Where to Get Handmade Sex Toys After Etsy Became Holier Than Thou & Took A Stand Agsinst Sex

Let’s talk about a little betrayal that’s been happening in the world of handmade sex toys. I’m sure many of you, like me, have spent hours browsing Etsy, finding that one-of-a-kind fantasy dildo or custom-fit chastity cage for your favorite sub that made you feel like you were shopping in an adult-themed treasure chest. But in recent months, things have taken a turn for the worse. Etsy, the platform that once felt like a sex-positive haven, had started purging stores selling adult toys, banning everything from fantasy dildos to bondage cuffs and sissy panties. Seriously, Etsy?! I thought we were friends (with benefits)!

I found out about this disaster when I was shopping for another fantasy dildo to add to my evergrowing collection and couldn't find the shops on Etsy at all. Trying to hack the search algorithm, I tried clicking the links to the products on my previous Etsy orders but it did not have any results either. the links to my previous Etsy orders weren't leading to any products. But apparently, all fantasy dildo shops like Akifu Toys, my absolute favorite for all things fantasy and oh so creative—have moved on to better pastures. So, where’s a kinky, discriminated-against soul to go for high-quality, handmade sex toys that aren’t mass-produced, cheap, or shamed for their existence?

It only took a mild google search to find the new home for Akifu and I celebrated with my first order on their new shop for a Golden Idol Defiled and an added cum tube.

Goodbye, Etsy – Hello, Spicerack Market!

Spicerack Market has quickly become the go-to marketplace for those of us who are tired of the corporate censorship and overly sanitized approach to sex. It’s a platform that’s dedicated to welcoming customers searching for high-quality, handmade fantasy dildos, bondage lingerie, ball gags, floggers, and other fun adult toys. Since finding out about this new marketplace I've purchased from several of the shops I used to frequent on Etsy and am happy to keep on supporting their efforts while reaping the benefits of wonderful handmade sex toys and bondage gear. In fact, I purchased a second ball gag from a shop I used to frequent on Etsy, Pleasure Paradox, as a Christmas gift and it didn't disappoint!

The Larger Picture: Corporate Censorship and Shaming

It’s not just Etsy. Corporate giants like Amazon have also clamped down on adult toys, leading to a market where sex toys are often poorly regulated and, let’s face it, low-quality. Take the bondage gear on Etsy these days—most of it seems to be from new sellers with barely any ratings, and when you look closer, it’s clear that the items are probably dropshipped from mass-produced factories with no regard for the kinky community’s needs. I’m talking about flimsy bondage cuffs, chastity cages, and ball gags that look like they were made in a sweatshop somewhere. We deserve better than that, people!

These corporate platforms are more than just purging our favorite shops; they’re also shaming the people who use the products. I mean, BDSM lingerie and bondage gear shouldn’t be a taboo subject, but it feels like every time a sex-positive shop tries to thrive, it’s smacked down by some algorithm or policy that doesn't understand the difference between empowering people and shaming them. It’s frustrating, to say the least, especially when there’s nothing wrong with wanting a high-quality flogger or a beautifully designed chastity cage.

And it's not just about the products. It’s about supporting small businesses that are creating amazing handmade goods without fear of being banned or censored. Plus, you can rest easy knowing the gear is high-quality and built to last. Akifu Toys, for example, isn’t churning out plastic knock-offs. They’re creating art you can get off to—literally.

Final Thoughts: Embrace Your Fantasies and Support Handmade

If you're tired of seeing your favorite handmade adult shops disappear from Etsy, it’s time to make the switch. Spicerack Market will hopefully be here to stay, as a place where you can find the bondage gear, crotchless panties, and fantasy dildos that will make your wildest dreams come true (or at least give you something fun to play with).

In the end, it’s all about supporting the artists and creators who are providing us with the kind of products that make us feel good, both inside and out. Don’t let big corporations tell you what’s “appropriate” for your desires. Shop on platforms like Spicerack Market, where fantasy dildos and bondage cuffs are celebrated, not shamed.