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Quiet or Noisy During Sex?

How do you prefer?

By Sunshine JanePublished 4 years ago 3 min read
Quiet or Noisy During Sex?
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Do you prefer to have quiet sex and get along with your partner or do you like noisy sex, based on dirty words and sexy sounds?

In many cases, the partners are afraid to talk during intercourse, believing that this could make the pleasure go away. However, the number of couples who prefer noisy sex is higher.

Few know, however, that sex can be much more sensual when the two partners give free rein to the starts and make various sounds for maximum pleasure.

Noisy sex party or quiet sex party

Not sure if your partner wants a sex game based on dirty and bold words?

There is a possibility that your partner may not have a proper reply to what you said and when this happens, everything falls apart.

So, you have to start gradually, to find out if your partner is open to this aspect: ask him to tell you a fantasy, and you will have to develop the subject. Depending on his answers, you will know if he is willing to have a noisy sex party or if he prefers a quiet sex party.

Remember that sex is not an exact science, and instinct is the only element we can rely on, an element that is perfected, over time, by experience.

Advantages and disadvantages: noisy sex versus silent sex

Regarding the advantages and disadvantages of noisy sex versus silent sex, in general, it depends on the couple in question.

But if we look at things objectively, according to statistics, noisy sex has better results than silent sex, both in terms of sex because the end is a perfect one for both partners, and in terms of communication between the two partners, having in view that noisy sex has the advantage of bringing the two partners closer through communication.

Through noisy sex, you will get to know your partner better, both in terms of his desires and in terms of his evolution in your relationship. But quiet sex is no worse.

Even if it is not about verbal communication during silent sex, you can get to know your partner better, in silence, looking at him and analyzing him in everything he does.

My advice is to try both noisy and quiet sex if you are perfectly compatible with your partner, that is, you agree with this, and conclude in this way, which of these two types of sex represents you.

Noise during sex?

First of all, you must never forget that in a couple the most important trust factor is communication. So, you should not be afraid to talk to your partner during sexual intercourse no matter what you feel you need to whisper to him.

A few whispers in your partner's ear can turn sex into an unforgettable sexual experience. Of course, you can start whispering dirty words to him during the foreplay, not just during intercourse, but you have to master the art that all lovers should master, namely, obscene language.

A noisy successful sex

Here are two sexual positions that will give you a successful and noisy sex game:

Noisy partner position

To practice this sexual position, you need to lie on your back, with one foot on your partner's shoulder and the other leg around his middle, while your partner penetrates you standing on your knees. In this way, your partner will be able to penetrate you strongly.

The position of noisy lovers

To implement this sexual position, your partner should lie on his back with his legs outstretched, and you should climb on top of him, bending your knees, but with your back to him. This way you will have total control over the depth of penetration, and he will be able to fully admire your buttocks.

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