planned together many weeks before, you should ask yourself a few questions.

When the situation repeats itself and his plans are constantly changing, he may be wrong. Do you always find reasons to come home late? Maybe someone else keeps him company until then.

He is more protective with the phone

Since dating is set in the 21st century on the phone, it's normal for them to start hiding it from you, but also to change their password.

Even if you do not find any clear evidence of the existence of a third person, it is advisable to think better when you see that he has a new friend, with whom he often talks on the phone.

Men can be quite inventive when they cheat on their half and will not let any details escape them.

He accuses you of cheating on him

All the guilt that a cheating man feels makes him often go crazy and become paranoid. If he suddenly accuses you of misbehaving, it may be a sign that he has deceived you.

In his mind, the fact that he betrayed your trust must turn against him. Thus, he has the impression that you will do the same, to be even.

He always wants to know where you are

When cheating takes place in familiar circumstances, such as at a hotel on your street or in your own bed, it is only natural for someone to want to know where you are.

If you answer evasively, for example, "I'm with my girlfriends in town," you'll see that she'll start to panic and ask you even more questions. This is the best way to check that he cheated on you and it works every time. If the episode is repeated often, then rest assured that your biggest fears will come true.

He's trying to break up with you for no reason

These episodes often take place through messages. He tells you that he wants you to break up without justifying the reasons for his decision, not even a "pa!".

Soon you will see that he will apologize for his behavior and that the message was sent as a joke, for a drink, or for other stupid reasons. However, this should be a wake-up call for you.

Your partner can no longer control his guilt, which is why he has moments of "loss", even if he doesn't really want you to break up.

He starts to treat you better than he used to

When you see a complete change of attitude, it is possible that the parallel relationship has ended, and now you have realized how important you are to him.

In addition to this guilt, there may be another cause. He gives you all the attention so as not to give you any reason to doubt, but also to distract you from the adventure he has.

He doesn't want to be seen with you anymore

If he avoids going out with you or if he doesn't hold your hand as before, then this may be a sign that he cheated on you.

Think about it … if his mistress sees him appearing with you in public, he risks a real jealousy attack. Thus, you will both find out about his deed, and he will be left alone. It's a risk he doesn't want to take, believe me!

He tries to distance himself (physically and emotionally)

Even if you think that the lack of intimate relationships is a sign that he cheated on you, it seems that the distance does not only take place on a physical level. If he doesn't tell you what he did that day or asks you how he's doing, it's clear he doesn't care about you anymore.

He cheated in other relationships as well

Although it is not advisable to judge a person after the past, it can give you an important clue about the person you are dealing with. After all, the wolf changes his hair, but the habit does!

Even if you give him everything, he will feel, as in the previous case of infidelity, certain needs, which will urge him to deceive you. This clue is extremely important and is a sign that he has deceived you as well.

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