What it's like to really let go of someone.

After breaking up for many years, many people still haven't really let go.

How does it feel to be unable to let go of one person?

Maybe after a long time apart, you can still live each other's life, even if there is no other person in your life. You can talk and laugh with your friends, choose your life freely, and try to start new feelings again and again. Whatever it is, you can't think of that person, because if you think of it, you will be overwhelmed by regret and heartache.

It's not that simple to really let go of someone.

Have readjusted to life without each other

If you want to let go of a person, the most basic thing is to adapt to life without the other person.

It's easy to say the word "break up", but it's hard to put it down after breaking up.

The first process that makes you feel difficult is the process of adapting to a person.

Before you, everything would be together. Eat delicious food and think about eating with each other next time; Get off work a little earlier, thinking about spending more time with each other; Silently remember the time when two people are together and the profound things. Every time I think back, I feel beautiful and romantic.

These good memories and habits will make you feel uncomfortable after breaking up. It seems that there should be another person holding his hand, but when I look back, I find myself alone.

Re-adapting to life without each other is the beginning of real letting go.

I don't care about everything about each other at all

After breaking up, I always have nothing to look at each other's movements. When chatting with friends, you will inadvertently mention things about each other, and want to hear a little news about each other from friends.

Love is over, but care continues.

It seems that there is a little connection with the past, just like when we haven't broken up, just because we are busy and have no time to meet each other. When I am lonely, I still think that there is a person who is as lonely as himself because of breaking up.

Really let go, it's not like this.

Is after breaking up, focus on their own things, no longer care about each other's situation, no longer care about. Even if you accidentally hear people mention it, you can't attract your attention.

Think of the past, also won't feel regret and heartache

For a relationship that can't come to the end, we often regret it.

I always think that if I had been more mature and patient, I might have had different results.

When regret and heartache always surround the heart, how can they really let go?

To really let go of someone is to think of the happiest memories once together, and no longer feel regret and heartache. Maybe I will feel happy and happy, but I know that it was just once. It has nothing to do with the present and the future.

No matter whether the other party is doing well or not, they will not feel that they need to pay attention to themselves. The best predecessors are not entangled, but become strangers.

After breaking up, you can't really let go overnight.

This is like a process of rediscovering ourselves. Although it is difficult and regrettable, it makes us better understand our own standards and requirements for feelings.