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How To Discuss BDSM With Your Partner
If you're curious about kink or are a major fan of it, you're probably well-aware of how hard it can be to talk about BDSM with your partner. It can be embarrassing to talk about that side of your sexuality. You might be worried that your partner will think you're a freak for it. In some cases, you might even get worried about your partner having a chip on their shoulder after you talk about it.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: About BDS&M
I am intrigued by BDS&M upon inventing my sex toy and going into the underground world of all things sexual and erotic. Having the perception that only hardcore, biker types were involved in this fascinating underworld that I have arrived in, I was presently surprised by the mundane types that participate in this lifestyle. From every walk of life, every shape and size, sexual orientation, and occupation, the BDS&M lifestyle community comes from. Some actors are hardcore, some enjoy a softer approach, and some people live it 24/7. For those not yet exposed to the mental aspect of this fetish, www.fetlife.com is an amazing resource to learn more about it.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Sex, Viagra, Libido, Marriage & Divorce in the Millennium
Marriage and Divorce Married/committed couples & singles are re-shaping their lives in all areas; regardless of approaching milestone birthdays. “Forty is the new thirty” and people finally understand they don’t have to give into the stereotyping of certain age groups.
By Susan McCord9 years ago in Filthy
Equal Op-porn-tunity
The porn community is working harder all the time to change their culture into a respectable industry like any other. One of the problems they are going to have to deal with is Equal Opportunity. I don’t say this to point fingers at anyone, because that isn’t how you solve problems. Knowing the truth about American history, we see that without a deliberate effort to change, the racist practices of the past haunt us. Most white Americans do racist things all of the time, but I would venture that 99 percent of them aren’t racists. The problem is that some racist traits have become so ingrained in American culture that we can’t tell that they are racist. However, that’s not an acceptable excuse.
By Mickey Finn9 years ago in Filthy
Doing to Do For the First Time
Sex is a topic that surrounds us. From TV to ads online to porn websites, there is no escaping the influence of sex on the everyday American's life. Therefore, when I had sex for the first time, I found myself comparing and contrasting my experience with the expectations society has forced upon me. With that in mind, here are some things I noticed during my first time I had sex. Disclaimer: all of these are based off my own personal experience and may not reflect what you have experienced. With that in mind, let's go.
By J.C. Marie9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: About Staying in Love and Lust
Have you ever had someone ask you and your loved one, “What is your secret for staying married so long?” I have heard it a lot and had to take a step back to figure that out, as we live day to day and this transcendental question hadn’t arisen. Having been married for almost three decades, I guess from outward appearances yes, we have a successful marriage. But we have certainly been through many ups and downs as any relationship does, however, somehow we have been able to tolerate our differences and remain intact. The one saying we have heard was we never fell out of love at the same time. Well that is fine and dandy but you can’t rely on those odds.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Why (and Where) to Have Sex in Public
Several months ago, I was walking on 42nd Street in New York City with Ron. Ron is a lawyer–as a hobby, I'd argue, because his real occupation is sex. Ron is a highly accomplished voyeur, and knows more about sex than anyone I know. As we were approaching the corner of Seventh Ave., Ron put his hand on my arm and said in a low voice so as not to draw any attention, "Look in that car parked there by the curb. There are two people fucking in the car."
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
A Real Man
A Real Man I was coming home from my punishing housekeeping day job on the bus. I was working at a resort on South Padre Island during the summer season. The next couple days were infrequent days off, so I was looking forward to a beer and falling into a deep sleep. It was going to also be a girl’s night; one of my buddies at work needed a drink as much as me. It was the last stop on South Padre. A couple guys got on the bus. I recognized one of them. He was Rick; I had met him previously at a party on the island at Boomerang Billy’s. The guy that was with him, I’d never met. I’m pretty much an anti-social bitch most of the time, but this guy was so positive and happy. It just oozed out of him along with a lot of self-confidence. That’s the only ice-breaker for me. Self-confidence in a man is sexy. So I decided okay, just this once I won’t be a bitch and this one can talk to me. I could tell he was much younger than I was. He was very tall, yet clearly had some Mexican. But hey, that’s 90 percent of the valley. So I had told myself when I moved there I’d probably have to adjust my attractions to something a little more realistic if the occasion ever presented itself. Because the majority is a culture I’m not familiar with but was curious about from working with them. The ladies I worked with weren’t always nice to me on the job. But when it came to breaks and after work, I never went hungry or had to walk home. They worked so damn hard yet they were always happy and in a great mood. I was envious of them in that respect. I wondered how they could be so damn happy all the time.
By L A Easton9 years ago in Filthy
Speak Up About Sex!
It’s a tragic shame that people will talk about their relationship and sexual desires with a friend or complete stranger who is some sort of professional, much more easily, more often and be more open and honest about all of it than they will with their significant other.
By Jim Vigilante9 years ago in Filthy
Sex Games for Couples
For the first several years of marriage, sex was probably great between you and your significant other. You banged every which way, experiencing orgasm after orgasm all over the place. During the past few years, you might not have had difficulty sustaining sexual interest, but eventually it will begin to go downhill.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
