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Ask Wendy - Sexual Foreplay
Ask Wendy: Wendy, why do I have such a hard time having orgasms with my husband? My friends claim they can have multiple orgasms with their lovers and I can barely have one, if not at all. I am not that experienced, my husband is only the 3rd person I have had sex with. Help…. Desperate for Answers- from Minnesota
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Love Yourself
I was twelve when I first learned what masturbation was. I was watching an episode of the British TV show Skins. There was this one character obsessed with a (gay) guy. She snuck into his bedroom and masturbated on his bed to thoughts of him. Now that I am older I see how creepy it was, but at that age I was more focused on the fact that she was sticking her hand down her pants and moaning. I didn't know what that meant, and I was infinitely curious.
By J.C. Marie9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: About BDS&M
I am intrigued by BDS&M upon inventing my sex toy and going into the underground world of all things sexual and erotic. Having the perception that only hardcore, biker types were involved in this fascinating underworld that I have arrived in, I was presently surprised by the mundane types that participate in this lifestyle. From every walk of life, every shape and size, sexual orientation, and occupation, the BDS&M lifestyle community comes from. Some actors are hardcore, some enjoy a softer approach, and some people live it 24/7. For those not yet exposed to the mental aspect of this fetish, www.fetlife.com is an amazing resource to learn more about it.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: About Staying in Love and Lust
Have you ever had someone ask you and your loved one, “What is your secret for staying married so long?” I have heard it a lot and had to take a step back to figure that out, as we live day to day and this transcendental question hadn’t arisen. Having been married for almost three decades, I guess from outward appearances yes, we have a successful marriage. But we have certainly been through many ups and downs as any relationship does, however, somehow we have been able to tolerate our differences and remain intact. The one saying we have heard was we never fell out of love at the same time. Well that is fine and dandy but you can’t rely on those odds.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: Sexuality and Pleasure Sensors
Sensory receptors are all around the human body and are in your eyes, ears, mouth, skin, and your nose (Issue, 2015). As one approaches sexuality as an erotic lover, the more senses you titillate the better. Lovers remember special visual and seductive moments. If you can massage your lover with scented oils, and massage their entire body and explore every inch of their skin that is a memorable experience.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: Ordinary Objects
When I was young I did not look in the mirror and say, "Oh yes! When I am an adult I will invent a controversial sex toy"! Of course, not. I was doing what every other girl did. Chase boys, play house with girls, beat up those I felt attracted to, made out with my boyfriends, and played spin the bottle. Hummmmm, bottle?
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy - Masturbation
Have you ever wondered if there were differences in masturbation patterns between men and women? If you thought that men masturbate more frequently than women you guessed right. Did you also wonder if men are more open to the possibility of casual sex? If you thought YES then that is also a correct assumption.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: About TEDDY LOVE and Medicinal Benefits
The TEDDY LOVE BEAR was launched successfully as a novelty gift that provided sexual benefits to those that were fortunate to receive TEDDY. TEDDY LOVE was created by chance and the utility of TEDDY LOVE has been found to provide anecdotal benefits well beyond those of a sexual nature.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: Is it Better to Give or Receive?
Is it better to give or receive oral sex? I personally love both but let’s see what a peer reviewed article says…. Did you ever wonder if men or women like to give or receive oral sex more than the other? In Wood, McKay and Milhausen’s study of 899 heterosexual college students there was a difference, at least where a committed relationship versus a casual hook-up is concerned.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Wacky Sex Toy of the Week: 'The Zeus Voice Controlled E-Stim Chastity System'
Have you been yearning for the sight of yet another strange and possibly alarming sex toy? Well, wait no longer, dear readers. Wacky Sex Toy of the Week has returned yet again, and, let me tell you, we’ve got a shocker for you. Or, more accurately, for ‘little you’. And yes, that shock is absolutely literal. Ready? Put on your thick-soled rubber boots, stay away from tall trees, and get ready to check out . . . . . . the Zeus Voice Controlled E-Stim Chastity System. (Pro tip: ‘e-stim’ is short for ‘electric stimulation’, which is just what it sounds like). You’ve heard of those shock collars for dogs? Yeah, this is basically a shock collar for your junk. I’m just going to take a moment to let that sink in. Shock collar for your junk. Yep. But wait . . . there’s more. Not only is this a shock collar for your junk, it’s also a chastity device. Your partner in junk-shocking locks your pork’n’beans inside the plastic confines of the Zeus, thus preventing any, uh, amorous activity, and also pressing the edges of your soon-to-be-maltreated-member against the sides of the unforgiving device. This wouldn’t be so bad, except for the fact that the sides and tip of the Zeus are covered in zappy electrodes. I’ll let the website’s text take this one away. “The chastity cage is lined with electro conductive silicone with pads running along the sides. Each electrode flares out into a paddle shape to optimise contact with the head of the penis.”
By Anne St. Marie9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy
Fetishism had been described by Sigmund Freud as eroticism derived from body parts and/or inanimate objects (Katka, 2010). Apparently, there were references to Fetishes in the late 1800s by sexologists, but my inclination is to believe that sexual fetishes were explored when Neanderthals roamed the earth. I conjure up images of “Cavey” dragging “Ms. Cavey” by her wildly matted, long, hair; possibly using a club on her head, all the while wearing his fashionable, furry-wear. If that doesn’t sound kinky, I don’t know what will.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Fetish Games to Play
Fun Fetish Games to play with your sub, slave, or friends Here is a small collection of fetish games I came up with to play with my friends, in fetish sessions, and for videos on my clips4sale sites. They are pretty easy to play and don't require you to get a lot of items to enjoy them.
By Summer Dream9 years ago in Filthy
