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7 RULES To Become The Most POWERFUL MAN In The Room (MIGHT OFFEND YOU)

Men are born with the desire to possess the ultimate power that no one else can obtain; men go to the gym not to build their muscles, but to gain more power; men pursue money not to become rich, but rather to gain power. You see, men seek power through different means; however, ask those who are powerless and unable to accomplish certain goals in life due to a lack of power. I know the emotions can be exhausting, but you can also be a self-sufficient and powerful man. To achieve that, you first need to understand some ground rules of manhood.

By Space OnlinePublished 3 years ago 5 min read

Make Men Obsess Over You

Men are born with the desire to possess the ultimate power that no one else can obtain; men go to the gym not to build their muscles, but to gain more power; men pursue money not to become rich, but rather to gain power. You see, men seek power through different means; however, ask those who are powerless and unable to accomplish certain goals in life due to a lack of power. I know the emotions can be exhausting, but you can also be a self-sufficient and powerful man. To achieve that, you first need to understand some ground rules of manhood.

From childhood to adulthood, different people will want us to be powerful at different stages in life. When we are children, our parents want us to have strong minds to get good grades. When we are young, Alpha friends want us to be powerful enough to protect them when necessary. And when we are adults, women want us to be powerful and capable of reassuring them, saying, "Don't worry, you have me." Understand this, people respect you for your power, and when you are powerful, the gravity of your influence will draw everyone towards you; even your women will admire you when they see you as strong and powerful. This is because powerful men are extremely appealing to everyone. But how can you be that powerful man that every woman craves? I will reveal seven secrets that will make you the most powerful man in the room.

Number 1: choose your words wisely. Words possess great power, and only those who know how to use them can unleash such power. To be a powerful man, this should be your top priority. Know this: the more you talk, the more common you appear; but the less you talk, the less others know about you, and the less they can hurt you. Not only that, but by being cautious with your words, you can create mystery around yourself, keeping people off balance and in the dark. Never reveal the purpose behind your words or actions. When you keep them guessing about you, it makes them think about you, and they will think about you to the point where it transforms into obsession, and they can't resist this temptation. Know this: women crave wise men, not clowns who have no control over their words. When you are careful with what you say, it will make you both wise and attractive, and you will become irresistible to women.

Number 2: stand out from the crowd. People believe in what they see, so when you sit in the corner, people will never even notice your existence, no matter how powerful you are. To make yourself stand out from the crowd, you must show them that you are a man of power. When I say this, I don't mean to act like a clown to get their attention; you will only ridicule yourself. Instead, use your abilities and creativity to steal the show. Be disciplined and confident when speaking to others. If they see that you are confident, they will submit to you. Understand this: everything is judged by how it appears. What is unseen accounts for nothing. So don't get lost in the crowd; be conspicuous. This will turn you into a magnetic attracting even the most elite women.

Number 3: be a man of action, not words. As the saying goes, actions speak louder than words. It is true because the world is full of fake identities. People will say many things to get attention, but they will hide in the corner when it comes to taking action. Know this: any momentary satisfaction gained through words to win a conversation is nothing but a pyrrhic triumph. To win that conversation, you will go to any length and say anything to satisfy your ego. But you must understand that it is not worth it; it will only lead to never-ending resentments. So make people agree with you through your actions and create such an image of yourself that they will remember you for a long time. Know this: when you influence them through your actions, the impact becomes so powerful that everyone subconsciously respects you.

Number 4: avoid the unlucky and unhappy. Emotional states are contagious. You must stay close to someone who radiates happiness and positivity because if you are attached to unhappy individuals, you may die of their misery. Know this: there will be times in your life when you feel compelled to save those drowning in despair, but you could also end up entangled in the disaster. To retain power, you must keep yourself emotionally strong because weakness is like a disease, and when people sense that in you, they will destroy you in minutes. I'm not saying you shouldn't help others in need, but you should draw the line where you must stop yourself from drowning in the sea of someone else's misery.

Number 5: make them depend on you. To maintain power and dominance, you must know how to make others rely on you for their needs. Women, in particular, want someone they can depend on, someone powerful enough to provide for and protect their basic needs. But know this: power, when used negatively, has the potential to destroy lives. You must put it to good use. To make others dependent on you, you must first be independent. Because when you are needed, you should be able to provide for and support them, making them reliant on you for their happiness. And when they see you as their source of happiness, they will respect you for it and feel submissive to your power and strength.

Number 6: use absence to gain respect and honor. As they say, "too much circulation causes the demand to go down." The more you are heard and noticed, the more common you seem. If you are already part of a group, temporarily leaving it will make you more prominent and respected. When you are in a relationship with a woman, leave some gaps. Because when you are always available to her, you will lose your value, and she will see you as a common man. Know this: when you are absent from the group, they will talk about you, which will make them curious and think that you have something bigger going on in life. You must learn when to be available and when to leave, creating value through scarcity.

Number 7: be unpredictable. People have an irresistible desire to see patterns of behavior they are familiar with in those around them. When they sense this, you become predictable to them, which gives them a sense of control. You must reverse the role. Be intentionally unpredictable. Understand this: when you are unpredictable, people have no idea what is going on in your head and cannot control you. Unpredictability also creates mystery, and people are drawn to mysteries. Not knowing what your next move will be, they will strive to know more about you, and you will become an obsession to them. Your inconsistent and erratic behavior will throw them off guard, and they will tire themselves out trying to understand your moves. When taken to its logical conclusion, this strategy can be used to intimidate and terrorize. But I will say it again: do not abuse this power. Powerful people value their power and use it wisely. By the way, if you want to level up in life, hit the Subscribe button and show some love by hitting the like button.

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