Dear Future Wife, I hope you read this someday. (1/2)

Dear Future Wife,

I hope you read this someday and understand the weight of every word, each carefully placed to express my dreams, fears, and the tender desires of my heart. This letter is a piece of me, a glimpse into the man I am and the man I strive to be for you. So, wherever you are right now, I want you to know that I’ve been waiting for you—patiently, even when it hasn’t been easy.

A Journey of Growth and Resilience

You see, my journey to you hasn’t been straightforward. It’s been a road paved with lessons, failures, and countless prayers. I’ve loved before, and I’ve lost. I’ve given my heart to someone who couldn’t hold it, and for a long time, I wondered if love was meant for me. But even in the darkest moments of heartbreak, I’ve never given up on the idea of us. Because deep down, I know you’re out there, and the thought of you has kept me going.

I’m not a perfect man. I’ve made mistakes, some of which I’m not proud of, but every misstep has been a stepping stone, shaping me into someone worthy of the love I hope to share with you. I’ve worked hard to grow—to be more patient, more understanding, and more focused. I’ve learned to embrace my flaws and recognize that true love isn’t about perfection; it’s about finding someone who sees beauty in the imperfection.

A Life Built on Dreams and Purpose

Today, I’m 25 years old, and my life is a tapestry woven with experiences that I’m eager to share with you. I’m a man of dreams and ambition, always striving to be better, not just for myself but for those I care about. My passions are many: I’ve spent years exploring the world of finance, trading in forex, crypto, and stocks. I’ve devoured books by visionaries like Jeff Bezos, Dan Lok, and Robert Kiyosaki, drawing wisdom from their journeys. Teaching and motivating others is something I hold dear, and I’ve found purpose in helping others discover their potential.

But there’s more to me than numbers and goals. I’m the eldest of four boys, a role that’s taught me responsibility, compassion, and the importance of family. I’ve known the camaraderie of playing football on the field and the thrill of competing in video games. I’ve cheered for Arsenal through their highs and lows, a testament to my loyalty and belief in perseverance. And while I’ve spent countless hours working in data centers and servers, my true joy lies in the moments when I can unwind and dream about the life we’ll build together.

A Promise of Unwavering Love

Dear future wife, I want you to know that I’m ready to love you fiercely and deeply. I’ll cherish every quirk, every laugh, and even the silences we’ll share. I’ll be your biggest cheerleader, your partner in every sense of the word. I’ll work tirelessly to build a home where you’ll feel safe, valued, and adored. A home where dreams are nurtured, and love grows in abundance.

I don’t have all the answers, but I promise to face life’s uncertainties with you by my side. I’ll hold your hand through the storms and celebrate the sunshine with you. I’ll respect your individuality, encourage your passions, and support your goals. Together, we’ll write a story that’s uniquely ours, filled with laughter, tears, triumphs, and the simple joy of companionship.

There will be days when we’ll argue, days when we’ll feel the weight of the world pressing down on us. But I promise never to let go, no matter how tough things get. I’ll strive to communicate, to listen, and to understand. Because our love will be worth fighting for, every single day.

Until We Meet

So, until we meet, I’ll keep working on myself, preparing for the moment our paths finally cross. I’ll keep dreaming of the day when I can look into your eyes and say, “I’ve been waiting for you.” And when that day comes, I hope you’ll see that every experience, every heartache, and every step of my journey was leading me to you.

Yours always,

Gbenga (O2G)