humanity
Facts and discussions about humanity, its current state, and where its heading.
Sex And Lack Of Emotions: What Does It Mean?
Sex means different things to different people. For some, it’s a highly emotional experience worthy of the saying ‘making love’. For others, it’s more of a bodily activity all about physical pleasure. Sex and lack of emotions is a bit of a controversial topic as it addresses our ideals about sex and love.
By Leigh Norén6 years ago in Filthy
Autocunnilingus - if it were possible, you would do it.
My unpopular opinion is, that if autocunnilingus was physically possible, we would all do it. Yes, even you Karen. While acceptance and public discussion of the act of female masturbation continues to grow, there are still discovered many people are insecure about their techniques in practicing the art of self-love. When it comes down to discussing it in a small group or publicly, in my experience, a lot of women still struggle to be totally open about the subject, especially when it is something considered a bit of a 'taboo' like hypothetically going down on yourself.
By Giulia Filippelli6 years ago in Filthy
"You can stay, but your clothes must go."
If you know me, you would know the one thing I love the most is…. being NAKED! YES!!!!! If I could be naked all day long, I would be a very happy camper. But that’s not the world we live in and I don’t see that being acceptable anytime soon. Soooooo what’s the next best thing other than not wearing a bra and underwear? A nude beach of course!
By Insatiable-ness6 years ago in Filthy
The Art of Selling Sex
Is it prostitution or self-worth? As a society we’ve voted to sell sex unwillingly and the people are yet to stand against this abuse and speak out; though some may argue that their identity is found in so called outrages outfits raging from the thrift, punk, classic and many more worlds we have forgotten to outline the difference between sexual appearances for approval and sexual appearances for affirmation; there is no subtle way to present or read this article as there are issues we need to address and this seem to be just the right time to lay in the beds we’ve made and discuss these issues.
By Rowen Motley6 years ago in Filthy
Rekindling My Love Life
I'm actually a relationship coach. I worked for Pure Romance previously for the past 4 years and started to steer in my own direction. Due to my own experience with the company and how sexist they were against MEN just didn't make no sense to me. So, I also had many issues arising in my own relationship of 7 years and 2 children that I could no longer bear with intimacy issues. Being a 26-year-old mother, with a fiancé', that has 6 years on me, I felt very insecure of being inexperienced. I have insecurities just about my body imagine in general. Judging every edge of my figure I could. So, during sex I was more than just a "Plain Jane", more like a one-sided run way if you say. Knowing that I WASN'T that I wasn't making love back to my fiance' and eventually having that being brought up in a huge fight stating that I was just a "DEAD FISH" FINALLY CAME OUT OF HIS MOUTH!! His deep frustrated voice of disgust made me realize how lazy I was really being as a wife & a lover...and I really thought I was doing it for him just by laying there and having him do all the work....I mean he still orgasm-ed.?!! That wasn't the point, me being so stuck in my insecurities of not fully forgiving the guys that raped me at 16 was mostly, if not all, the WHOLE problem! Being so confused on why I couldn't let go of something I thought I got through years ago took some months to figure out why my sex life wasn't where it should be. And figuring out how on earth I would even get to a beginning stages of when you first meet someone was forever far from my reach, it seemed.
By Kara Kanai6 years ago in Filthy
Owning your sexuality
Sex is the second basic instinct after survival Sex is such a huge part of a human beings life. Our society is getting more comfortable being able to except and communicate with sex and sexuality but, I believe still many people and couples have a hard time expressing and communication sex and sexuality as if it's dirty, a sin or unhealthy. Why do couples have such a easy time having sex but, can't discuss it with each other? Isn't that crazy.!! I come across many couples of mine that where they have no issue making love but, speaking about with one another just doesn't happen. How can you communicate what you want, like, dislike unless you speak about it with your partner? Your not comfortable enough to discuss it with your best friend then why feel close to one another if that connection is missing of trust, safety and compromise. Either way eventually a couple will face hard conflicts with one another due to not being able to talk about sex.
By Kara Kanai6 years ago in Filthy
Sense
His shirt smells of cheap cologne and his breath smells like beer, reeking of a bad idea, but when he turns to leer at you, you hold your breath and smile. You know what to do; the way to flick your hair, how to laugh even when he isn't funny - and he almost never is. He’s actually never much of anything at all, and maybe that’s why you go to him. You watch as he shifts closer to you, reaching out towards you. In his hand is some fruity drink, a clear cooler bottle filled with bright blue, sugary headaches. Instead of taking it, you lean in and kiss him.
By Miranda Jaensch6 years ago in Filthy
Flirtationship
Can men and women actually be friends without someone eventually catching feeling? Seriously though? Does it ever work out that way? In my opinion, I don’t think that’s possible but of course it all depends on the people involved, just never forget that we are all human (well, I have met some aliens in my day), but we are all mostly human. Humans tend to want more at some point either initially or down the line, but someone, either the man or woman, ends up wanting more out of that relationship. Think about it, you become so close with these “friends with benefits” and you end up getting sucked in somehow. Especially if there is great sexual energy!! Usually it starts out by getting to know them, what they like, what they don’t like, what turns them on/off, etc. These humans start to grow on you...You become comfortable with each other. You make each other laugh/cry/scream, whatever it is, but if they become true friends (ride or die shit), then they begin to accept you for who you are, your choices, your craziness, your flaws and downfalls, and they stick around longer than anticipated. There are many pros and cons to these types of friendships. Do you see how men and women really can’t just be “friends."
By Insatiable-ness6 years ago in Filthy
