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What BDSM Isn't Part 3
If you have not read part one or two click on my name to go to my page to do so. One myth that I haven't heard but heard similar ones to is that BDSM is about hurting people and making them do things they don't want to do. There's so much wrong with this statement. First off people can ask not to be hurt. Secondly, the lifestyle is just not all these people running around hurting people. The good people in the lifestyle actually care about people and their boundaries. Third, people can set up boundaries and the right people will respect the boundaries of others. It's not always violent or painful.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Isn't Part 2
If you hadn't read part one click my name and do so now. So let's get back into this. We all know people judge or make up stuff about stuff they don't understand.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Isn't #1
So in one of my past posts I talked about how BDSM isn't abuse but there are so many more lies that people believe about the lifestyle. If you don't understand something you shouldn't judge it. There are some people that are in the lifestyle or have been in the lifestyle that don't understand what it is. There's also people who were in it and then had bad experiences or just really didn't like it and they badmouth the lifestyle. There are people who are doing it wrong and they give it a bad name. Yes, there is a way to do BDSM wrong, and we will talk about it through here.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
Put Daddy to the Test and Other Porn Trends
"Who's your daddy?" Men ask their lovers all the time. Some find it incredibly sexy and a turn on. While others are not as fond of the phrase or using a parental title with a lover.
By Edward Anderson6 years ago in Filthy
Scat!
Legend has it is that there's a porn tube that features videos of lesbians shitting all over each other. Even eating the shit. Smearing it all over themselves until they look like dehumanized, degraded, and animal-like subhuman savages. I wouldn't personally know, you understand. I'm a veritable choirboy when it comes to shit-scarfing.
By Tom Baker6 years ago in Filthy
Early Sexual History
I can remember my first day of grade school after I turned five years of age. My older sister, Sherry, was already in school, and I was excited about going myself. We got up that first day of school morning, and my mother helped us dress and fed us. Then we walked around to the school. She took Sherry to class first, and quickly headed around to my classroom with me. She talked to the teacher for a while, and I could hear the teacher tell her I was in good hands. They walked me over to one of the small tables where other children were seated, and sat me down. I was good right up until I realized my mother was leaving me there. When I realized that, I started crying like a baby, loud and I couldn’t stop. The teacher had to convince my mother to just leave and everything would be alright. That’s my memory of the start of school, and I was only there for half a day.
By One Iam6 years ago in Filthy
The Muscled Woman and the DJ
Something about the panorama, the sunset, the pure breathtaking beauty of the place and the way it invited me to reflect on the greatness of the Universe and my presence within it always filled me with wonder and a sense of peace.
By Johnny Seven6 years ago in Filthy
Are Sugar Daddies & Babies a Fetish?
I am done having this argument in the groups so I decided to write this article to share what I know. This is not an opinion, this is fact. I want all sugar babies and daddies (and mamas) have a great experience in sugar. I also don't want BDSM people to have to wade through sugar people to find BDSM. Newbies in both lifestyle think they know everything when they don't. I can't even find any articles that say it's a fetish.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
What Is BDSM?
BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline/Dominant, Sadism/Submissive, and Masochism. It often refers to a collection of activities that are considered kinky. BDSM can be used to add some spice to sexual activities. Many scenarios use informed consent to exchanges in power and can include a variety of toys or objects. Sometimes people incorporate pain elements to their playtime, but that is not always an objective or requirement. It's a very personal choice.
By Teela Hudak6 years ago in Filthy
15 Unheard of Fetishes
Why hello again, my SubSays friends! I decided to do something a little different and teach about some kinks that aren’t extremely common, but may surprise you. Here are 15 unique kinks to pique your interest.
By Lorah Catherine6 years ago in Filthy
Ask a Submissive, Vol. 4
Ask a Submissive Vol. 4 Alrighty, folks. Let’s do the most FREQUENTLY Googled questions about BDSM culture and relationships. Because why not, and because I really don’t feel like I’ve been able to cover all the basics with you yet—may as well use the internet to my advantage!
By Lorah Catherine6 years ago in Filthy
GWNN Bash 2019. Top Story - August 2019.
This weekend, I attended my first fetish convention and it was quite an eye-opener. For my part, I've been active in the fetish scene for about a year. During this time, I've been very much enjoying kink exploration with various experienced partners. I had private one-on-one adventures at first but then moved on to attending play parties (where the goal is to have sexual, sensual, or kink play with the person you came with and/or with people you meet there) at private homes and then eventually going to sex clubs with a partner, usually on the club's fetish night.
By Christopher Happenstance6 years ago in Filthy