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How To Approach Women Like A BOSS 3 Easy Steps

Boy, if you are living miserably like a Wallflower and seeing other men score, it's time to step up your game. I know the feeling when you see other men score while you are left in the dust, but do not worry; I'm here to transform your shy personality into a confident lion. But before I get into the details, I want you to understand this first: if you see a beautiful woman enter a room, you want to approach her, but you are reluctant to do so, you have already lost her to someone else. It is because you think of yourself as a low-tier man and give her the value of some goddess of beauty. Listen, these are the standards you created for yourself. No matter how beautiful she is, she is still a woman who can be approached. But if you start making things up in your mind, you can never even enter her friend zone.

By Space OnlinePublished 3 years ago 5 min read

How To Approach Women Like A BOSS | 3 Easy Steps

Boy, if you are living miserably like a Wallflower and seeing other men score, it's time to step up your game. I know the feeling when you see other men score while you are left in the dust, but do not worry; I'm here to transform your shy personality into a confident lion. But before I get into the details, I want you to understand this first: if you see a beautiful woman enter a room, you want to approach her, but you are reluctant to do so, you have already lost her to someone else. It is because you think of yourself as a low-tier man and give her the value of some goddess of beauty. Listen, these are the standards you created for yourself. No matter how beautiful she is, she is still a woman who can be approached. But if you start making things up in your mind, you can never even enter her friend zone.

So, how do you become the man who can approach any woman he desires? I will explain three easy steps. Follow them, and you will approach any woman like a boss. Step number one: depart from the outcome. If you want to approach a woman like a boss, you must detach yourself from the results. Most men make this mistake, and they end up losing both their confidence and a woman. How? The majority of men, when trying to approach a woman, fantasize about things in their minds. Some lose their confidence, in the first place, by thinking that she is some type of goddess and she will reject them. They not only lose their confidence but also their value because they think they are not worthy enough of her attention, leading to many more problems.

Know this, when you do not even have the confidence to approach a woman, never think that you will ever have a chance with her. I am not downgrading you, but facts are facts, and you must face them whether you like them or not. The other problem with not detaching yourself from the outcome is not socializing. When you do not approach a woman, you miss the opportunity to talk to her, to know her, and to know what she thinks about you.

She might be noticing you from the beginning but waiting for you to make a move, or she might be the right type of person that fits perfectly into your life. Understand this, when you overthink the details, you lose your opportunity to be with the right person at the right time. Now, when you are not obsessed with the outcome, you exude confidence. And when she sees you brimming with confidence, she will crave you. Not only that, but you also get to enjoy time with her, create moments that foster long-lasting impressions, and show her your aura as a high-value man that she never gets tired of wanting more of.

Number 2: make strong eye contact. When you are clear in your head, you will be able to make strong eye contact that will gravitate her toward you. The eye has the power of great influence, and when you master that, you can attract even high-class women with a single gaze. Making eye contact is a non-verbal way to show your confidence and interest in women, and women crave those traits in men. Because when you look into her eyes with confidence, she will sense that in her subconscious mind. Because you are clearly expressing your desire in her, strong eye contact also creates an aura of attraction and intimacy.

When you are conveying your message with your eyes, you will not only create a bond with her but also give her the vibes of comfortability. By the time you approach her, you have already made things clear to her. She will not go through the awkward phase of breaking the ice; instead, she will start talking like an old friend when you have already created that bond with your eyes. Not only that, but you will also observe her body language.

If she is interested in you, she will clearly express it through small gestures and body movements, and she might even give you a smile to show her desire for you. But most men can't even make eye contact with a woman. Some are shy, some think that she will feel offended, and some put her on a pedestal of high value. But the truth is the opposite. When making eye contact with her, you already clear up many things, say things that you might not be able to express through words, and attract her in a way that you could never do with your good-looking personality or high status.

Number 3: make the move. Now that you are not clinging to outcomes anymore and you have delivered your message through your strong gaze, it's time to make the move like a boss. But before you do that, understand that confidence is the key. Approach her with confidence and with a clear mind. When you are confident and clear-headed, you will be able to convey your thoughts easily. And when she senses the confidence in you, she will understand that you are not afraid of expressing yourself, and she will respect you for that.

When you are already with her, do not let her initiate the conversation; instead, you break the ice by saying something effective that can grab her attention in the first place. If you meet her in a bar or restaurant, initiate the conversation by offering her a drink or a cup of coffee to make her stay for a little longer, and that is your time to cast a spell. At a party, observe her dressing and start the conversation with a small compliment. By doing so, she will understand that you've been watching her, and this will automatically pique her interest in you. When you see the conversation is going smoothly, it's time to ask for her number.

Listen, if you show reluctance, thinking that she will reject you, you have already lost her. Because even when she is into you, but you take a step back, know this, it will turn her off. Ask for her number confidently, and she will give it to you with a smile on her face. But you must understand this, if she is not interested or she refuses to give you her number, do not fall apart. Instead, let her know that you are not affected by her rejection. Empty your cup of coffee, stand up, give her a smile, tell her that you are thankful for her time, and leave like a high-value man. When you do this, she will instantly regret her choice of words because she will understand that she was nothing but a common girl on your list. Let me say this again, confidence is the key. If you don't have the confidence, you can never approach her like a boss. If you have confidence, whether she accepts you or rejects you, in both cases, you win.

Now that you know the game, it is time to make the move. By the way, if you want to level up in life, like, subscribe, and turn on the notification bell to stay connected with us.

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