I Learned the Best Way to Find Casual Sex for Free

It’s not Halloween night, but today I’m going to tell you a little about my personal antics. Getting straight to the point, today I’m going to reveal to you how I find fun partners to have casual dates without having to rush to dating apps or men’s strip clubs, lol.

That’s right.

I’m not ready to have a serious relationship and I don’t want to give up my single life for now, I believe there are a lot of people who think the same as me — That being said, as I could no longer bear having to download dating apps to find someone A great pair to have fun at night, I did my best and learned the best way to find these men without having to go crazy by hooking up with people on Tinder.

Want to know how I do this? So pay attention to what I’m going to write below, lol.

In fact, I’m already saying that this is a technique that works for both men and women. In other words, just try to put this into practice and I’m sure that at some point luck will smile on you!

That said, what was the first step that led me towards this fantastic discovery? Talking like someone desperate for attention, lol.

This was partly a joke, but it also has a grain of truth.

You see, I was always that girl who stayed in the corner of the room while everyone talked and got to know each other, but since I started to fit in more I realized how powerful that was. It was then that I started to get more involved in matters and talk more to everyone. And that was the first step I took toward a completely unique experience in my life.

I know, I know, it sounds basic, but instead of hiding behind a screen, I decided to embrace my social side. I started going to places where people with similar interests gathered. Bars, coffee shops, and even the local market became my new hunting grounds.

And guess what? It worked like a magic trick. Engaging in casual conversations, making eye contact, and showing interest in what others were saying opened doors I never imagined. It was like I found a gold mine just for myself, lol.

For example, on a random Saturday a few months ago, I started talking to someone about the ripeness of avocados, we laughed a lot, we exchanged our numbers, we sent each other several messages, and well, would you believe those avocados weren’t were the only things that ripened that weekend? Lol.

Honestly, I never thought that talking about avocados with a stranger could give me hours of entertainment and fun — But with that, I understood one thing: everywhere is good for flirting.

That’s right, everywhere is good for flirting. Be it in the neighborhood market, in any bar, etc. — Everywhere someone is looking for an opportunity to “get along” with someone, and if the two hit it off right there, the result is inevitable: interaction.

And from that point, the conversation begins to unfold.

What’s more, I used to be the typical person who said no to every night out, but recently I learned that sometimes it’s good to say “yes” for a change.

For example, remember that movie “Yes Sir”? I took a page out of Jim Carrey’s book and started saying yes to more invitations and guess what? From house parties to trivia nights at the local pub, I exposed myself more. This not only expanded my social circle but also led to some unexpected and unforgettable encounters.

It was like setting up a network, but with a different purpose: self-improvement and having casual encounters as a gift.

You see, there was a day when I surprised myself, look at the situation: I went out for a drink with a friend, we sat in a random bar and suddenly we were talking to a group of strangers who were touring here. Do you know what happened after that? I found myself in a karaoke bar, singing 80s classics with them who quickly became my new friends.

Of course, alcohol contributed a little to this (like 70%), but look, I was really happy when the next day I opened my eyes and understood that I had “let go” more the night before and managed to fit in nicely with those I loved. I had never seen it before — It was a victory.

In short, what I really did to escape Tinder and find casual dates in real life was to get out of my comfort zone, visit places I like, and talk to strangers, making them acquaintances and talking to them until we hit the ground running.

And my tip for you who are shy like me is: start slowly.

For example, start by talking to a little lady in the fruit and vegetable section at the supermarket. This way you will gradually lose your fear of interacting with people.

I often did this myself when I was trying to free myself from the fear of talking to strangers. And it worked well for me — It was from this that I understood that no one is looking at you 100% of the time and that I can be who I am and no one would judge me for it.

Sincerely? Taking this attitude of talking to strangers was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. And I hope this works for you too

Enjoy!

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