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8 Dirty Ways WOMEN Try To MANIPULATE & CONTROL Men

Women can be manipulative; women can be seductive, and they are so good at it. If you are not strong enough, they will control you and use you in ways you could never imagine. This doesn't apply to all women; still, there are some who like to play games with weak-minded men, taking the lead and gaining personal satisfaction, among other things. Listen, if you don't understand these games, you will end up making a fool of yourself. So, how do you know if a woman is trying to control you? I will explain eight dirty ways women try to manipulate you. Listen to my words carefully because they will change the game. Instead of controlling you, you can use these tactics to your advantage and take the lead in any situation in life with women. Show them you are a high-value man who can't be conquered with their little mind games and seductions.

By Space OnlinePublished 3 years ago 5 min read

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Women can be manipulative; women can be seductive, and they are so good at it. If you are not strong enough, they will control you and use you in ways you could never imagine. This doesn't apply to all women; still, there are some who like to play games with weak-minded men, taking the lead and gaining personal satisfaction, among other things. Listen, if you don't understand these games, you will end up making a fool of yourself. So, how do you know if a woman is trying to control you? I will explain eight dirty ways women try to manipulate you. Listen to my words carefully because they will change the game. Instead of controlling you, you can use these tactics to your advantage and take the lead in any situation in life with women. Show them you are a high-value man who can't be conquered with their little mind games and seductions.

Men are jinxed with an insatiable desire for sex, and women use this as their most powerful tool to control men. Know this, just by revealing a part of her body, 99% of men will lose control. I am sure most of you are having feelings right now as I am saying these words; it is natural. However, we must also be aware that it can destroy us. If a woman is manipulative, first she will try to get familiar with you, and then it will be her body. She will express this through her seductive behavior, creating sexual tension or using provocative words in text messages. Most men will do anything to satiate their sexual desire. If you are unaware of her true intentions, she will play you to her advantage.

Emotional blackmail is a lot worse than seduction. If you are not emotionally strong, know this: she will shatter your mental peace. She can do this in many ways to emotionally control you. She might scare you or play the victim in some situations. She can even create drama to disturb you mentally. If she is thinking something bad, chances are she will go to any lengths to see her desires fulfilled. But you must not allow her to gain control over you. You need to be emotionally prepared before dating a woman or committing to a long-term relationship. If she catches you off guard, her manipulative behavior will not only weaken you emotionally but also influence other aspects of your life.

Crocodile tears. Women are vulnerable and fragile. One of the ways they show it is to cry. The moment they start crying, 99% of men will melt down. Now, here is the catch: if the tears are fake, they will gain control over you before you even realize it. This is the time they know they have the upper hand emotionally and can take a big advantage of that. So, how do you know if they are crocodile tears and not genuine? If she is crying genuinely, she will try to hide them as much as she can. She will even put a smile on her face to hide them. But if they are fake, she will try to make eye contact and show it. She will even say things that will clarify that she wants your attention. If she is crying for real, you will also understand her facial expressions. But you must not look down on your woman when the tears are real. You'll know them, and she will need your comfort and support more than ever.

Never underestimate the power of a touch, especially when it comes from a woman with strong manipulative power. It will melt you down in no time. Physical touch is not only limited to your body; it also affects your soul by conveying a range of emotions and intentions. If the intentions are bad, they will hurt you badly. Know this, by touching certain parts of your body, she will try to influence and control your emotions and feelings. But you must resist those temptations. If her touch is deceptive, she will try to seduce you by touching parts of your body that trigger certain emotions that you won't be able to control.

Men like to be appreciated for their accomplishments. But when she starts showering you with compliments on things that don't even matter, know this: she is trying to make her way into your mind. Words have the power of great influence, and when they are used for manipulative purposes, they can melt down hearts. But a high-value man will always see right through it. He knows when she is over-complimenting him. As a man, you should know the difference between real and fake compliments. Because if you don't, she will gain control over your mind.

Men don't like to be compared with others, especially better males. But she can use that to her advantage to get something out of you. By comparing you with other men and praising them, she will try to provoke your feelings. You will start thinking low of yourself and will do anything to get ahead in the competition. Understand this, if you are not aware of this tactic, she will not only undermine your personality but also control your emotions and actions. Instead of falling into her trap, you must show her that you are perfect in your own way, no matter how hard she tries to gain control over you. You must show her that you are the leader. If she is pointing at other men and saying provocative things, know that she is trying to get something out of you.

Avoidance. Avoiding is one of the many things women do to manipulate men, and they succeed most of the time. It is because society has conditioned our minds that way. She might refuse your offer of going out on a date to increase her value or create a sense of scarcity. Or she wants some personal space to make you think that she has rules and standards. You will feel that you are about to lose her, but in reality, she is trying to get your attention. Know this, if she is constantly playing this game, she might be after something bigger than your thoughts. In this case, observe her behavior. If she is going above and beyond to make you pursue her harder, you need to reconsider your choice of making her your life partner.

Playing the victim. When things aren't going the way they planned, some women will pull out the victim card to manipulate you. They might do it after a fight to make you feel guilty. But know this, this is one of the scariest things they can do to control you emotionally. She may even cry to make you feel sorry, and in turn, she will be expecting something. But do not be swayed. Instead of playing by her hands, try to understand the situation. If you are truly wrong, apologize. If you are not, stop her before she plans the next move.

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