pregnancy
Growing your family, one baby bump at a time. All about the ups and downs of nature's 9 month miracle.
Diaries of a pregnant woman
Diaries of a pregnant women Serious thoughts Let us begin in December of 2019 where my husband and I began to have serious conversations about bringing life into this world. I’m not sure how everyone else felt about that year but I had noticed some unusual events. Just to name some that made a big splash in 2019. Cannabis was legalized in October of 2018, but it wasn’t until the beginning of 2019 that I began to see its effects. I’m stating what I saw. One morning in the bathroom of my college where I studied. Two girls looked up at me from the bathroom sinks where they had been rolling their blunts. Surprised they both asked me if I wanted some, which I replied no thank you. I continued onto the bathroom stall and went about my business. One girl told the other that I wouldn’t report them. When I was done, and I came out to wash my hands they were gone. They were right. I did not report them. That was because the college I was at highly respected personal choice and were behind on posting signs. There were no signs signalling where to smoke. Nor were there any signs saying they could not role their items in a bathroom. We received a letter notifying us once it had been legalized and that areas would be added into our school. At this point when I saw these girls, signs were absent. What might this one occurrence I had have anything to do with a child. Well before I continue to explain let us look at two other events. The Canadian government had previously warned us (students) about changes in tuition, funding and loan opportunities. In fact, if anyone signed up for loans, the small print specified that they could change policy when they desired. I guess it was more of a shock than anything else. However, those who take loans or will take loans in the future will have to begin paying back a percentage. Now most people were confused about whether or not there was still a grace period for the upcoming potentials that would apply for a loan. The truth is that it is still there but there are changes that occur during the grace period. In the past there may have been some charges pending or made from the federal government (let's call them interest). That would later be added in accumulation to the original full amount due to the loan. Yet the province was not applying any type of fee and the full amount (plus federal interest) wouldn’t be charged until after 6 months. It was called a grace period. The truth is that the federal government was still charging, and it would not be seen until the end. Reminder: I am a pregnant woman who got her information from all over the internet, so I just suggest you go look and find your own. Anyways back to the point, the loan still has its grace period, and everyone got confused for nothing (currently still am). It will have interest coming in from somewhere but does not have to be paid immediately after graduating. The last unusual event was the rise in shootings. From 2018-2019 the shooting cases increased and I’m not sure if we just hadn’t heard about them until then. Toronto Canada had some in Danforth, as did Hamilton and in July of 2019 there were more. First, when did guns become normalized in Canada and secondly why hasn’t anyone found out how they are being brought in. Among the increase in fame from YouTube, snapchat, Instagram and other rising media platforms that exposed some odd stories. My husband and I were concerned about what type of world our future child would come to. I think, and this is just a personal thought. That every couple thinking about having children may ponder about what type of world their child will come to. In all realism my husband and I discussed having a family way before we married. When we were friends those conversations came about due to our positions at the time. Myself as a youth worker who had worked with children as little as 8 to teenagers. My husband who had past volunteer and mentoring experience with children and people his age. It wasn’t until December 2018 that we were getting serious since our long journey of academic study was ending.
By Melanie A. Arnold6 years ago in Families
Can an app help conception rates?
Did you know that global fertility rates are falling? In 2019, the UK birth rate was 11.488 births per 1,000 people — a 0.48% decline from the previous year. One of the lowest levels since fertility was recorded in 1938, while the highest peak of fertility was recorded in 1947. Since then, this has dropped by 45.9%. Although this might appear that as a society, we’re becoming less fertile, in actual fact many of us are living longer and consequently having children later. With traditional family roles changing and women choosing to focus on their careers before starting a family, the fertility rate naturally falls. For example, in 2019, the average age of first-time mothers was around the ages of 30 to 34 years old, whereas in 1970, it was 21 years old.
By John Hannen6 years ago in Families
What Makes Me Tick
What Makes Me Tick I don’t know about movies. I haven’t read all the latest and greatest novels. As much as I adore music, I know very little about a lot of musical artists. Twenty- some odd years ago, for all intents and purposes, I dropped off the face of the earth. This pseudo death wasn’t a bad thing, it was a needed thing.
By Shirley Cairo6 years ago in Families
My natural home birth wasn't lucky, I planned it that way.
When I mention that I had a natural uncomplicated home birth with my daughter people tell me I am "really lucky" to have had that experience. The more I've heard this the more irritating I've found it! I wasn't "lucky" I planned my birth and I researched everything I possibly could to ensure I was prepared. I knew what my body was doing and why it was doing it. I had a birth plan that was over three pages long, most of it was about the fact I wanted to be left alone as much as possible to do my thing and concentrate on the job at hand because I had complete faith in my body and my baby to do what needed to be done without intervention.
By Lisa Sherratt6 years ago in Families
The Best Age to Freeze Eggs for Future Pregnancy?
Egg freezing is a method used to save women's ability to get pregnant in the future. Mature oocyte cryopreservation is another name of egg freezing. When the eggs are frozen and stored for future use, it is known as egg freezing. The frozen eggs can be thawed, combined with sperm in a laboratory. In the future, whenever the eggs are needed, they can be implanted in your uterus through a technique called In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). One must seek expert advice before deciding for fertility preservation. It is advisable to know all the related potential risks before opting for egg preservation.
By Femicure Healthcare6 years ago in Families
Panorama Results
Results are in and the check-up has been scheduled. In the summer of 2016 it was about 100 degrees in the Denver area. It was hot, I was over-heated. I was taking on a new job and was in the process of moving half way across the country for that promotion. I should have been nicer to myself, but I didn't. I sucked it up and put on my big-girl britches (Wow, where had those maternity pants been all my life? I definitely recommend jumping on that band wagon sooner than later- and for any reason). Although this child was planned, I didn't know I was stacking all of the life-changes on the plate at the same time. Oh hey, Buffet-of-Life, I'll take this and this and this! Yum! Also to my defense, when you have no children you think you can do everything at the same time.
By Hold Still6 years ago in Families
What I learned during COVID19 lockdown
When COVID19 hit the UK in March, I was forced to spend an unimaginable time with my parents. I love them dearly, but I think anyone in their 20s and after returning home from the freedom at university, would feel the same way. It just requires a lot of patience from all participants if you know what I mean…
By Lucy Hansard6 years ago in Families
A First Time Mom
I thought I was living my life to the fullest, I had the world in my hands, I never thought the real joy and happiness in life is having such a beautiful baby girl. That's what they called her; nurses and doctors, not having picked out a name for her yet. But, before I start I have to go the beginning, how my life was changed from just this beautiful experience I never thought would happen, especially not at 20 years of age. My life wasn't great, my childhood wasn't perfect, and the many horrible things my siblings and I endured are beyond belief. Although life wasn't great it did take time and it was on the right track, at the age of 18 I grew up and put all my nonsense behind me.
By Shania Rivera6 years ago in Families
Miracle: A First-Time Mom's Experience
First thing's first; there are A LOT of things that nobody tells you about childbirth. The truth is, though, it's a miracle and I'd do it all again. I'm really not writing this to scare anyone, but to educate future mothers on what's ahead. Not that I'm crazy experienced with motherhood (I mean, I have a 6 month old), but I'm telling you the truth, and I'm going to run you through it all. Just kow that no matter how you feel now, the day your baby comes none of that will matter!
By Zehna Reddon6 years ago in Families
