The best kind of love is the one where the more you love, the more you have strength.
A relationship that is mature enough to be called true love must go through four stages

There are four stages of love.
These four stages of love, after surviving them, you will be able to be happier together, each stage do not give up, a psychologist has written: a mature call true love relationship, must go through four stages, that is: coexistence, anti-dependence, suspicion, coexistence, the conversion between the time required is not necessarily, depending on the person.
The first stage: coexistence.
This is a period of passionate love no matter when and where always want to be together.
Second stage: Counter-dependence.
One partner wants more time to do what they want to do, this time the other partner will feel left out, always because of a little thing to count and counting.
Third stage: Doubt.
This is a continuation of the second stage, asking for more time to be independent, always feeling that they are not good to themselves anymore, not loving them as much as before.
Stage 4: Symbiosis.
This is the time when the new togetherness has taken shape, you have become the closest people, you are together to support each other, together to create your own life, together you will not be tied to each other, but will grow with each other, he is like your family.
However, so many people can not pass the second or third stage to choose to break up. In fact, a lot of things as long as good communication will be fine, but think too much and capricious is unavoidable, the world to meet the only you is not easy, do not give up easily.
I think the best love, is two people get along no longer careful, the more you love the more the bottom.
You will not be angry because the other party did not reply in time, nor will you be upset because you said the wrong word.

Having seen each other at their truest form, even when the other person makes a fool of himself, he finds it awkward and adorable. He will pout to you, childishly complaining about the unpleasantness of what happened. You don't have to be strong in front of him, you can always hide behind him and be protected. He won't laugh at your wild ideas, you won't care about his carelessness.
Both are the closest to each other, have seen all the other person's bad and vulnerable, and still choose to stay by the side. You will not worry about losing each other because you said or did something wrong. Release the love for each other to the fullest, no matter what, will be unwavering to go on, through all the next life three years and five years.
I think this is the best model of love: to have seen each other's truest form, and still love each other deeply.
It is human nature to suffer from loss.
I used to think that two people get along together often make you feel uncomfortable, because it is not too familiar with, time can always grind.
But not everyone can control their own feelings, not everyone can find comfortable with the state, some people talk about three or five years can not reach a balance, and not familiar with the problem, but some people are so, get along longer will always be like this.
Moreover, it is really rare to find a person who is compatible and has a complementary personality.
So it is really important to meet people who are in tune with each other, two people get along naturally and comfortably, not together when each busy, the information is not back will not be anxious, I believe the other side is busy so did not see.
Usually do what you do, not have to focus on this one thing on the relationship, a relationship to the back so that you feel solid and at ease is the best state.

In short, how to deal with intimacy is one of the biggest issues in life for everyone. Both the emotional intimacy and physical intimacy of both partners affect the level of satisfaction in the relationship, and whether two people have smooth and positive communication is the key to ensure their intimacy.
Finally, I wish all of you to upgrade your relationship skills and reap the benefits of sweet, sweet love~




Comments (1)
Awesome piece