Women Like to be Fucked Too

Embrace the Reality of Her Passion

Passionate and tender sex; or actually "making love" are outstanding and can prove to be more than passionate. However; some guys get wrapped up in thinking this is what a woman always wants. Truth is, most women want to be actually fucked! There is a line, of course, between rough or hard sex; and abuse. If a man is timid or too reserved in bed; he may never hear from her again.

There is nothing wrong with pulling her hair or shoving her against that nearest wall. Maybe not all of the time, but at least many times; don't be afraid to outright "take" her! Then of course, you have men who are afraid they are going to break her or something. Let me tell you something... women's bodies were made to withstand a lot more than a lot of men (and some women) give them credit for. Do you want to be careful and mindful when pounding hard, fast and deep? Yeah, of course you do; but don't be afraid to let loose. If you go too far... she WILL tell you, I'm sure.

Communicate before, during and after sex too; it goes a long way. No, I don't mean turn into a wuss or play twenty questions. You can take away from a great experience by turning into a pansy right afterward. There is nothing wrong with asking if they liked something you did or telling them that you liked something they did. The most important part though is actually pretty simple... PAY ATTENTION! Watch and listen to her reactions to movements or things you "try" during rough sex. Her reactions will tell you a lot; so you don't have to ask. Yes, listen too... as in how does her breathing change? What sounds did she make and at what volume? Things like that. Like I said; simple to do, but also very important.

Talk Dirty...For Real

First, forget what you hear adult stars say in porn movies; most of it is cheesy and unrealistic. A few lines are good, but for the most part it's probably best to stay away from them. A lot of people (not just men) won't talk dirty because they think it will come out sounding stupid or cheesy; or maybe that they think they don't know how to. Everyone can talk dirty and have it sound sexy to your partner. It can be as simple as telling them how hot they are or how good they feel. It can be giving them a general instruction (i.e.: harder, faster, slower,) or just demanding they tell you they want it... anything really.

I know that this is going to sound strange to some people, but it is perfectly okay to say "I love you" and "fuck me" in the same statement. It is also okay for us (men) to use phrases that may even normally be considered a little sexist; yes, you read that correctly. As long as you leave it in the bedroom, it's usually a good thing and not wrong. Things like, "such a good girl for me, the way you_____" or even "I'm going to fuck you like I own you." Different people like different levels of dirty talk, but even without the dirty talk... be a man and fuck her like she wants.

Pounding and Movement

Here's a hint about hard or rough sex... if she hasn't clawed at your back and/or arms at least twice; you were too easy on her. Most of guys know and like doing circles with your dick while you are inside of her, but just keep in mind that you are well capable of doing circles and moving in and out at the same time. That movement does more for us than it does for her in most positions. If she is on top and wants to tease her clit...she'll do the circles herself; otherwise the position probably isn't right for it.

Pulling out and teasing her in order to prevent yourself from cumming sooner is a noble and worthwhile method; but be sure to tease her right while your calming yourself down there. Rubbing the head on her clit may be good for a moment, but chances are she needs more. If she starts grinding against you or moving her hips while you are going at it; that means don't stop; not pull out and tease me. Just so you know :-)

I mentioned her clawing at your back or arms; well, a lot of women like it when you return this favor. There is nothing wrong with clawing at her back (not as hard) and letting her know that what is going on has you enchanted and trapped within her in so many ways. If you need to- for whatever reason- use just your fingertips instead of your nails. If you have rough nails or anything of that sort; it's better to use the tips of your fingers rather than slice her open.

I would say that almost the vast majority of women either like it or love it when a man pulls their hair during sex. I'm not talking about just in doggystyle position either. If she is under you in missionary or on top of you... get a handful and pull enough to lean her head back. Force her to expose her neck; leaving it vulnerable to your playful bites and kisses or probing tongue. There is a reason a lot of women get enthralled with vampire characters. It's the surrender and the hint of hidden danger; mixed with the sexual and passionate tension or animal lust and desire. Make her feel nervous yet safe at the same time and you've got it right. Try pushing yourself deeper and harder inside her as you force her head back by pulling her hair. In fact, if you can manage it (depends on the position and height difference) try to push deep and hard (not overly hard so that it hurts her too much).... pulling her hair and forcing her head back....and suddenly biting into her neck... all as one fluid single motion.

Don't just slap her ass; slap and hold. Then, let go and slap it again. Hold her arms down at or above her head; preferably with her legs on your shoulders. Leave her completely open and vulnerable to your every thrust and movement. Force her legs between yours and closed; while still deep inside her. This best in missionary position or with her on her stomach; and also great for guys who are maybe a little smaller down there. This simple change can actually cause your dick to feel thicker to her.

Lastly- For Now

I want to mention that rough sex often works better when it's in different locations. No, not a new location... I mean in several locations between start to finish. Pick her up off the bed and set her down on a dresser or table; then go at it again. In this position you can still put her legs over your shoulders to get as deep as possible; and she can also watch as you go in and out of her. Yes, I mention it a lot... but there is always the trusty wall too. Stand her up and push her against the wall; face or ass toward the wall. If the wall (or whatever she's against) is cold, be sure to force her breasts against it too and give her that extra sensation. Cold on one end and something hot on the other :-)

Have passionate safe fun with your Goddess.