The Secrets of How Love Works?

Love! Words come to halt when we start talking about it. It is something so strong and unexplainable. It knows nothing but to love. The Language of love is our feelings. Yes, my readers, it's nothing but our feelings. Love is what makes us in love. Don't know what to say about love!

Everyone falls in love with someone during their lifetime. Yes! Each one of us does fall in love. We flow through its waves, like a boat that flows along the flow of river. Our thoughts come to a pause and we enter an imaginary world. A world in which, you two live together. Your life becomes like a small sweet home where you and your love would live in the merry of your life! So cute and sweet!

We will start to feel a new feeling that we would have never felt in our life before. That will be one of the precious moments in our life where we will be completely helpless because we won't be able to express your love that you have for our partner. What does it feels like, when we are in love? Can you ever explain it?

What actually is happening inside us? Have you wondered what might it be?

Well, I'm going to show the spark of some amazing miracles that happen in us while we are in love with our partner. When we are in love with someone, a spurious chemical reaction takes place in our body. This uncontrolled chemical reaction is responsible for the way we feel our love. This chemical reaction is carried out by the hormones and neurotransmitters that are released while we are in Love.

Yes! They play an amazing and striking role in modulating the wave of love we feel.

The question is how? How this happens?

Let us see...

When two opposite sex comes in close proximity, they are likely to cross the 3 phases of the chain reaction of love.

We can put together it as in the following order.

(1)The Stage of Lust

The first stage is the stage of lust. It is common for men to get aroused first because a mere sight of a woman is enough to trigger testosterone production in a man and make him romantically attracted to her. This forces him to get around her so often. This is the thing that makes him get madly in love with her.

But in females for a woman love involves a total intimacy in which feeling, listening, caring and expressing love matter a lot. Unlikely Men's love is superficial. It is more about satisfying the physical need than an emotional need.

But at some instances women's generally have spike in mood for romance when they are at peak of ovulation cycle due to a rise in estrogen that drives her in to mood for romance.

(2)The stage of Attraction

Once the stage of lust is crossed, Men's generally experiences an attraction for the opposite sex. When one is attracted to another there is a rapid surge of hormones like adrenaline, serotonin and dopamine throughout his brains neural pathways. This can cause him to feel that strange feeling of love that he will be having for her. When dopamine is released he feels a sense of pleasure within him. So he starts to keep following her to get that same pleasure again and again. This cause the release of dopamine from the brain again, this makes him to go for her again and again to get the same pleasure that he experiences. This makes him feels more energetic and satisfied. The dopamine will spike up as long as she attracts his mind .

(3)The Stage of Attachment

Now what is that case in women's? Have you ever wondered why women bond better than men? Well, if not here is the answer. The final stage of love, Yes! the stage of attachment is marked by the release of the bonding hormone oxytocin. This hormone helps in establishing a bond between two people. Once the oxytocin is released, she makes a very strong mental bonding with her partner, which makes her impossible to think of any other person in this world rather than her hero (you). This hormone is also released during the peak of orgasm during sex. The more intimate the relationship, higher the production of oxytocin takes place in her. Women it is observed, generally get aroused on flirting and the sincere touch of a member of the opposite sex causing the release of this bonding hormone. Women look for true feelings and intimacy. When these feelings spikes up while opening hearts each other, it causes this oxytocin to get released in large quantities forcing her to get bonded to her lover stronger and stronger. The increased levels of oxytocin increase the commitment of a woman for her partner.

Yes my friends, this is the chemistry of our love! Love can never be expressed in words except through our feelings. Our feelings are the one that generates these neuro hormones that make us feel our love. Here are the 3 seeds of romance that act as a catalyst for this chemical reaction of love.

(1)Be open and frank this will create intimacy and this will create bonding by the release of the bonding hormone "oxytocin" in her.

(2)Be attractive to your partner, this will cause release of testosterone and dopamine that will please him.

(3)After all, the fundamental thing that your partner (husband) expects is not this attraction. It's the "goodness in your heart" for your partner.