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Are Sugar Babies Sex Workers?
Now the short answer is no. In the beginning of the sugar baby lifestyle, they were mainly arm candy and a companion; sex may have been involved, but that wasn't the only reason the baby would be paid. The old school babies still practice the lifestyle this way. They understand that other means of making money from their daddies can be considered something different.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
Sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
So sub and dom drop is a drop that occurs after an intense scene. Some people also experience a drop after intense sex. This happens because adrenaline and endorphins spike during play, a scene and sex. Bottoms or sub types experience the drop more often. Most doms have never experienced a drop. This is because they may not experience as intense of a high as a bottom type does during a scene. The low percentage of reports of dom drop could also be because they maybe less likely to talk about it especially if it will cause them to be vulnerable.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
My BDSM Horror Story
There is a trigger warning on this post so if you are sensitive to BDSM sex, assault and abuse this post is not for you. So this happened a few years ago and I was so stupid for not ending things sooner. I was on a certain site (I don't think they want this kind of publicity) and I was posting ads looking for a dom. A few days later after posting my first ad, I got a message from an older guy telling me he was looking for a sub type for his sub. I was intrigued so I messaged him back. We all got on a private group chat on Kik to talk to each other. I don't remember how soon this came out but at some point I found out that the guy was married but had this sub on the side of his marriage. I should have left at that point because I reasoned it away by saying his wife knew so it was ok. I just didn't like that she told me not him. So, I went on like normal and agreed to meet them. I have no problem with married people dating as long as their spouse knows and is ok with it.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
Sexuality & Romantic Attraction
In sexuality and romantic attraction, there is no such thing as abnormal; this is normal. For those who are new to the world of sexuality and romantic attraction, welcome. I'll be nice and easy to understand, I hope. The difference between romantic and sexual attraction is that sexual attraction or sexuality is more primal; who draws you in appearance-wise. Romantic attraction is who draws you in personality-wise and who you see having a relationship with. We also can't assume that there is just straight, gay, and bi. People have evolved, so let's dive in.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
Watching My Wife with Her Lover
It’s not as comfortable as I imagined it would be in the closet. It’s hot and stuffy. The clothes hanging around me sit on my shoulders and on my head. There are too many shoes in here to sit comfortably. I should have bought some sort of seat. I have a perfect view of the bed through the crack in the door, though.
By Dark Cherry Collective6 years ago in Filthy
Lactation Fetish/Adult Nursing
So some men like the idea of seeing the woman they are with lactate, and some men even like tasting it and drinking it. I once had a request from a man to force lactation so that I can breastfeed him. Yep, this is a real fetish and a real request; that's why I'm writing about it to tell you how to do it and what else you need to know.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
Onision VS DDLG/BDSM (and a Few Others)
So if you don't know who Onision is, he is a YouTuber who does not like to be judged and yet judges others. His main focus has been DDLG, which has obviously upset a few people in the community. He acts like we are "special needs" or are mentally ill. He also acts like the community is about being attracted to kids. Some of us do have special needs or have mental illness. Some of us also don't have daddy issues, which is another one of his ideas about the community. A couple has taken him to task on YouTube. Sadly there are more people like him, on and off YouTube.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
BDSM Masters/Mistress
A Master and Mistress are kinds of doms in the BDSM lifestyle. I may say Master more in this post, but I will mean Master or Mistress. Mistresses and Masters are the same thing, but a Master is the male term and Mistress is female. A lot of people do this lifestyle very differently, but I will tell you the basics and what the majority of the community can agree on. They usually are with a submissive who identifies as a slave. I wrote a whole story on here about slaves. Slaves are sometimes seen as objects and belongings. Most of the time they're seen as property to their Masters, wearing a collar. Masters sometimes even name their slaves.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
Play Buddies and FWB
I really want to continue doing posts on how to do certain dynamics or teach you about certain dynamics. This one will be really simple and might be enlightening to some of you. So let's jump in, shall we? If you don't know what play buddies are, it's just what it sounds like. It's when two adults decide to do sexual stuff to each other but maybe not go all the way. If they go all the way, it may evolve to friends with benefits (FWB) possibly. Friends with benefits is where two friends (again adults) decide to maintain a friendship but fuck and maybe play on occasion. There's different variations of this, but this is the main dynamic of this variety.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
My Time at a Swingers Club
So for this blog, I can't tell you what the club is called, all I can say is it's one in my home state of Georgia. The reason that I can't tell you the name is because I don't know how this blog is going to go and I don't know how the club owner would feel about me talking about his club on a non-kink or swinger site.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
7 Things to Do Before a Hookup You Need to Know
Knowing that you are on the verge of a great hook up experience is a great feeling. When you actually do it, it ends up being exciting, thrilling, embarrassing and even weird sometimes, which just makes it more memorable and enjoyable. For some people, it might be a life changing event and for others it ends up being a memory to cherish for the rest of their lives. There are innumerable ways in which you can be affected by a casual hook up experience. However, if you go about it without exercising caution and common sense, you might end up with the exact opposite. Such a situation will end up leading to an experience that you will not only regret but even one that might put you in a lot of danger.
By Alice Naraa6 years ago in Filthy
