Putting Sex in Its Rightful Place in Life

In the realm of love, you are each other's one and only. In his eyes, you are incredibly beautiful and unique, and the same is true for you. However, as time goes by, the hustle and bustle of life seems to quietly steal away those intimate moments between you. How long has it been since you last made love?



**Where Does Sex Belong in Our Lives?**



When asked why intimacy has faded, "Too tired" is often the first response that comes to mind. Indeed, an 8-hour workday coupled with the crowded city traffic leaves you feeling drained. Fatigue is the archenemy of a healthy sex life, quietly eroding the passion that once burned brightly.



But is there no way to change this? The answer is: Of course there is! The key is to place sex back in an important position in your life. It shouldn't be an occasional indulgence but an essential part of your busy schedule, just like work, family gatherings, or any other important activity. Only by doing this can you ensure that your intimate relationship isn't overshadowed by the daily grind.



**Straight to the Bedroom After Work**



Sex shouldn't be confined to the hours just before sleep. Often, after dinner and TV, fatigue sets in, and the stresses of the day take their toll. At that point, your mind is like mush, with only one thought left: sleep. So, why not try having sex before dinner? Perhaps once a week, head straight to the bedroom as soon as you get home, leaving all distractions behind. This unconventional approach might just bring new vitality to your sex life.



**A Romantic Date Night**



After work, consider meeting up to watch a movie. Even if you work in the same office, it's best to prepare separately and meet at the cinema, creating a romantic rendezvous in the ticket line. Choose a seat in a dimly lit corner at the back. While you'll enjoy the movie, the real pleasure comes from being together. Trust me, by the end of the film, you'll both be in the mood. When you get home, there won't be any second thoughts—just a desire to continue the connection.



**A Special Day Each Week**



Many people mistakenly believe that sex should happen spontaneously, without planning. They wait and wait for the "perfect moment," but it never seems to come. Instead of waiting indefinitely, it's wiser to pick a specific day each week for intimacy. This way, subconsciously, you'll rest better the night before, preparing yourself for the day. Or, leave a loving message for your partner in advance to build anticipation for the special day.



**Foreplay at 5:55 PM**



The daily commute can be exhausting, seemingly killing all your romantic feelings. But you can turn this disadvantage into an opportunity. If you're on the same mode of transportation, cuddle close, hold hands, and whisper sweet nothings to each other. This simple act can transform a tiring commute into the perfect foreplay, building excitement for the rest of the day.



**A Passionate Weekend**



Weekends are the perfect time to enjoy intimacy. Many people think that leaving home for a romantic getaway is the best way to spend the weekend. However, sometimes this isn't feasible due to financial constraints or the reality of crowded places. Instead, if there are no parents to visit or friends dropping by, staying at home and fully enjoying your own little world might be even better. On Thursday, take some time to shop for essentials: dim lights, romantic wine, and foods that awaken the senses. By Friday, say goodbye to all other distractions, put on some light and melodious music, and let the passionate weekend begin.



**Conclusion**



In today's fast-paced world, we often get caught up in the daily grind and forget the pure connection we share with our partners. Remember, sex is not just a physical need but an essential way to communicate emotionally. It deepens trust, understanding, and love. So, don't let fatigue and busyness become obstacles to your intimate relationship. Reorganize your life to make time for sex, and let it become an integral part of your love story. When you place sex in its rightful position, you'll find that your love grows deeper and more enduring.