Until her father's death at the age of 91, a 52-year-old Japanese woman went 35 years without working, going out, or socializing.
She left a sad note asking for forgiveness regardless.

It's been a while since I've seen a name like # Female 996 wage less than parents high retirement fund accept nibbling old #, to to the chagrin of many young people.
Others claim that even working hard, young people can only earn a low wage due to strong social pressure to consume the elderly;
Others contend that since adults are not children, her parents are not required to give her a home. It goes without saying that a guy needs to provide for himself. How is it possible to consume outdated food?
Regarding "gnaw on the old" this issue, it is usual for parents to assist in a child's home purchase. Most "gnawing" people are not hard or lethargic, and they only gnaw when absolutely necessary.
Those who do nothing and keep their parents' pensions at home are the most perplexing. One such story is told in the Japanese documentary "9060 Family," which I recently viewed.
The numbers "90" and "60" stand for his 91-year-old father, 52-year-old daughter, and 63-year-old son, respectively. This daughter has lived in the same home for 35 years.
She has to bite the elderly person, not because she is under pressure at work or in her personal life, but rather because she is frightened to interact with others outside of her father's protective cocoon in order to feel safe. In the end, they are totally alienated from society.
While the father could initially afford her, he was unable to keep her under his control.
Otaku in Japan doesn't imply you never leave the house; you might (for example, you might visit the grocery store or a tourist attraction), but you essentially don't talk to anyone else for longer than six months.
It's difficult to believe Keiko, 52, has lived in this house for 35 years. She rarely leaves the house and doesn't go to work. Daily activities consist of eating, sleeping, watching TV, using a phone, and occasionally teasing a guinea pig.
Living a life of inactivity was not enjoyable. She had lost her senses after thirty years, and now she was only numb to life.
She therefore continues to hold a cell phone while doing nothing while seeing her 91-year-old father clean the house while carrying his frail body on his shoulders.
Even the grass for the guinea pigs was mowed by the elderly father, who traveled 10 minutes away from home, once a month.
The elderly father had achieved global success while working for a huge manufacturing company in his youth, but he had not anticipated living in this manner in his later years.
Since his wife's death 16 years ago, while she was suffering from dementia, he has been living on 180,000 yen a month on his own.
The entire family is supported by the pension.
He might have made a good living with the money, but his 63-year-old eldest son, who has been living at home since he was hurt and lost his work, costs him 40,000 yen per month in gaming and 20,000 yen per month in smoking.
negative 24,000 yen Little of the 180,000 yen was left over after paying for the family's living bills, food, and rent.
The old father established a rule to wash clothing every four days and take a shower every two days in order to effectively manage the money. He meticulously noted every consumption area in the text.
The old father was compromised because of this gnawing old status quo, despite his desperation to commit himself with a knife to his stomach, which he finally failed to do.
Nothing exciting was coming up for him. "Not thinking about money, just living safely, that's all," he said, "I was just living for the purpose of living."
He simply asks for everyone's pardon for "having a child that can't do anything."
The old father was compromised because of this gnawing old status quo, despite his desperation to commit himself with a knife to his stomach, which he finally failed to do.
Nothing exciting was coming up for him. "Not thinking about money, just living safely, that's all," he said, "I was just living for the purpose of living."
He simply asks for everyone's pardon for "having a child that can't do anything."
In an effort to raise a child who can respect others and be respected in return, her parents gave her the name Jingzi.
She hasn't been able to speak with people since she was a toddler, making it difficult for her to express her emotions. She attended a technical school for one year before leaving. She was totally cut off from society after "staying at home."
She appears to be the lone one with nothing to do and no growth when compared to her peers her age who are getting married and working. She had the impression that everyone had abandoned her.
Tomorrow, start giving it more thought. But she didn't for 35 years.
Keiko recalled that her father had never expressed anger toward her. She didn't respond when her father bugged her, even though she was irritated by it. I was informed. She was finally gradually giving up.
The second brother of Keiko, who initially resisted moving into such a home and spent time apart from his family, is the only member of the family who is "normal." He only started to gradually rejoin the family when his father vanished.
Every time he returned home, the family had a rare moment of happiness. He would accompany Kyoko to her mother's grave, buy Kyoko and her father clothes, and bring a ton of delectable food. Keiko appears to have been out so frequently that she is now taking action.
My elderly father passed away abruptly moments afterwards due to a brain tumor.
When the burial was completed, Keiko, 53, was still perplexed. She probably never imagined that her father would pass away permanently one day. I have no idea, she admitted. Throughout, not a single tear was shed. Her brother didn't even show up for the burial because he was hiding out at home.
The unintentional discovery of her father's suicide note, which stated the following:
"We appreciate your many years of support,"
Finally, I simply have one more item to ask for your forgiveness.
The funeral was uncomplicated.
"Son and daughter, look after each other and live if you can't live alone."
The date when Jing Son's father wrote these words is unknown. After reading her a word that she was unable to express, tears eventually started to fall. The man who raised him did not hold her responsible until the very end of his life.
Yet without her father's protection, how would she survive?
The second brother of Jing son refuses to accept the father's suicide note's proposal to let the eldest brother and sister cohabitate.
He requested 130,000 yen per month for them (6,799 RMB)
The older brother will probably need the younger sister's help if they live together.
Because Jing Son's physical and mental health are not in the best of shape, their second brother in Nagoya rented her an approximately 10-square meters of the house.
She'll be living independently. She will find it difficult, but it will be for the best.
With the assistance of the staff at the relief office, Keiko finds that her existence alone is not as terrifying as she had thought.
She first visited the dentist because she had a poor mouth.
I went to the beauty parlor after getting my teeth fixed.
and kept pets as companions.
Also, Keiko has made a buddy who belongs to a nonprofit organization that her second brother founded for those with closed hearts. She could relate to Keiko completely because she had been imprisoned for approximately a year and a half.
Friends who come to the house to worship the son just struggle to get along, but after the house is clean, she gradually lets go of their own. She was moved just by the act of "doing it together."
Keiko made her first batch of stir-fried noodles as she was cooking. It wasn't difficult, she claimed.
She later groaned, "I wish I had talked to people like this sooner," in front of her brother. She once believed she couldn't exist on her own, but today she views life as a miracle.
But after just two months, she experienced a return to her previous feelings of uneasiness and loneliness.
Keiko, who is 54 years old, still feels excluded from society. She doesn't alter at all; everyone works or stays at home. She has moved and is in greater contact with people, yet she is still the same old, and that disturbs her.
Maybe she needs a "career" where she can demonstrate her development or evolution. What she had been constantly terrified of is not as difficult as she tries to make friends.
Keiko leaves at the conclusion of the documentary. She appeared unafraid of anything as she wandered the streets alone, went shopping alone, and returned home holding stuff.
As no one is actually alone, I sincerely hope that Jingzi can continue to get over her inner anxiety, gradually gain confidence, and quickly achieve spiritual independence.



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