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We can also have some special ways of sex

Jane Li

By Jane LiPublished 8 months ago 3 min read

Sex doesn't always have to be by the book. Sometimes, a little change of scenery or approach can make all the difference. Your sexual encounters should match the environment. If you're in the kitchen, keep it quick and to the point—no need for a long, drawn-out romance. Under bright lights, intense and vigorous sex might be just the ticket. Or, you could light some candles or build a fire to create a dimly lit, romantic atmosphere. This sets the stage for slow, passionate lovemaking that matches the sensual vibe. Don't fall into the trap of routine just because it's comfortable. Sex should be exciting, and sometimes a small change—like going from bright lights to darkness—can spark a whole new level of passion.



Consider trying sex in places you've never thought of before—it's guaranteed to be thrilling! Sometimes, the location of your intimate encounters can be more exciting for your partner than the act itself. Even having sex in another room of your house or whispering how aroused you are in a crowded room can keep things fresh and exciting. Sex is a sensory experience, and when you engage all your senses, the passion intensifies. Limiting where you have sex is, in essence, limiting yourself. You'll never know how thrilling sex in unusual places can be until you try.



Any place in the world can be a spot for sex, though it might sometimes feel uncomfortable or rushed. However, the passion that comes from having sex in a car, outdoors, or even in a restroom at a party is worth any inconvenience. You don't have to give up the comfort and privacy of your bedroom, but if the opportunity arises, it can be a memorable experience.



You can plan to have sex in unusual places, or let it happen spontaneously. Your partner might be hesitant or worried about getting caught. Don't push them, but if you see a great opportunity and the timing is right, don't hesitate to suggest it. Your partner might just need time to get used to the idea, so make it appealing to them.



If you plan to have sex in an unusual place, make sure everything is set beforehand. Once you’ve shared the plan with your partner and both of you are in the mood, don’t stop halfway—it will only lead to frustration. Constantly showing your physical attraction to your partner will significantly strengthen your intimate relationship. If you want to drive your partner wild in bed, make sure sex is never a routine.



Avoid having sex when you’re sleepy; you’ll likely go through the motions without much enthusiasm. Instead, opt for the afternoon. Limiting your intimate encounters to the same time each day is not a smart idea. Your body’s chemistry fluctuates throughout the day, and so will your intimate experiences. Especially with a new partner, it’s your responsibility to experience intimacy at different times. Some people might not be responsive at certain times of the day, while at other times they can hardly contain themselves. Understanding your partner’s rhythm and preferences is key.



Many men like to take advantage of morning erections (caused by the pressure of a full bladder), but many women find this to be the least romantic time of day. For many women, having sex with a full bladder can be uncomfortable and may even lead to urinary infections. If you plan to have sex in the morning, pay attention to your partner’s reactions and suggest they use the restroom or brush their teeth first. Making everything clean and fresh for her will lead to a wonderful time together.



Intimacy in the afternoon can be fantastic, especially since you’re usually busy working at this time, adding an extra thrill. Quick encounters can happen anywhere and should be encouraged, as they are often a goal for many. Try having a quick session before going out in the evening, while preparing breakfast on a Sunday, or even before heading to work.



The most common time for sex in the evening is right before going to bed. The problem is that many people are too tired at that time to create a truly enjoyable experience, leading to sex becoming a routine. If you find yourself falling into this pattern, try to move your evening intimacy to an earlier time. Spend more time on intimacy, try new things, and quickly reignite the spark in your relationship that may have been dimmed by poor timing and lack of spontaneity.

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