The Characteristics of the Perfect Child *

Every parent can sometimes dream of the perfect child: cute as a teddy bear that you always want to hug and so smart that he does not know where he inherited this! But alas, your baby is so far from perfect!

What would the perfect baby look like? First of all, he would love school: he would never have a problem, he would be a little genius in mathematics, a genius in literature, and he would know foreign languages ​​from the diaper!

And besides being so brilliant in school, she would be a class star: far from being ridiculed by other children, she would be the most beloved classmate of all time, her classmates would write her poems, and her teachers would love her as his child!

The perfect child would never need homework help, on the contrary, he could teach you something! Outstanding intelligence, elephant memory, artist creativity! Where did this little work of art come from, is it from you?

The perfect child, although brilliant at school, also makes time for hobbies! But not unnecessary and dangerous hobbies - if you told him to watch a TV series, read a comic book magazine, or play Counter-Strike, he would roll his eyes and answer: "be serious (a) "! No, he would go back to his Discovery documentary about World War II, or his book about the Big Bang, or the general computer game on the computer!

He is so versatile and talented that he fills his free time with various activities: cycling in the park, playing tennis/football, reading as many books as possible - but always valuable, even taking violin lessons! Nothing he tries goes wrong!

And he is not even isolated: although he has so many activities, he always finds time for friends. And his friends are so cute that you'd like to adopt them all! They do not waste their time with childish and useless games, but they formed the Literature Club, where they gather on Thursday night and discuss a book, the Swimming Club, with monthly competitions, and the Creative Club, in which everyone reads their written poems. in the last month!

Yes, the perfect baby and his perfect friends know what to do with their time! And even though you're worried he won't get out of the house long enough, he's amazingly good at sports too! He is the head of the school's tennis/football team and a true-born leader! Because he knows that it is not enough to form his mind, he must also take care of his body!

Therefore, the perfect child will turn up his nose if you show him a pizza at the table and he will tell you: "mom/dad, you only know how many calories this has and how unhealthy it is for the human body! Don't we have some cauliflower and chicken breast? " As for sweets, he never put up with them, he always prefers an apple or some cereal bars, only the smell of chocolate makes him sick! Yes, your child knows how to take care of him!

Not to mention how much he likes to help you! No matter what you impose on him, he came to you one evening and suggested that, from now on, he take the garbage, wash all the dishes after dinner and clean not only his room but also in the kitchen! If you remember correctly, this is how he said to you: The role of a parent is difficult, so allow me to show my eternal gratitude by helping you with one thing at a time! " And she shed a tear for you and you hugged!

Moreover, she wants to learn to cook, because she told you that she dreams of being a chef as talented as you and to pamper her partner in the future as you pamper your husband/wife! Yes, how did such a miracle come out of you?

Have you read this far? Did your laughter overwhelm you or maybe a bitter smile? Logically, because this perfect baby does not exist! Think now about your child: he may have great problems with mathematics or he may not be able to memorize any verse from the poems given at school.

Maybe he is taking care of other younger children or maybe he is the one that others are taking care of! Maybe one of his teachers is constantly calling you complaining about his behavior in class!

And maybe he spends all his free time with stupid and violent computer games and vulgar TV series! Maybe his friends form the most annoying and noisy gang of little monsters you've ever seen! Maybe all they do together is play as a team on that monstrous computer and read porn magazines secretly! Maybe all he agrees to eat without a grimace of disgust is pizza, shawarma, and steak!

Maybe if you don't serve him dessert one night and give him an apple in return, he'll tell you he hates you! And maybe even if you ask him to wash his plate, he doesn't care and leaves the kitchen sullen and locks himself in his room!

Yes, most certainly he is irritated by his hobbies, he is irritated by the fact that he does not care enough to learn and reading is for him a mystery, he is irritated by his noisy friends, he is irritated by eating only nonsense, to help you a little even if you ask him on his knees…

Because that's how children are, incomprehensible to adults and a little selfish: they live in their world, totally separated from your boring world. The perfect child would understand you and make your life easier, instead the real child does not understand anything you say and complicates your existence!

Just remember what you were like at this age: were you a little genius at school, reading non-stop, eating only salad, and always helping your parents in the household? Certainly not!

This is because he/she is not the perfect child, but it is much more than that: he/she is your child!