These kinds of behavior of children should be stopped in time

There must be a degree of indulgence for children, you can not follow everything, for some of the child's behavior and habits parents should promptly stop, master the education of children, to make children aware of their behavior and habits are inappropriate.

It is the nature of parents to love their children. This love should not only include wisdom and wide storage, but should also be loose and tight, to draw a clear line between "can" and "can not" for their children, so that their behavior has a chapter to follow, learn to endure a moment of discomfort, annoyance, and even endure the necessary The following are some of the behaviors of children that must be stopped promptly, and must not be soft, not to mention the tolerance into connivance.

not get to do it

The children were playing in the sand, one of them grabbed the toy bulldozer of a small partner, unsuccessfully, a bite to each other's small hands. As a result, the bulldozer came to hand as expected.

Solution: For children who bite, parents must seriously criticize, let them know that biting is wrong, and has caused harm to children, must personally apologize; at the same time, let them understand that children who are not willing to lend their toys to play, he should learn to accept this less than desired.

In addition to criticism and reasoning, a certain amount of punishment is essential, and the opposite of punishment is presented to him: pampering and soothing the child who was bitten. This will teach the child that attacking others is not only unlikely to be successful but also that there is no benefit to be gained so that he or she will consciously refrain from aggressive behavior.

Take the child by the hand

The child shows you a pair of crystal shoes and tells you that he or she picked them up from the floor of the child's house.

Solution: Immediately take the child to return the item and have him apologize in person: "I'm sorry I took your things home to play with them, but I'm returning them to you now. With the process of "returning things to their rightful owners, so that children learn the courage to admit their mistakes.

3, 4-year-old children do not have the concept of "property rights" and the sense of belonging and think that what they like and want is their own. In this regard, parents should not take a "no more" attitude. Remember the old saying: Don't do anything for the sake of good, don't do anything for the sake of evil.

See the toy can not walk

In the supermarket, you refused to buy Barbie, but your daughter clung to it, no matter how much you explain, but also sat on the floor.

Solution: show your attitude to the child: not to buy toys today, because just a short time ago bought a set of Barbie dolls.

If the child does not listen to the parents and is unreasonable, you may want to ignore it and continue to choose other items or pretend to leave and let him or her sit on the floor and cry. It is not wise to compromise, or the child's capriciousness will intensify. After the child has calmed down, reason or tell a story to make him or her understand that children who know how to behave are liked and that spilling and crying will result in nothing and is annoying.

Not sleeping when it's time to sleep

It's time to go to bed at 10:00 p.m., but the child has dolls and stuffed animals spread out on the bed.

The solution: Point to the cartoon clock on the wall and tell your child it's time for bed, and tell him to rest on time so he won't be late for kindergarten the next day. No child goes to bed voluntarily; they never have enough fun. If parents allow their children to stay up late over and over again, it is difficult to develop a routine and good habits. So, no matter what reason your child finds, parents need to find a way to refuse.

Sky Girl Scattering

Before going to bed, the 6-year-old child takes off her clothes and casually throws them on the table or stool, or even one sleeve drops to the floor.

Solution: Say to your child, "Put on your pajamas, and then fold your clothes. Didn't the teacher ask you all to fold your clothes neatly before your nap in kindergarten? The teacher also told mommy that she did a very good job and sometimes helped the children. Mommy knows that you are a very orderly child. Come on, mommy, look at the clock, you can be sure to finish in 3 minutes, so start right now." When you say these words, you don't have to speak loudly, but you must be soft and firm.

Children like to hear good words, and the mother's emphasis on good behavior is a positive incentive for them. With repeated supervision, children can gradually learn to take care of themselves and know how to take responsibility.

I want to play all at once

When it's time to end the game, your 9-year-old is sitting in front of the computer and not moving.

Solution: show your tolerance to your child, "Okay, you have 5 more minutes to finish the game, and if it's not over, you won't be allowed to play tomorrow either."

Computer games are addictive, and children are even more so. So, parents must set a time for their children to play games, say once a day for about half an hour, and strictly supervise their compliance. Make it gradually learn self-restraint and self-control by obeying the external binding force.

In addition, 5-10 minutes before the specified time, parents can remind the child once, so that the child is psychologically prepared for the possibility of leaving the computer on time.

Covering up the truth with lies

An 8-year-old child uses his "kung fu" skills to smash a vase to pieces. When his mother asks him about it, he says the family cat did it.

Solution: Encourage your child to tell the truth: "Tell mommy, what happened? It's not scary to drop a vase, it's scary to admit it. Mom likes children who are honest and brave enough to take responsibility for their actions." This will dispel your child's worries, encourage him to tell the truth, and "hug" him and praise him at the first opportunity.

Children 6 and 7 years of age and older know that lying is wrong, but do it to avoid punishment. If you believe him, or even if you don't believe him, you're encouraging the habit, so that he gets deeper and deeper into the mire of lies.