How To Actually Get Girls | 5 RULES (MUST KNOW)

There are men who attract a high class of women; they build a lasting attraction with any beautiful woman they want. I have seen men striving for attention and ending up losers. Don't get offended, but that's the bitter truth. Or maybe you're also living it, but you can stop that from happening by watching videos like this to get you brimming with charisma that every girl craves. You see, it all starts with a simple high for every man, yet some get to be the Lady Killers. Why do they always get the most and you don't? I will discuss five rules that every high-value man knows that you don't. It'll spark your charisma with any woman you want. Make sure to stick around to the end, and you'll thank me by the end of this video. Top Personality presents five rules of how to actually get girls:

Number 1: Approach her with controlled emotions. If you are approaching a woman with needy behavior, she will smell it a mile away and instantly turn off. The moment you start communicating with her, she will sense your desperation and lack of self-confidence. Coming off as clingy will only weaken you emotionally. Now, let me ask you a question: if you acted on every emotion and impulse in your experience, how much time would you have to do anything meaningful in your life? Know this, if you are emotionally insecure, you are easier to get hurt, and a highly value man never becomes as clingy. He acts with purpose and mindfully. Do not respond to a text immediately. When you respond to her immediately, she will think that you have nothing going on in your life but to wait for her to text and talk to you. Doing so will only make her feel that you are putting her before everything in your life. I know you like her and have emotions for her, but it doesn't mean that you should act like a clown degrading your value. I know having emotions makes you human, but acting on every emotion you experience makes you weak and unattractive. If you can't handle your own emotions, why would a woman expect you to be a source of stability and strength in her life?

Number 2: Be confident in your body language. Of all your personality traits, body language is something that stands out the most. Be calm and controlled when talking to her; this will make you more attractive. Understand this: women crave men oozing with confidence. Make eye contact when you're talking to her. When I say this, I don't mean to stare at her to death; only make eye contact when saying something to her or answering her questions. Eye contact is important for increasing your perceived confidence; without it, you'll appear scattered or inattentive. Make yourself big; don't be afraid to take a broom and clean the space immediately around you. Do not fidget; this will only make you small, and she will immediately see that you lack confidence. Know this, fidgeting is a major betrayer of low confidence. Do not try adjusting your standing position or nodding excessively. Instead, try to stand still, move only when appropriate, and do it deliberately. Just like other parts of your body, your hands say a lot when you are talking. Move them marginally and with purpose; gesticulate your words with a few deliberate actions. Do not keep your hands in your pocket all the time; keep them visible to appear more confident. With high confidence, you'll be able to speak more articulately, command more attention, and be viewed with more respect like an alpha man.

Number 3: Be mysterious. Women love mysterious guys. Why? Mysterious guys don't rush into revealing their personalities and activities, which makes women wonder about them. You see, high-value men understand the psychology of women. The more you are being mysterious to her, the more she will fantasize about you and eventually become obsessed with you. With you being the mystery guy, she will start following you around like a lost puppy to catch a glimpse of your mysterious life. But you won't let her. Just when she's about to go crazy with curiosity, let it be known that you will reveal your true identity in only the most intimate of situations. Driven by her overwhelming curiosity, she will have no choice but to submit to your desires. You can be mysterious not only about your life but also about how you talk, how you dress, and even sometimes smiling in the middle of a conversation will make her curious enough to fantasize about you. Every time she thinks about you, she can't forget that mysterious smile.

Number 4: Be witty. Make her laugh and win her in conversation. High-value men are not only strong and controlled but also filled with a high level of wit that makes them irresistible to women. Humor is influential, and it is one of the most attractive traits of a high-value man. You see, a high-value man never does anything without a purpose, and by giving her a good laugh, he knows what he is doing. Your humor and wit will not only make her laugh but also help her relax and feel comfortable talking to you. While sparking that interest and attraction by starting your conversations this way, you show you're not intimidated by beautiful women. You can get them laughing and show tremendous confidence simultaneously, instantly attracting women. Start your conversation with lines like, "Your yellow scarf looks beautiful on you." Compliment her and make her feel comfortable around you. When she sees you as a man oozing with confidence and wit, she will do anything to be around you.

Number 5: Build an emotional connection. She is a totally different person with her perspective to see the world, but one thing that connects every kind of person to another is emotion, and a high-value man knows better how to build one. A high-value man knows how to connect with every woman through that bond. She gradually becomes closer to you. High-value men use that eye-perspective connection to bring her closer to them. They express their thoughts, opinions, and most importantly, their emotions directly.

Using this method, they create a space of proximity to get her in the zone. Talk about your personal experiences and get her to feel connected to you. And remember, don't blather; this will turn her off instantly. Be creative with your words. Find a balance by sharing just enough to create an emotional connection without becoming self-absorbed. Just to let you know, if you want to tell a cool story from your own life, remember to end it with a lesson you learned, so you're sharing value with her and not just bragging about something you've done.

Making an emotional connection enhances your personality and grows you more as a high-value man. You see, it is all connected with how you show yourself to her. You can be a high-value man brimming with confidence or a low-value impulsive man. You can make her laugh or act like a clown and give her a reason to laugh at you. You can be a god of mysteries or simply expose yourself as a simp who would do anything to gain her attention. Now that you know how to get girls, it's time to get ahead in your life and be a high-value man. I hope you've learned something of value from the video. And by the way, if you want to level up in life, make sure to subscribe. Until next time.