The 101st time he turned me down

All this time, I thought he would always be there for me, whenever I needed him. Because he said he'd wait for me forever. But he went back on his word.

I went to college with him. I went to college when I was 16, two years younger than him. At school, I was always the little sister and got on well with many boys. Of course. I'm really close with him.

I really did not think about the love of men and women, maybe because I was young. Until that day, when he suddenly turned red and handed me a ticket to the movie, which, she told me, was a love story. It's corny. It's cute corny. But I turned him down flat out. I told him he wasn't my type and I wouldn't pick him, but he didn't back down.

For the rest of the time, he was around me all the time, caring for me, caring for me, anything, before I had to do it, he had already done it for me. But I told him he wasn't my type and to stop. He said he would wait until the day I said yes.

After graduating from college, we were both recommended to graduate school here, not in the same major. During the postgraduate period, he basically handled all the experimental problems by himself. Even my tutor joked with his tutor: Where is my tutor's son-in-law? Why haven't you seen him lately?

Five years of graduate school went by, and I was 25 years old. And I did consider choosing him. But he did not open his mouth. Why is that? I might still feel a little imperfect. He always looked scruffy, his hair untidy and unkempt. There is also too thin, although in the South is not too short, but less than 100 jin, I still prefer athletic boys. I told him directly why I didn't choose him, and he, always talkative, was silent for a long time. At the time, I wished he would leave, but then he said, "I'm the best for you, all my life."

After graduation, I stayed in school as a teacher, he chose to go abroad. At that time, my classmates saw him off. Instead of feeling sad, I felt a sense of relief. The person I've been around for seven years is finally gone, and I don't have to keep saying, "I don't like your type, just give up."

Soon I made a boyfriend, he is 6 years older than me, the family income is very good, working in his father's company, as a financial manager, a month can earn more than 10,000, house and car have.

But as the relationship went deeper, I found a gap. I said, he always MMM MMM, half understand not understand. I mean, he never gets it. The relationship lasted on and off for a year and a half before finally breaking up. At that moment, I remembered the one who always stood behind me with a smile, nothing came to him.

I have been a top student since childhood, and I was admitted to one of the best universities. When I was an undergraduate, I was recommended to be a direct doctoral student. When I was a doctor, I graduated as an excellent doctor. So I think people around me should be like this, I don't have to bother to express, but I was wrong.

I entered my 28th birthday in misery. The WOMAN OF 28 YEARS OLD SEEMS TO GIVE A PERSON ALTERNATIVE FEELING, ALTHOUGH LOOK IN THE MIRROR I DO NOT HAVE WHAT ABASED AND OLD FEELING, BUT PARENTS AND FRIENDS BEGAN TO WORRY FOR ME. So I went on a series of blind dates.

The blind date is either rich and vulgar, or dull and dull, or submissive and unintelligible. One by one, it only reminds me more of him in the sky. The wise, laid-back, caring, humorous, argumentative one.

At my associate professor review meeting, I suddenly found him. Sitting under the stage, eyes are still so bright, people are still so thin. Her hair still looked dirty, she was holding a pen, and she was sitting in the front row smiling at me. The only change, seems to be a little older, no longer like the young people who have nothing to argue with others.

It turned out that he had been brought back by the university as a talent, not in our department, but in a college. When I applied for associate professor, the university had already offered him a professorship. So he qualifies for a modest welfare house, not bad in a city where land is scarce.

I used to go to his house to advise him when he was renovating it. It was like four years ago. He brought me water, peeled fruit and answered questions about my work.

That day, he finished renovating his house and invited me to dinner. It's just the two of us, and the lights are beautiful at night. I knew what he was going to say, and I was a little excited and a little nervous. Sure enough, he said, we have a house, but we need a bride.

I pretended not to understand, in fact, I was hoping that he would continue to be as straightforward as four years ago, straight to the point: in this life I will let you know that I am the best for you. But he didn't. He just moaned for breath, didn't say anything.

When he sent me downstairs, he shook my hand, very tight, hold me some pain. Fortunately, he soon let go. Then he walked back without saying hello.

After the day suddenly awkward, he met me is just light, a head to say hello. They don't sit with me on the bus. He wouldn't talk to me while he waited for the bus. I asked him to be a committee member in my master's defense, but he also refused.

Finally I saw him and other girls together, laughing and talking, my heart is really sour, inexplicable and some anger. My best friend advised me to say, he began to chase me in the third year, I even if back to chase him again what? He's in his late 20s.

However, when I summoned up the biggest courage of my life to tell him, he even said, "I have a girlfriend!"

I also heard that he had a girlfriend, but how could it be so soon? Since I was 19 years old to now, so many years of feelings, he has waited for so long, he suddenly forget? Didn't he say he'd wait for me forever?

I cried all night last night. I've never cried like that in all these years. Do men really switch their feelings so easily? Is it true?