Six behaviors that scare men. Tips for women! "Don't put him on this false pedestal."

If you have met a person with great potential to become a life partner, it is time to make sure that you will not spoil the beginning of a wonderful love story. Find out what are the behaviors that scare men away!

The reason why this is important to know is because the reverse of these behaviors are actually what draws men closer. What seems beautiful in the moment can disappear in a second if you send the wrong message.

Behaviors that scare men

1. You are not being honest with yourself

It is said that waiting actually attracts more desire from the other, trying to create the appearance that you are a very busy person. But when you try to appear to be something you're not, people sense this imbalance. So, when you are yourself, the man next to you will feel it and be much more attracted to you.

2. You are way too distant

By doing this, you will not imply that you are interested in him. You don't compliment him, you don't tell him you're attracted to him, you don't get excited when he calls you. This is because many times, many women will want to create the impression that it is difficult to get into their good graces, as if they are not that interested. But men don't invest time in relationships where they don't feel they have a chance. If you show him that you are interested in him, you will tell him that you want to get to know him, this will really attract him, and he won't be scared or away.

3. You treat him like he's perfect

If women use to tell men that they are absolutely perfect, men take this as putting them on a pedestal, having a false view of themselves. So the moment you really get to know him, the moment you discover his flaws, and he has a lot of flaws, you tend not to want or love him anymore. Therefore, it is extremely important to accept the person as they are, being aware that you will also discover their imperfections.

"What's much more powerful is actually having the vibration of love and acceptance, that you agree with him, that you're willing to love him for his imperfections, that you're willing to accept him as he is. Don't put him on this false pedestal. Being loved and accepted for who we are is actually one of the strongest draws and strongest forms of connection we can have in human beings.”

4. You have a way too straight attitude

So men don't like to feel wronged. This attitude of entitlement is disappointing for men. An easy and simple way to flip the script, instead of scaring the man next to you, is to attract him with gratitude. Regardless of the level of success we have in our lives, what is known is that the most successful people are often the most humble, the ones who will be the first to say thank you, who live this state of gratitude. So, women need to give more gratitude to men when they make gestures of any kind.

5. Do not give him confidence in his powers

This behavior shows men that you don't believe him, that he can't do certain things. Often they appear as innocent suggestions, or as intervention or help with certain things, because you know how to do things much better, and can show them how to do it in a much more efficient way, with a much better result good. But, men have the need to give, and the ability to understand on their own. They may consider the fact that the woman thinks they can't get the job done. So, it's important to let him do the work, creating a stronger bond with him.

6. The instant relationship

Men want to feel chosen, above all the other options you had. So when you get into a relationship and just try to get to know him, communicate with him more because it's a bonding factor as a commitment. When connection actually exceeds commitment, it moves the relationship forward. So let the connection deepen, naturally attracting commitment for both of you.

"When connection drives commitment, these two factors are joined by an energetic cord. And when you deepen the connection, it actually drives the commitment forward. It's like a man going on a first date with you and taking out an engagement ring and then proposing to you. You will say <<No.>>, and you would think he is crazy and you would not want to meet him again. Why? Because you didn't want to create a connection with him."