10 Ways to Flirt Without Saying a Word

To flirt effectively, you don’t have to say a word. Flirting is all about your body language, facial expressions, and overall attitude towards the person you’re interested in. And while some of these things are easier said than done (I mean, do I have to tell you how difficult it can be to keep that goofy grin off your face when someone you like smiles at you?), they’re all things that can be learned and practiced until they come naturally – whether it’s with the girl next door or on a date with your future wife.

1) Open Her Door

While most guys overlook it, opening doors for women is something that goes a long way in making them feel special. It’s subtle and innocent, yet shows her you’re attentive, confident and sensitive—three things that all women desire in men. A study done by Forbes found that more than 80% of people, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, are attracted to confidence. So don’t be afraid of coming off strong when approaching a woman; rather, embrace your charm and let her know she has your undivided attention. She will be more than happy to reciprocate!

2) Give Her Compliments

Give her compliments on specific parts of her appearance, but be sure that they are genuine. Women hate when men give them generic compliments. For example, instead of telling her she is beautiful, tell her that you love her freckles or how nice her blue eyes look today. Compliment something unique about how she looks. This is an easy way to flirt without saying a word and women really respond to it.

3) Listen Well

Communication is key when it comes to flirting and relationships. Make sure you are clearly listening and not thinking about what you want to say next. When we listen intently, it’s much easier for others to open up. Asking questions about his or her interests will make them feel listened to and valued. Your focus on their needs allows your partner to feel more confident, which makes them more likely to take an interest in you.

4) Embrace the Awkwardness

People who struggle with making friends often overthink things and turn off possible friendships. Don’t forget—everyone in your social circle was once a newcomer. With your confidence, you can embrace that awkwardness and become someone everyone wants to be around. Chances are if you’re enjoying yourself, others will notice how fun you are. You also might find some unexpected friendships starting organically (wink). (See #4.) More importantly, these are all ways to flirt without saying a word. In fact, by embracing an approachable vibe and by taking simple actions like these on your own terms, flirting becomes easier than ever before.

5) Learn How to Dance

One of best ways to attract women is by learning how to dance. When you learn how to do something that makes you appear attractive and confident, you stand out from other guys who are just standing around. Plus, when it comes time for a girl to go home with someone at the end of an evening, she will choose one of two things: confidence or physical attraction. She’ll rarely choose both. So if you’re not a supermodel, improve your odds of being chosen by learning how to dance (and if nothing else — looking like you know what you’re doing).

6) Spend Time Alone Together

This is one of those tips that sounds simple but can be extremely difficult in practice. Friendship, after all, requires spending time together. Once you’ve spent enough time getting to know her, invite her on an activity that allows you both to engage and interact with each other in public. If you’re at a loss for ideas, going out for coffee or getting lunch together will provide you with plenty of opportunities to do so. Just be sure not to make your invitation seem like an interview; girls don’t want you quizzing them and they don’t want it to feel like work either!

7) Cook Her Dinner

As you know, it’s nearly impossible to flirt with a girl on an empty stomach. Instead of simply asking her out, cook her dinner and ask her over. This way you can talk without ever having to ask will you go out with me? It’s nonchalant and makes you seem confident and bold while showing off your culinary skills. She may even help wash some dishes after!

8) Understand That You’re Not Her Boyfriend

Men often think that if they’re friends with a girl, she will automatically want to be their girlfriend. However, what women really want is friendship. The best way to flirt with her without actually saying anything is by letting her know you’re just like any other friend (i.e., not asking her out). Just because you buy her dinner and pay for movie tickets doesn’t mean she wants you to take it any further than that—she still wants to keep things platonic!

9) Don’t Be Afraid of PDA (Public Displays of Affection)

If you and your SO are on good terms with one another, don’t be afraid of expressing it—and showing off your attraction to each other—in public. Public displays of affection (PDAs) say we care about each other without saying anything at all. And as long as it doesn’t go too far or become inappropriate, no one will have any reason to judge you. PDAs can also help boost your self-confidence: When you’re more confident in yourself, you tend to put yourself out there more when it comes to relationships, making flirting easier. Plus, if others see that you’re happy and comfortable with someone else (whether that someone is platonic or romantic), they may want what you have.

10) Show Her You’re Different From Other Guys

If you show her that you’re different from other guys, she will see you as intriguing and intriguing people are always attractive. Here are 10 ways to do that: 1. Ask Her Questions: People love talking about themselves so if you ask her interesting questions, she’ll enjoy talking with you and find it easy to like you. 2. Compliment Her Appearance: Girls love hearing how beautiful they are so give it to them!

Final Thoughts

If you’re looking for love, there are many ways you can attract women without saying a word. Women love confidence. To flirt effectively with women, first be sure that you feel like an attractive and confident man; do not let your insecurities show. The best way to get over those insecurities is by building up your skills and developing yourself into a man that’s worthy of attention from any woman he approaches.