Foolproof Ways to Spot a Liar

Liars avoid mentioning themselves. Really They almost never do. You probably remember one of those funny situations in your childhood when your mother's favorite cup broke. What did we all say? Mom, your favorite cup is broken on the kitchen floor. beautiful Especially since we were just trying to avoid any punishment. Don't want to take responsibility? Ummm. It seems that some adults still use this rule in their lives.

The truth about the cup should read as follows. Mom, I accidentally broke your favorite cup. I'm sorry The behavioral model works for all people. Just try to find out if this person wants to shift the responsibility to some natural force or some other abstract one. Hey Mom, the bear came straight into the kitchen and broke your cup. You should have seen it.

The speaking attitude of a liar is negative. In general, liars can be negative and pessimistic. See what people usually say when they are late for the office or an important meeting. I bet sorry I'm late. This stupid traffic jam where all the drivers are standing in line, they just don't know how to drive! It's not my fault! Do you know why they curse so much and blame everyone but themselves? This is pure psychology. Showing a negative attitude means unconsciously feeling guilty about your life. Who could ever say?

The liar's explanations are as simple as possible. Our brain is always ready to help. It also works for people who intend to deceive someone. The thing is, liars usually explain everything simply because their brain refuses to think about a complicated lie. Judgments or judgments are complex things that are difficult to calculate. A good example is failing an exam. Usually, we know a test is bad because we just didn't prepare enough. Common lies in such cases are, I don't know why I failed. Although it is quite easy to admit that you have not learned enough information. The liar uses confusing wording. Despite simple explanations, liars use complex and complicated sentence structure, unnecessary words and minor but believable-sounding details to help them increase their deception. This is probably because they are not sure if they can tell the truth. Or they are trying to hide something. Who knows? Beware of structures overloaded with some unnecessary words. This is how liars present themselves in court. Just imagine the situation when a possible accomplice must prove his alibi. When he is guilty, he is defensive, negative and too talkative. If he is not, he will tell you a story about spending time with his wife and dog with great joy. Your regular interlocutors, that word again, behave the same way. Just check.

Liars use too many details in a simple story. Ask yourself to tell the story of your last purchase out loud. We're sure it looks like I went to the grocery store and bought everything I needed. Then I went home and watched my favorite show until midnight. Can you see Not too many details? The same simple situation with a liar is different. Of course, he got out of the apartment and then met his neighbor Jim. And they talked for exactly five minutes. Then he looked across the road and saw a sky-blue truck.

Someone must have moved. He bought two packages of popcorn and a bag of potatoes at the grocery store on the next block. On the way back he stopped to smoke for three minutes, yes he drove it and while he was smoking he saw a funny neighbor girl named Gina. At home, he cooked for two hours, then had dinner, then went to bed and fell asleep. A liar thinks the details make the story true, which is a lie. We do not remember our automatic habitual actions. Here's a hint. If you are not sure about the person, ask them to tell the whole story from the beginning. When you talk to a liar, he gets caught up in every extraneous detail he can imagine.