fetishes
Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
The Club
The air was smoky and the lights were very dim as I passed a group of maybe five guys sitting at a table. I practically had to squint to make out where I was going. I felt their eyes on me as I swung into the ladies washroom. I stopped to check my reflection in the mirror, my friend was right, the contact lenses certainly did allow my big brown eyes to be seen better. I couldn't believe the person looking back was me. What a difference from a year ago.
By Frankie Lane8 years ago in Filthy
Tell It Like It Is
When it comes to sexual relationships, there are some areas that can be a little tricky. There are the average questions of, who's more sexually advanced than the other, is my physical physique up to par or, am I doing the things he likes? What if your questions ranged further? What if you had a sexual itch that needed to be scratched and struggling with how to ask without scaring him off?
By Tara Roberts8 years ago in Filthy
Submission Is Not Weakness
To begin with, I have no more psychological issues than the everyday person. I was neither sexually abused at any point in my life nor do I suffer from any form of sexual disorder: I am completely capable of enjoying a sexual encounter without the aid of BDSM. I also knew early on that my sexual preferences were anything but traditional. Becoming excited over the scent and feel of smoothed rubber was a dead giveaway.
By Tara Roberts8 years ago in Filthy
Why Showing a Vanilla Your Fetlife Profile is Not Always a Great Idea...
It may seem like I've got a bit of a downer on the vanillas at the moment. I haven't but as I've said in my previous writings, I came to a conclusion about them this week. So on that premise, I thought I'd share some of the amusing conversations I have had.
By The Kinky Fox8 years ago in Filthy
The Chastity Project - Chapter Three
In my other blog - the autism one - I spoke about an encounter I had with a bull. I lived on a farm when I was young, and this bull used to terrify me. One day, I tried to stare it down, and it started shaking its head, stamping its hooves, snorting loudly - generally acting like a fucking psychopath. My nerve broke and I ran away from it. I was completely safe from it. It was in a pen, and there was no way it could get at me. But it was still a terrifying moment, for an eight-year-old boy.
By Graham Farquhar8 years ago in Filthy
The Chastity Project - Chapter Two
Theres visited me before Cathy and her friend left, so there was crossover between them. I don’t really think they got a lot of time to talk to each other, though. Cathy and her friend were very independent and I barely saw them through the day.
By Graham Farquhar8 years ago in Filthy
Introduction
A Brief Look at Institutionalised Bigotry I’m not going to make any unrealistic claims, here. There’s no way I’ll say that I’m not sexist or misogynistic or anything like that. We all have those tendencies within us. We all have moments of misanthropy, bigotry, homophobia, transphobia, - all sorts of prejudices. Because we all have things that shape us. Environments that raise us and nurture us... but which also seed in those insidious little details that limit us. Those little voices at the back of our heads, which don’t really belong to us. They were put there by our parents, our teachers, the other kids in the school playground, the media, the newspapers - a million other sources.
By Graham Farquhar9 years ago in Filthy
Common Fetishes You Didn't Know the Name For
Fetishes were, at one point, considered to be a taboo. Even now, they are considered to be taboo by most peoples' standards. In psychology, fetishes actually used to be universally categorized as paraphilias — a sexual attraction considered to be unhealthily deviant.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
French Vanilla
We all like to think we're normal, for the most part. It's not until we get out of our comfort zones, and start meeting other people, that we find out there are folks who think it's weird to put pineapple on your pizza, who don't like watching scary movies right before bed, and who think it's a little weird that you coordinate the shoes you're wearing with the gun you're carrying.
By Neal Litherland9 years ago in Filthy
