WHAT IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS FAMILY

What is the key to success in a family?

Love and relationship

While many families live in constant conflict, others know how to overcome it.

Conflict is inherent in every human relationship, including in a family context.

Yet many families give an impression of success, of living together and of coherence.

So what is the key to success in the family?

How to live happily and fulfilled under the same roof  ?

Here are some ideas for reflection.

Having projects, building together, that’s the key

Communicating and sharing, the foundations

As with any human relationship, communication and sharing are factors of cohesion .

This is even more true within a family, which experiences the development of its members over several years.

This means that between parents and children, it is important to find a communication and relational balance.

There is no miracle recipe  : each family must find its own dynamic.

This is why the creation of these foundations rests above all on the parents, who precede their children in the family.

Communication is an art that can take time  : as each person's aspirations, needs and way of seeing things evolve over time, you have to adapt your message.

It is important to have regular moments of sharing , even when everyone is going about their school or professional activities.

If Sunday is an ideal day for this, you have to find other times during the week  : after an extracurricular activity in the evening, during a meal ...

Building trust, an essential pillar

A family that succeeds in understanding and loving each other is a family that has been able to create bonds of trust throughout the years .

Indeed, the family is a neutral place, where judgment should not exist.

Feeling good in your family allows you to flourish and find happiness, including in your other relationships, both friendly and professional.

In this sense, parents have a role model to play , which is not always easy to maintain.

You are the guides in the face of error, because you also have the experience and perspective necessary to provide advice.

Children model their parents: if you don't listen, if you are judgmental or mocking, then they will repeat that pattern.

This is why trust is an essential pillar  : it is the trust you have in each other to undertake things within the family framework, but also the collective trust you build to give each other the space to evolve.

This second dimension is often more difficult, because many members of the same family have divergent interests, and share little or are not ready to make sacrifices.

This trust is built through the experiences lived by the family  : you must therefore create a positive and engaging dynamic so that each member of the family can express themselves, speak, feel like they are growing, parents and children alike.

If trust is the cement of all human relationships, knowing how to listen and tolerate is a very important dimension within the family!

Tolerating and listening, an important dimension

The family must be, above all, a place of freedom and expression, secure and reassuring.

Many young people grow up in a form of repression where they do not feel free to exist as they wish: this is because parents do not know how to listen and do not know how to communicate.

Thus , through communication, a family can learn to listen to and tolerate each other.

Let's be realistic: living with the same people for years can create tensions.

This is often the case between children during adolescence, when they discover their own needs and their own ambitions.

It is important to take these tensions into account and not try to erase them.

They are part of the family building process .

In this case, there is only one possible attitude: tolerance and listening.

Family relationships are very important, especially when everyone is going through difficult personal challenges: there is no scale to measure them, just emotions to experience.

And this is best experienced as a family.

Knowing how to tolerate and listen is an important dimension to maintain within the family, to be able to build together and succeed together .

Sharing family moments is essential to strengthening your bonds  

Building together, the key to success

Through communication and sharing, families build themselves and their family identity .

Parents prepare a legacy, which children may or may not wish to continue, thanks to the education they received.

The key to success lies in the family's ability to meet individual and collective challenges with the same level of communication and love.

In this, the power of education is limitless: if you instill family values ​​in your children, they will be more likely to reproduce them.

If you teach basic understanding of the world, it is with these that your children will go into the world of work.

Giving them the best possible weapons is your responsibility.

A successful family is one that builds itself and is not afraid to change or adapt in the face of external challenges, whether financial or societal difficulties.

Accepting your family is essential to carrying out all these actions that bring people together: sharing, communicating, tolerating, listening...

These are keys to your development, as a parent or child, and to passing on the keys to success to you in turn.