I'm Going There...

A common myth is that men want sex all the time.

Well, what if your just a single father type who just didn't date because you were busy with a kid?

That's what I thought for years I was raising a young but now teenager and even he now was wondering why I was alone.

But also I suffered from a rare type of bipolar disorder, I'm allergic to the magic treatment for bipolar disorder lithium.

When you can't take lithium, your forced to take cocktails to get the effect of just one magical lithium pill could have. Yes I'm aware of drugs like abilify being approved as well, but it still doesn't have the effect of lithium treatment.

So, for over a decade I took very bad SSRIS that cause erectile dysfunction so what the doctors would tell me if your planning anything sexual it has to be planned, and also skip the dose so you don't have to rely on viagra.

But for simple masturbation, at 35 I needed Viagra and my pcp and my physiatrist refused to take me seriously because my age.

I forget how much begging and pleading went by before I was finally ordered to take a blood test.

The doctors were stunned when they saw my testosterone levels. I remember the first reading, 84, the normal should of been 200.

I was immediately ordered testrone replacement therapy. This is going to sound odd, but I had to retrain my man parts because it had life.

Then suddenly they sent me to an endocrinologist to prevent further episodes of ed. I had to switch to wellbutrin which again I had to retrain my brain for life.

I literally had no clue I was dead sexually for 10 years. I thought I was a victim of bad life circumstances but then at 36 after almost 8 months of testrone therapy i actually experienced real orgasms.

A real orgasm for a man is not just the swimmer's, but a really good high. If you have a headache it's gone and you feel like a million bucks.

I'm not ashamed to admit that first, I was a victim of bad medical care l, and second I had a sexual awakening later in life.

I actually want relationships which is something I didn't actively pursue before. I'll give you a good point it may be partially chemical but it gave me back desire for not a cold bed.

So especially in a pandemic all alone in honor of masturbation month I issue a challenge are you really getting a full orgasm? Because I thought for 20 years that the Male measured in just the fluid I didn't stop to take in the rest of the body.

If you don't feel the orgasm in your whole body not just your Johnson, your missing something, get a blood test. Women often describe how they can experience a good orgasm from head to toe, well guys you can have that too. Even if it's just you and your favorite private stash.

Also guys remember Viagra, Cialis, those are only blood flow helpers. If your experiencing low T your not receiving the full health benefits of orgasming either. Also guys, buck up your still a man if you ask for help

But also I recommend to any guy having to take anti depressants, consider non SSRI's because an effective called to much SSRI's will easily effect the man parts. Wellbutrin doesn't. If you need SSRI'S your going to need to possibly talk to a professional if your experiencing ed already it can happen at any age with those pills but a good doctor will help you still enjoy the bedroom.