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Love won the battle by defeating the Khap

by heart we fell for each other

By A debnathPublished 4 years ago 6 min read

love gave life's goal

I fell in love when I was in 7th standard. There used to be a very beautiful girl in my class. Seeing him, I found the real goal of my life. At that time she was very weak in studies and she used to get good marks. I wanted to impress him. I got an idea to impress him. I decided that I would also come with good marks. From that day onwards, I started studying with all my heart and started paying full attention to my studies. I passed with good marks and came first. My colleagues and teachers were all surprised and happy with my progress. In the next session, I was made the class monitor. I became famous in my school. One day that girl asked for my copy and was very impressed after seeing my writing. We talked for the first time that day. The next day she came 30 minutes before school time and talked to me a lot. From that day we became friends. Even after many years, I could not propose to her. When I came to know that she is from a very rich family and from a very good family, I decided not to propose her now. I wanted him to be equal to the status of his family first and then tell him about my heart. So I left the village and moved to Lucknow and started preparing for NDA. Now my life goal is to pass this exam and then get my love back. He gave me the goal of my life.

Mama papa please agree

I work in a private office. I saw a girl's profile on Facebook a year ago, it showed her mobile number. I called him and say you hide this number or else the boys will bother you by calling. She was new to Facebook. I got scared after listening to me and asked my friend to get the number hidden.

His friend hid the number and from here my love story proceeded. We used to talk till 12 or 1 in the night. She was doing DIET course. She always forces me to concentrate on studies. I like his style very much. I asked one of her classmates on the day of Propose Day last Valentine's Day if the girl doesn't refuse to propose on this day? So he said yes. If you propose today, you will not refuse.

I got courage from her saying and I proposed her, she even stopped replying. Then I thought she got angry. So I said, I said this jokingly. Why did you become serious? So his answer came, I was happy but you should not have made such a joke. Speak the truth. I said oh no I have told the truth. I'm really starting to love you.

She started laughing. Took my words for fun. We started talking a lot again. After that when I went to my village, I was feeling very bad. I went to the village and told him that I feel very bad here. I have come to cry. Maybe this cry only opened my luck. Since then she started loving me too.

He forced me to come soon to Delhi. I came immediately after he said. When we met one day after 8 months, I was very ashamed in front of him. She kept on talking. She understands me well and I her. Now we have met many times. Now I'm not ashamed.

I love him very much. I will not tell his name. Maybe he doesn't like it. But the biggest problem is that our castes are different. Her parents are not ready for inter cast marriage. But I want to have him anyway.

She also doesn't want to hurt her parents. If he told anyone in the house, there would be a ruckus in the house. For this fear, he has not told in the house yet. I want to explain to his parents through you that do not believe in stereotypes like caste system. Please understand our feelings. We wish to spend life with your blessings.

Love won the battle by defeating the Khap

Love never happens by looking at caste, religion or language, it just happens. At the same time, in such cases, when the Khap Panchayats rise above the law and start taking decisions in the name of the good of the society, then the biggest problem comes at that time. A movie which showed how a boy and girl fight against the fans of Khap to save their love. One such anecdote had come to the fore in xxx village.

love in train

Village xx and aa living in its neighborhood started liking each other. The girl belonged to the upper caste whereas the situation of the boy was quite the opposite. Boy and girl were students of BA. While traveling in the train everyday to go to college, the two fell in love.

Khap decree

After a few days, the family members of both came to know about this. There was uproar after the incident. The girl's family banned her from leaving the house. Seeing no option, both had escaped from the house on June 24, 2010. After this the decision given by the Khap Panchayat was shocking. The family members of xx told that they were told to hand over a girl from their community to the village until they return their daughter.

father supported son

Meanwhile, the loving couple got married in August 2010 in the Allahabad High Court. xx's father and his family had accepted their relationship. The father had also put his signature as a witness at the time of marriage. Initially, in view of the danger, the son and daughter-in-law were not kept in the village. After the matter calmed down, the couple started living in the village. xx work now. They have two children and the family is happy.

by heart we fell for each other

A girl used to work in my office for a year. His B.A. Had my exams, took me off for 15 days. But from the next day I started getting his call, after 2-3 days I don't know what happened that I started waiting for his call when his phone didn't come till till 11 am, then I started feeling restless. After 7-8 days there was talk in the morning and evening. She came back from leave after 15 days, both of us took leave from office and went to Lodhi Garden, as soon as we reached there, the above was the intention, the weather also accompanied us and it started drizzling. We stood under the cover of a tree with an umbrella to avoid the raindrops. We did not know when we became two to one. It was as if we had known each other for years. He knew everything about me that I was the father of two children. Then I was 34 years old and that 20 year old virgin girl. She also knew that I love my wife very much and I also told her clearly that I love you but you cannot take the status of my wife. Our love grew day by day, even as we both considered God as witness in the temple and put Jaimala around each other's neck and became husband and wife in our mind. Many relationships came for him, he refused. I proposed marriage in front of him, he clearly said that I cannot spoil the life of Didi i.e. my wife and children. Our love has turned 5 years old, now his age was 25 years, he rejected all the relationships that had come till now and told clearly in the house that I should not get married. One day he took him to the old fort and told him clearly, either have a relationship where the relationship comes or marry me and if you do not listen to me, then I will not see your face for the rest of my life. After all, after explaining for 4 hours, she got ready and got married according to the wishes of the family members. I went to his village for his wedding. Today he has been married for 7 years and has 2 girls. Today his maternal, in-laws and my family have a good relationship even though we both are from different states. Even today we love to solve each other's family problems. Believe me friends, my love is still alive and will be alive. Today, both of us play our relationships of love, in maintaining relationships or showing the right direction in society. I would say that achieving love is not love, but understanding, sacrifice, life is love. As if I have not told that girl's name and my name yet, because by writing the name, wherever these two names will come in someone's family, a wall of doubt will arise.

Love

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