What Are The Differences Between Love And Sex
Some say it is the same, and others argue the opposite. In the present article, we will try to prove that there is a difference between the two.
We've all often wondered if there is any difference between making love and having sex. Making love means having sex with love, while having sex is only about satisfying some purely biological needs. You make love with your body and soul, you make sex only with your body. In reality, the difference between the two represents a kind of enigma for me, the mystery of which I haven't managed to elucidate yet. In short, we'll show you how to make love and what you need to keep in mind when someone asks you to have sex.
What is the difference between sex and love after all?
We are aware that we cannot answer in a single article some questions that have troubled the minds of philosophers for centuries. However, applying a reductionist filter to all that is love and sex, we could say that it is exactly the difference between a biological imperative and a necessity associated with an evolutionary brain process.
More precisely, sex is the biological need for copulation. In the animal kingdom, the male will court the female with a specific purpose - to pass on the genes. As a rule, the male will choose the female based on well-established criteria such as belly span, height, weight, and a number of suitors.
The purpose of sex is always clear and pragmatic - whether it is impregnation or resolving an inner tension related to a hormonal imbalance. In a word, drive.
Does any of the above sound like everything I've known, heard, seen, or read about making love? Of course not. Making love is a complex act and, in large part, depends on mental and affective processes that we still do not know
We don't know what exactly attracts us to the other. Maybe it's the way he carries himself, the way his dimples pop when he smiles, or the passionate way he talks about what defines him.
It can be all together or none. The only thing sure is that people feel the need to make love maybe to express, beyond words, what exactly they feel for each other.
Nothing is practiced in love. Simply, and despite everything, you feel the need to chain the person next to you in your arms and show them, without telling them, that you love them.
According to doctors, love is merely a physiological reaction with no spiritual underpinnings. It might also be that. There is a chemical imbalance in the brain during romantic love. According to this perspective, love is a stroke that alters both partners.
We cannot support the fact that men choose their partners based on how capable they are of producing strong and healthy children. At least not on a conscious level (reminiscence from the animal period). People make love because they are attracted to each other. Because they want to discover themselves or rediscover themselves.
Making love has no purpose, like the biological need to procreate. It means showing the other person how much they mean to you and that you feel good and safe with him or her.
Maybe there will never be a convincing response to this query. What we need to know is that in most relationships people are not having sex, they are making love. Even that seemingly illogical sex drive stems from the need to get even closer to someone you already have strong feelings for.
Conclusion
As you can see, it is very difficult to answer this question. However, to be able to draw a pertinent conclusion, we could argue that sex and love are differentiated by finality - one is about instinct, and the other is about unexpected mental and spiritual springs.
About the Creator
Viorel Secareanu
I share thoughts on photography and life, mostly lessons learned around things I’ve been dealing with the last few years, managing time, finding focus, and being happy.
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